PUA Forum :: What are the real reasons why girls leave the relationship

Did you treat her badly?

yes, didnt give her much attention. and hurt her a few times. she knowns that i kissed another girl, toward the end of the relationship she did told me that im boring

is there any chance of getting her back?

i love her very very much.

i stopped goin to the gym, and become skinner. didnt act apha ish and stopped being cool in general.

Try having multiple long term relationships. This keeps you naturally busy and makes you a scarce resource to the girls. Now don't create jealousy or even talk abou the other girls and be up front about that situation. Or you counld just sit down and make a percentage chart as to how much time you're going to spend with your girl, but which one sounds more fun to you?

this is so confusing man, i love to spend time with her 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. but the core of all this PU is not to telegraph too much interest, show a willingness to walk away, show that u have other girls (pre selection), and thats what i did. she thinks i dont love her.

how do i strike a balance.??

That's pick-up. Relationship "game" is totally different from pick-up.

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That's pick-up. Relationship "game" is totally different from pick-up.

I disagree. There are some differences certainly, but I think they have more in common than different.

During a relationship, as in pick-up, you must continually demonstrate attraction to keep yuor value high (or she will get bored and leave), and you must continue to build comfort and intimacy (or she will grow distant and eventually cold). You will always want to maintain a dominant frame, never supplicate, be spontaneous, etc.

In fact, the more I learn about pick-up, the more I learn that the fundamentals don't really change in any situation.

Author:	Financialwar [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 2:37 am ]
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any ideas guys, just got dumped by my gf of 6 months.

Author:	christopherphilip [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 2:44 am ]
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Boredom. It's age related though.

Author:	Financialwar [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 2:48 am ]
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thought so, although she told me it's coz i treat her bad.

Author:	Solomon II [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 2:59 am ]
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Never listen to what they say. They don't try to mislead you on purpose, but they will give you all kinds of reasons so as not to hurt your feelings. If she said you treat her badly and you don't, it means she's trying to justify herself doing something wrong and is leaving because of guilt. That's my experience, at least. Who gives a shit anyway, you guys weren't gonna be together forever... 6 months is a good run, now you're free and can do what you want.

Author:	danks [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 3:25 am ]
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there are so many reasons. you want the root? because she thinks she can get a better gene's than what you represented to have. that fine, happens to us all. actually they are not looking for the supreme set of gene's, they are looking for somebody which represents the best set of gene's they think is correct and that they could get. for now, your representation was a little weak. don't lower your esteem because of this dump. learn from it. she dumped you because you are not trusting yourself, and that the whole key to it. think of it, and get improved dude.

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Author:	Fiction dTAJIr8v [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 3:50 am ]
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Did you treat her badly?

Author:	Financialwar [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 4:53 am ]
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Quote: Did you treat her badly? yes, didnt give her much attention. and hurt her a few times. she knowns that i kissed another girl, toward the end of the relationship she did told me that im boring and lots of guys chase her and she's 100 times better than me in the looks department. is there any chance of getting her back? shes my first girl that i picked up using seduction, and the hottest. i love her very very much. most of my threads i made here on this site is about this girl. i took her virginity, so i thought that would mean a long term relationship. and i let my game down, i stopped goin to the gym, and become skinner. didnt act apha ish and stopped being cool in general. its been a week since we broke up, im really depressed. she said she's goin to look for a white guy (she's white, im asian). physically we asians can not compete with white people. does that mean my game is gone with this girl and/or most white girls. to be honest, i would never had thought in my whole life that i would get to go out with this girl, it's been like a dream. i've been calling her, sms her. i know it will only show desperation and neediness but what can i do??

Author:	Financialwar [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 6:01 am ]
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this is so confusing man, i love to spend time with her 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. but the core of all this PU is not to telegraph too much interest, show a willingness to walk away, show that u have other girls (pre selection), and thats what i did. she thinks i dont love her. how do i strike a balance.??

Author:	Waffle [ Fri Jun 13, 2008 1:10 pm ]
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Try having multiple long term relationships. This keeps you naturally busy and makes you a scarce resource to the girls. Now don't create jealousy or even talk abou the other girls and be up front about that situation. Or you counld just sit down and make a percentage chart as to how much time you're going to spend with your girl, but which one sounds more fun to you?

Author:	SnowShow [ Sat Jun 14, 2008 2:59 am ]
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Quote: Try having multiple long term relationships. This keeps you naturally busy and makes you a scarce resource to the girls. Now don't create jealousy or even talk abou the other girls and be up front about that situation. Or you counld just sit down and make a percentage chart as to how much time you're going to spend with your girl, but which one sounds more fun to you? are you suggesting sarging during the long term relationships as well?? Or just setting yourself up so that when/if they are over, you have a set value and can bounce back easily?

Author:	Head First [ Sat Jun 14, 2008 4:21 am ]
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Part of it has to do with them what that what now may not be what they wanted 6 months ago.. If she just turned 21 she may just want to go out and have fun but what ever you do dont, gamming-the-ex-vt23200.html

Author:	Okiokdan [ Sat Jun 14, 2008 11:03 am ]
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Quote: this is so confusing man, i love to spend time with her 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. but the core of all this PU is not to telegraph too much interest, show a willingness to walk away, show that u have other girls (pre selection), and thats what i did. she thinks i dont love her. how do i strike a balance.?? That's pick-up. Relationship "game" is totally different from pick-up. BUT now you know this, you will most likely won't fuck this up next time It takes some experience in relationships to find a balance, it depends on the girl aswell. It's really hard, but you will get over her! It just takes some time. Good luck!

Author:	Fiction dTAJIr8v [ Sat Jun 14, 2008 3:52 pm ]
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Quote: That's pick-up. Relationship "game" is totally different from pick-up. I disagree. There are some differences certainly, but I think they have more in common than different. During a relationship, as in pick-up, you must continually demonstrate attraction to keep yuor value high (or she will get bored and leave), and you must continue to build comfort and intimacy (or she will grow distant and eventually cold). You will always want to maintain a dominant frame, never supplicate, be spontaneous, etc. In fact, the more I learn about pick-up, the more I learn that the fundamentals don't really change in any situation.

Author:	Hopeless Romantic [ Sat Jun 14, 2008 7:48 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: That's pick-up. Relationship "game" is totally different from pick-up. I disagree. There are some differences certainly, but I think they have more in common than different. During a relationship, as in pick-up, you must continually demonstrate attraction to keep yuor value high (or she will get bored and leave), and you must continue to build comfort and intimacy (or she will grow distant and eventually cold). You will always want to maintain a dominant frame, never supplicate, be spontaneous, etc. In fact, the more I learn about pick-up, the more I learn that the fundamentals don't really change in any situation. I must disagree a little. When you're in a relationship I think the most important thing is to remain alpha. Once you're dating her you don't need to always DHV and build comfort/attraction/intimacy. You do need to show that its still there, but you don't need to show her all the time. Once you're dating her she knows its there otherwise she never would have picked you in the first place. I do agree with never supplicating and being spontaneous. Girls love that.

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