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I cope with it, but it annoys me! how can i change it.
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Author:  madals [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  I cope with it, but it annoys me! how can i change it.
Well, firstly give me some love, my first pickup after finding this forum and GAME! :D

Now, dont get me wrong i am quite happy, what a sucessful day... i couldda F-closed but didnt due to the fact she had to go to some meeting (bugger it). Anyways, unfortunatly this isnt just a brag :lol: ....

So, there we were, i K-closed her (admittedly a little late, it was a dvd at her house and i tried to get some reaction outta her but she was playing tough) and it went pretty fast from there..... No need for details but lets just say i am good at foreplay. So, whats the problem? I have never known a girl to be so quite :O No seriously, i mean not a word or moan outta her the whole time :O Now, before any of u smart asses say i need to learn how to use my tongue :P lets just say there were other things letting me know i was hitting her spot. So my question is, how can i get to be more vocal about what she likes? what she wants, what feels good etc etc? I tried encouraging her but it was all single word answers "yes" "brilliant" "more" which is all well and good, but nothing more followed.... Any advice would be great, HB8 and all so its nice, but silence is a little akward :P

/madals
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 9:01 pm ]
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Learn how to use your tongue ;-).

Also, if you get a girl to talk during sex, odds are she'll enjoy it more. Female orgasms, unlike those of men, are mental - yes, they can be achieved without ANY physical stimulation. Your most powerful sex organ isn't your cock or your tongue, it's your vocal chords.

The second piece of information I found invaluable is that women derive extreme sexual pleasure from knowing that they are pleasing the guy. Mention that it turns you on when women moan during sex. When she does it, reward her by verbalizing how much you like it: 'Moan for me more baby... Ooh, your moans turn me on soooo fucking much' or anyting along those lines. The point is to establish a connection between her pleasure and doing whatever it is that turns you on, sometimes called 'anchoring'. If you do it consistently, you can completely change the way she acts in bed - I've turned a sweet romantic girl into a wild animal by teaching her to associate pleasure with scratching my back (yes, I am weird... fuck you)

You can also try more direct hypnotic commands. Ask her how (fucking) good she feels, then tell her that she feels even better when she moans. Prompt her to moan, then ask if the pleasure is more intense. She only has one response to this, and it's the right one. You've established that moans feel great for her, so prompt her to moan more, and remind her how much it turns you on.

It's very fucking repetitive, but trust me, this shit works. If you wanna learn more, I've gained a great deal of knowledge from David Shade's phone sex manual. I keep yapping on about it, but it's the single most valuable resource I've stumbled upon in the community.

Enjoy.
Author:  Second Chance [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 9:17 pm ]
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I've turned a sweet romantic girl into a wild animal by teaching her to associate pleasure with scratching my back (yes, I am weird... fuck you)
Nothing more rewarding than a good set of scratch marks if you ask me, nothing turns me on more than feeling nails dig into my back. :wink:

- SC
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 11:21 pm ]
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At the risk of sounding weird, I couldn't agree more - but scratching is just the tip of the iceberg for me. But let's not make this a public discussion on our preferences, instead let's focus on helping Madals sort out his mildly annoying dilemma :wink:
Author:  trackjunkie [ Tue Jun 10, 2008 11:58 pm ]
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i've had girls relatively quiet until penetrated by the cock. Try that and let us know.
Author:  ace_of_spades [ Wed Jun 11, 2008 1:18 am ]
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Oh, holy shit, I didn't even realize that wasn't a full close. Gotta work on my reading comprehension.

Yeah, try the cock first.
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