I'm far from a true player, but I have the mentality that I own the whole damn world.
I really believe this and it seems to work out pretty well for me. This state of mind has gotten me over AA, rejection, and all sorts of other little problems.
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| Author: | justme16 [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:47 am ] |
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How do you think and act around girls that help you stop thinking about rules of PUA and the way you act covers all the rules anyways like being able to pass shit test without thinking about if she gave you one or not. If you can answer this you will help me out a lot |
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| Author: | TheAce [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:51 am ] |
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I think what you're asking is how you get to the point of it all flowing naturally. In short, practice, practice, practice. The more you go out and work your game the more natural it all becomes. |
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| Author: | justme16 [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:53 am ] |
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yes I know but what is your mentality when you reach that level? I know you forgot about all the rules pua has right? But you probably have no problem picking girls up because you know how to act to get them. |
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| Author: | TheAce [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:57 am ] |
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You don't forget about it you just think about it less. The same way as you become really good at a throwing a frisbee you dont have to think about it as much but you still know what you have to do. Just because you get good at it doesn't mean you disregard all you have learnt. |
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| Author: | justme16 [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:04 am ] |
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ok I understand now it just becomes hardwired into your thoughts |
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| Author: | David~ [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:24 am ] |
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I don't focus on the girl. I focus on my performance. I don't give a damn what she thinks, I do and say what I really want and if she digs it, supersweet, if she doesnt then I stay solid until she falls into my frame. There's always a way to win a girl over. If you focus on yourself during a pickup, you forget all about the target and you really loose all anxiety and don't second question yourself at all. Shit tests are just tests. There's many ways to pass, but the best way to do it is make her go through her own hoop. If you can challenge her and prove her wrong then you pass. EDIT: I don't do and say what I want, but I have a list of topics that I use to open up conversations that her to invest herself in me emotionally and elicit positive feelings. Another thing to keep in mind is ignore her values, they will always change by who she is surrounding herself by. If she surrounds herself around you, her values will change to yours. so make sure you talk about your values when rapport is set. |
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| Author: | Waffle [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:50 pm ] |
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I'm far from a true player, but I have the mentality that I own the whole damn world. I really believe this and it seems to work out pretty well for me. This state of mind has gotten me over AA, rejection, and all sorts of other little problems.
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| Author: | David~ [ Fri Jul 18, 2008 8:25 pm ] |
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Idk about owning the whole world, but if you have the mentality that you have the ability to control the girl's emotions, feelings, and everything that the two of you will do togethor it should be a big positive. Staying 100% positive about everything is also a big inner game booster. my-game-has-changed-im-sharing-inner-ga ... highlight= |
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| Author: | lithe [ Sat Jul 19, 2008 3:19 am ] |
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Okay so i read many Bruce Lee books. The steps too become a master:(this gets too a good point, keep reading) Quote: The Primitive stage: The stage of naturalness, one simply fights with no scientific aspects just instinctively. The stage of Art: This is where one thinks about what is being done and works for specific moves and techniques. One may know what to do but it isn’t natural and can be stifling. The stage of Artlessness: One realizes that martial art is nothing special and instead of trying to impose his mind on the art, he adjusts himself to the opponent. Nothingness prevails; he no longer is confined by his method of training. He Is martial art. --Bruce Lee Okay, to some it up, eventually you're skills of pickup become so honed, it becomes natural too you. you become a mpua. |
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| Author: | Rye Lee [ Sat Jul 19, 2008 5:53 am ] |
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If I could tell you how to think like I do when I do something, then I would be a rich man. I can break stuff down, hypothetically, or after I have done something, or seen someone else do something, but you're asking how we think, when we aren't thinking about it....do you see the contradiction there? As you've already been told, it just get's to be a natural way of thinking and you don't have to go through all the steps, kinda like in math when you get good at it, you don't have to do all the steps, you just know. |
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