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Author:  Smarts [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:  How to respond to "Im bored"?
I swear to god that has to be womens favorite line. I have been told that very line numerous times and am fed up with having an AFC responce to it, can anyone tell me what they say to combat that?

I was thinking something along the lines of "maybe its because your not here with me", but personally I think thats kind of AFC.

For anyone who responds, thanks a lot!
Author:  Okiokdan [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:45 pm ]
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Your response is C&F. You could also use: "Are you bored or just boring in general?" At least, something like that ;)
Author:  dannydub619 [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 5:46 pm ]
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wait, are you talking about being on the phone with them, and them saying they are bored, or you are actually hanging out with them and they are bored?

If you are on the phone with them, and they say this, then you have been on the phone for too long. Talk on the phone as least as possible

If you are in person and they say this, say something like, "I am too, entertain me."
or "Then why dont you stop being boring?"
Obviously in a joking way
Author:  Smarts [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:01 pm ]
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wait, are you talking about being on the phone with them, and them saying they are bored, or you are actually hanging out with them and they are bored?

If you are on the phone with them, and they say this, then you have been on the phone for too long. Talk on the phone as least as possible

If you are in person and they say this, say something like, "I am too, entertain me."
or "Then why dont you stop being boring?"
Obviously in a joking way
Im talking about on the phone, through texts. i know a lot of PUA cringe at the though of text messages, but in todays society younger people use them a lot. They are not implying that they are bored with me, they are just saying they are bored in general.

Many girls have said this to me and it is like they are putting me on the spot to entertain them or something. I never really know what to say...
Author:  Rye Lee [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:29 pm ]
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wait, are you talking about being on the phone with them, and them saying they are bored, or you are actually hanging out with them and they are bored?

If you are on the phone with them, and they say this, then you have been on the phone for too long. Talk on the phone as least as possible

If you are in person and they say this, say something like, "I am too, entertain me."
or "Then why dont you stop being boring?"
Obviously in a joking way
Im talking about on the phone, through texts. i know a lot of PUA cringe at the though of text messages, but in todays society younger people use them a lot. They are not implying that they are bored with me, they are just saying they are bored in general.

Many girls have said this to me and it is like they are putting me on the spot to entertain them or something. I never really know what to say...
In this case I generally bust out something utterly random, although if I can link it to a recent conversation, then even better. I was talking to a girl a little while ago about unicorns and what colour they were and other random junk, then she was asking what I was up to and so instead of saying, "I'm bored and not doing a whole lot" I say, "Going hunting for unicorns". Utterly random shit trips girls up and they think it's funny.
Author:  Love John [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 7:55 pm ]
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well just remember, women tend to think emotionally rather than logically, and she thinks of boredom while she thinks of you, who's fault would that be?

yours of course. it sucks, but when talkin to an hb, and she gets bored, its your fault.

but yeah, if she says she's bored just toss a neg her way, especially something that conveys the fact that she is boring you and she needs to spice it up... or at least something along those lines, lol
Author:  Fin [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 8:12 pm ]
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well just remember, women tend to think emotionally rather than logically, and she thinks of boredom while she thinks of you, who's fault would that be?

yours of course. it sucks, but when talkin to an hb, and she gets bored, its your fault.

but yeah, if she says she's bored just toss a neg her way, especially something that conveys the fact that she is boring you and she needs to spice it up... or at least something along those lines, lol
A Neg could work, but if you're not using the standard Mystery Model it could look out of character.


In person I'd just say "me too" then do something wild that will rock her socks of.
Some options;

1. Tell her you're going to play a game "think of a number between 1-10" "now spend that much in £'s/$'s on a bus ticket on the next bus to stop at the nearby bus station.

2. Feeling comfortable? K-close; if appropriate F-close

3. Walk away, she'll follow, find something to do.

4.(Across the phone), Arrange a meet up using standard phone game, she'll go for it, if it will break the boredom of her day.
Author:  Okiokdan [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:31 pm ]
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I actually had something similar to this line. "Tell me something nice/funny."
I've had this quite a lot by 1 girl and it got ME bored of always making something up, same shit same story. Advice?
Author:  Fin [ Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:38 pm ]
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I actually had something similar to this line. "Tell me something nice/funny."
I've had this quite a lot by 1 girl and it got ME bored of always making something up, same shit same story. Advice?

"Oh not this "I'm bored" shit again, I have another girl who does this, and I end up bored as a result, you are not doing this too me lets go do something"

Try the same with the say something nice line.
Author:  Smarts [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:10 am ]
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well just remember, women tend to think emotionally rather than logically, and she thinks of boredom while she thinks of you, who's fault would that be?

yours of course. it sucks, but when talkin to an hb, and she gets bored, its your fault.

but yeah, if she says she's bored just toss a neg her way, especially something that conveys the fact that she is boring you and she needs to spice it up... or at least something along those lines, lol
Dude, chill out. I was not the reason she was bored. Here is the typical stuff I am talking about.

Her: "Hey Hey"
ME: "Hey. What are you up to now?" or "whats up?"
Her: "Im bored" or "just bored"

Thats what I am talking about. It wasn't like we were in the middle of a conversation or something, then she said "Im bored". Since, she reached out to me (when she is bored) I am assuming she does not view me as boring. If you where bored would u contact a boring person? Didn't think so...

I just was wondering what some other PUA would do in that situation.
Author:  Smarts [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 5:16 am ]
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I actually had something similar to this line. "Tell me something nice/funny."
I've had this quite a lot by 1 girl and it got ME bored of always making something up, same shit same story. Advice?
I think I got something for you man.

If she sent you something like that again. You should send her a message back, BUT with something NICE/Funny about yourself. Turn the tables on her. Instead of complementing her when she says that, complement yourself.

example:
her- "tell me something nice!"
you- "i'm a caring person and walked an old lady across the street"

Just something random like that. It will get a laugh out of her and get the conversation flowing around you, instead of her...

-Smarts
Author:  Roads [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:04 pm ]
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I say "I'm bored" when I'm bored. Then I demand to be entertained. It's awesome.
Author:  5uave [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:09 pm ]
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In my opinion...
"maybe its because your not here with me"
Very AFC of you.
I would throw down a neg.
"Bored eh? Girls who are bored all the time tend to lead boring lives. Get a hobby or something."
(In a playful manner of course)
Vocal presence and tone is everything though.
Hope it works out.
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 2:18 pm ]
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Then I demand to be entertained. It's awesome.
... and Roads makes my day again. I do the same thing; I ask them to tell me something interesting/funny, and as they go

'uhmmm... lets see here...'

I respond with a sigh and 'alright fun machine, I'll give you five minutes to think about it while I go get some smokes/talk to someone else/shop online for a chihuahua carrier' (Rye is right, random shit is awesome). Priceless.

I particularly like 'just bored or boring in general' response. Give Okiodan here a round of applause.
Author:  brodel [ Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:36 pm ]
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although you are talking about being on the phone when someone says im bored i say this

"someone once told me if you are bored than you are boring"

I say this to them because i truely believe it and being bored is a self induced desease. sometimes they get the vibe that im really intelligent and it turns them on.

later
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