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Author:  pollykok [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 2:24 am ]
Post subject:  GF talking to other guys

Whenever another guy (or my friends) start a conversation with my GF it makes me feel wierd and kind of hole up and get shy and not talkative.

Any help?

Author:  Romantic100 [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:22 am ]
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ok one dont get mad always remain happy honestly I have done alot of girlfriend stealing in my days but upfront your safe dude and if this is the case you should pick out better dating spots for you and your girlfriend..But just keep your cool and remember your in control so the girl will follow your lead be the leader you can leave and she will follow :D

Author:  chadbaxter [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 3:51 am ]
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You definitely need to be more talkative when other guys are around. Remember you're the man and you got the girl, so act accordingly.

Author:  FireBlane [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:35 am ]
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My big brother told me this metaphor,

When you go to sit down at dinner, if there is a fly buzzing around your food, if not dealt with immediately, eventually it will land on your food.

Easy way to deal with situations as I had preformed last night, to to steal the groups lime light, Always ask them how do they all know each other, Use DHV techniques, throw in a few tricks up your sleeve, even if your girl seen it 100 times, these guys don't know that. And right when everyone is focused on you, HIT ON YOUR OWN GIRLFRIEND. AND create this union between u 2, separating everyone else, they will continue to look in as the observers, and you have successfully protected your plate from the swarming flies.

Author:  Rye Lee [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 9:52 am ]
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My big brother told me this metaphor,

When you go to sit down at dinner, if there is a fly buzzing around your food, if not dealt with immediately, eventually it will land on your food.

Easy way to deal with situations as I had preformed last night, to to steal the groups lime light, Always ask them how do they all know each other, Use DHV techniques, throw in a few tricks up your sleeve, even if your girl seen it 100 times, these guys don't know that. And right when everyone is focused on you, HIT ON YOUR OWN GIRLFRIEND. AND create this union between u 2, separating everyone else, they will continue to look in as the observers, and you have successfully protected your plate from the swarming flies.
This is good stuff and you should all pay attention to it!

Remember, don't EVER get aggressive and angry though, remain friendly, even if other guys try to make you look bad, or get aggressive on you; in the end, you WILL look better to the people who matter (in this case the girl).

Author:  Slipfinger [ Sat Jun 21, 2008 1:18 pm ]
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Well let me first start off with asking how long have you been seeing your girlfriend, months, years weeks?

2nd, do you trust her to handle herself well in a situation where some other guy tries to run game on her?

SF

Author:  Mjaaay [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:27 am ]
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happens to me too, sometimes some other guys are just MORE interesting than you and you really can't push him away, especially during some situations where you guys will be hanging around for some hours. Getting AMOGed sucks, and there isn't too much of a counter for that when your friend amogs you subconsciously, very untactful of him to do so, fucking naturals needs to learn their position on the food chain and show some respect.

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Author:  Rye Lee [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:48 am ]
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happens to me too, sometimes some other guys are just MORE interesting than you and you really can't push him away, especially during some situations where you guys will be hanging around for some hours. Getting AMOGed sucks, and there isn't too much of a counter for that when your friend amogs you subconsciously, very untactful of him to do so, fucking naturals needs to learn their position on the food chain and show some respect.

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Make them your friends and then they are being interesting to you, not directly at her. Combine this with the advice of doing something between the two of you in order to fuck with any chemistry that may have been building between others and make them uncomfortable, then you're not gonna have much trouble.

Author:  Mjaaay [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 1:58 am ]
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Quote:
happens to me too, sometimes some other guys are just MORE interesting than you and you really can't push him away, especially during some situations where you guys will be hanging around for some hours. Getting AMOGed sucks, and there isn't too much of a counter for that when your friend amogs you subconsciously, very untactful of him to do so, fucking naturals needs to learn their position on the food chain and show some respect.

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Make them your friends and then they are being interesting to you, not directly at her. Combine this with the advice of doing something between the two of you in order to fuck with any chemistry that may have been building between others and make them uncomfortable, then you're not gonna have much trouble.
They are my friends
They are, truly, more interesting than me
BUT I know the game and the girl is mine, but it still makes me feel angry to some extent when guys do it, maybe a case of a manipulative control freak who doesn't want their girl interact with any guys.... thanks for the advice but in this case i think it's some self esteem problem

Author:  Ezo [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 2:36 pm ]
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Ok, whenever someone starts a conversation with (tries to steal) my MLTRs I go about it in one of these two ways depending on how dangerous the guy seems.

Weak uninteresting AFC: I shake my head, smile and enjoy the show while girl-signalling with my girl to make sure she sees the humor in the situation.

Natural or attractive guy: I fire up an interesting topic, starting with other people in the group and going over to talk to him in a very friendly way. Welcoming him to the group in a very nice friendly but definately alpha kind of way. (Running the set.)

Oh I thought of a third...

PUA: I just discretely tell him "My set bro" "Do I know you from somewhere, I dont remember, its a MYSTERY, by the way I really like your STYLE" Most PUAs get the point.

Ezo

Author:  Chris T [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 3:46 pm ]
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Oh I thought of a third...

PUA: I just discretely tell him "My set bro" "Do I know you from somewhere, I dont remember, its a MYSTERY, by the way I really like your STYLE" Most PUAs get the point.

Ezo
Hehe, Actually quite nice! If I ever run across a PUA I will so use this one!

Author:  Rapture [ Sun Jun 22, 2008 6:04 pm ]
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Depends how much you can trust your girl really. My main LTR, she wouldn't do ANYTHING, and I mean ANYTHING until she broke up with her boyfriend. Possibly one of the strongest wills against cheating I have ever seen. However, she is, like myself, a complete flirt and flirts with anyone and everyone at any given moment. Because of this, I never have to worry about her with other guys. Her flirting doesn't bother me because hey, I do it too. If it really bugs you, talk to her. Just don't come off as needy and jealous, that is never attractive.

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