Liking it and 90% agreeing, I just don't like this perpetuated myth that indirect is "lying and decietful", it's never really directly put that way, but it's implied far too often.
Other than that cool post
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:39 pm ] |
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A word from Christiano Jr. - Revolution31.com I had a great opportunity to speak with Christiano Jr. for a good hour and a half last night going over my game in a 1 on 1 phone consultation. I happen to win a contest on Barry Kirkey aka Extramas's radio show and this was my prize. Christiano Jr. is one of Barry's best instructors and teaches the Brazilian's program which focus's on natural game. There is a little bit of what he said I wanted to share with you. For those of you with Vault Access you can read the entire conversation in there on my member journal. When talking to Christiano one of the points he emphasized with me was that he teaches direct game, and really doesn't like indirect game. The problem with using someone else's material is at some point you're going to run out and you're going to have to be yourself. At that moment you are no longer going to be congruent with what she's seen so far in the interaction. As he said, "One thing a woman doesn't want to see is you being incongruent." He went on to talk about how women have intuition about these things...Read what he had to say below. Note these aren't exact quotes these are his statements based on my abbreviated notes. The reason why this is....Girls have a way much more than guys. We're kind of strong in a way. We have lots of survival values. We kind of more strong than girls on many levels, and we have qualities a woman don't have. You know the ones. One thing a woman has it's the intuition. She has much more intuition than guys do. The reason is because they don't have the strength to protect them. They have that to protect themselves and whether they should go here or not. Should I be attracted to him or not. Intuition is guiding them. We don't have strong intuition. We can always use our strength to solve a situation if it goes bad. Many others things we can use too. The know they feel it, they almost have 6th sense that they know. One thing they love in a man...alpha man has in common very powerful quality. It's CONGRUENT. The moment you use indirect game, there is a moment you start and then that's the moment, you are being incongruent. They are going to go away. They don't want to be with someone who is incongruent. She's thinking, "One time he's this and now he's that." I want you to be aware of being congruent. I have my flaws too, just like you do. I'm just playing off the qualities I have if my flaws surface then I'm not ashamed, and they have their flaws too. Be congruent with who you are, don't be ashamed, and don't apologize. Be a man and be more natural...be more genuine and authetic. The last hting she wants is to see you being incongruent. You're not being true to yourself. The secret to dating is about getting to know each other. She needs to know who she's fucking. SHe could just by interacting with you for a short time her life could change drastically change, or she could get pregnant. Sometimes she wants to know who she's fucking so if she gets pregnant, she knows something is going to connect her for the rest of her life with you. That's why she looks for these qualities to see if you're real. If something happens she knows who she's dealing with. I think this pretty well explains the needs to be congruent, original, and authentic with the girl you are after. Although, I am not totally against indirect game I am very much for you writing your own stuff. Use your own openers and routines. Take the concepts of that stuff and make your own things so that they fit you! BE CONGRUENT!!! For more information about Christiano Jr. please visit www.Revolution31.com/Staff.aspx |
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| Author: | Fin [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:36 pm ] |
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Liking it and 90% agreeing, I just don't like this perpetuated myth that indirect is "lying and decietful", it's never really directly put that way, but it's implied far too often. Other than that cool post
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:45 pm ] |
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Quote: Liking it and 90% agreeing, I just don't like this perpetuated myth that indirect is "lying and decietful", it's never really directly put that way, but it's implied far too often.
I agree, and when talking to Christiano he never really implied that exactly. However, if you're using Mystery's ESP, and routine stacks and then in comfort you're you and not Mystery there is obviously going to be some incongruence which I think we can all admit.
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