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Author:  Impact [ Sat May 31, 2008 7:17 pm ]
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K, well recently I've been meeting allot of women, strangely enough they've been coming up to me not the other way around. And they’d use some cool openers, like;

"Excuse me, can you help me write a text on my phone, I just got it and I have no idea how to use it. "

The phone didn’t look new at all but whatever a dates a date ;)

Anyway we are not here to talk about that, we are here to talk about Married women! Recently i met this girl called Mandy HB 8.5, and I noticed that me and her had a amazing connection! we just clicked! the thing is she’s married and unhappy about her marriage! She got hitched about a year ago, and theyve been having alot of problems in their relationship. Shes 24 and has no kids with him or even wants any. Now the interesting thing here is that I'm religious and I can't exactly hit on a married girl, despite going out and kino escalating, comfort building and negging, and having her sit on my lap and cuddle up with me.. aside from that I haven’t made a move to do anything else to solidify my go on her. And I've had opportunities, like in the car she asked me to kiss her, so i kissed her on the cheek as if I didn't see her as more then a friend and walked out! simply because i feel it would be really messed up otherwise. But If something just happened in the moment, would that be wrong?

Any thoughts and suggestions?

Thanks
Author:  Rye Lee [ Sat May 31, 2008 7:52 pm ]
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I personally have a rule; I will not run game on girls in a committed relationship. Generally speaking, this means if they are engaged, or married, they are off limits. If on the other hand, they tell me they are unhappy in their marriage, then they're obviously not committed to it and are looking for a reason to end it.

If she's not committed to her relationship and she's looking for a reason to get out of it, then you're pretty much doing her a favor aren't you? Just don't be the long running affair. Either she decides she doesn't want to be married anymore, in which case you can see where things go, or if she won't leave her husband, then you can't let yourself be the dirty little secret, because that's disrespectful to you and is gonna end up with you having some issues. She may want a taste test first though, because she may not know for sure what she wants to do until she's with another man and realises there's better guys out there than her husband. I'd give it to her.
Author:  Naked watchmaker [ Sat May 31, 2008 8:08 pm ]
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Life is evolution at work. Competitions is everywhere. Only the best survive. It really doesn't matter if she is in a relationship. If you together have a stronger connection than she and that other guy - go for it.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 11:21 am ]
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Life is evolution at work. Competitions is everywhere. Only the best survive. It really doesn't matter if she is in a relationship. If you together have a stronger connection than she and that other guy - go for it.
And people wonder why divorce rates are so high. :roll:




Relationships have their ups and downs. Just because a woman is unhappy because her relationship is on the down does not necessary mean she wants out right there and then. If she has been unhappy for a while she should be mature and end the relationship and find another guy, instead of looking for a reason to end things. To me to do such a thing is immature and disrespectful to the guy.
Author:  Second Chance [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 1:05 pm ]
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The way I see it, a marriage is just a relationship at the end of the day, all that makes it different is a ring and a promise of commitment. If this girl has been unhappy for a year like you said then why has she not ended it? If I were unhappy in a relationship for a year it would have been over and done with.

This girl clearly likes you and wants things to move forward, however I understand your feelings regarding her being married. You should address this with her, find out what her plans are and if she has seriously thought about ending it or if she just sees you as the happiness she needs to keep things at home running smoothly - knowing there is an escape from it all just one phone call away.

Best of luck,

SC.
Author:  SnowBlow [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 3:55 pm ]
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So you want to get with her...But cant (religious reasons) but you carry on gaming her.

Hmm.
Author:  Impact [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:45 pm ]
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Wiki defines it as:
"Adultery is the voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and another person who is not his or her spouse".

In christian terms adultery is:
"Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery".


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So you want to get with her...But cant (religious reasons) but you carry on gaming her.

No i have not used any boyfriend destroyers, or made any moves. All I've done is build comfort. Here is where its tricky, now according to Mystery, Kissing is part of comfort, its not part of sexual intercourse which is S1. So is kissing a married chick considered adultery?

I really should be using this as a opener ;)
Author:  Rye Lee [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 9:15 pm ]
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If you can lump anything into one catagory, then you're using far narrower vision than you should.

Kissing is attraction, comfort AND seduction. Women find a good kiss to be highly attractive, they also build comfort by seeing whether a guy is too forward, or if he is respectful with his kiss, but it is also seductive when you have a truly passionate kiss.

If you're gonna restrain yourself based upon religion, then you're gonna have a hard time, because basically everything people do can be judged as wrong by religion. Instead, take a lesson from Ghandi, who said, "I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians." Religion has strayed so far from what the principles intended, that you need to find what it means to YOU, just like being a PUA you have to do the same thing.

My buddy is a very serious Christian, but he applies the principle of loving himself and loving others as his highest law. Some people say pre-marital sex is against the religion, he does it and sees himself as true to his religion. Some people say the same for drugs and alcohol, but he does them and sees himself as true to his religion. He has found what it means to him to be a Christian and it is based upon the values that the religion teaches; loving others and loving oneself.

Find what your religion means to you, then you can figure out how to handle your life based upon that. If married women are out of the question, then don't go there. If you are like me and as long as they are unhappy and want to end things, then you're find with it, then go for it. If you need her to end it first, then tell her that's the only way it's gonna happen and if that isn't an option, then you guys can't continue and you move on.
Author:  Roads [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 10:08 pm ]
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Go ahead and tap it, don't worry about God, he's too busy not existing to notice you're fucking some unlucky chump's adulteratin' wife. The only power you'll have to worry about answering to is the guy's 12 gauge shotgun when he finds out.
Author:  BlueRed [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 7:19 am ]
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K, well recently I've been meeting allot of women, strangely enough they've been coming up to me not the other way around. And they’d use some cool openers, like;

"Excuse me, can you help me write a text on my phone, I just got it and I have no idea how to use it. "

The phone didn’t look new at all but whatever a dates a date Wink

Anyway we are not here to talk about that, we are here to talk about Married women! Recently i met this girl called Mandy HB 8.5, and I noticed that me and her had a amazing connection! we just clicked! the thing is she’s married and unhappy about her marriage! She got hitched about a year ago, and theyve been having alot of problems in their relationship. Shes 24 and has no kids with him or even wants any. Now the interesting thing here is that I'm religious and I can't exactly hit on a married girl, despite going out and kino escalating, comfort building and negging, and having her sit on my lap and cuddle up with me.. aside from that I haven’t made a move to do anything else to solidify my go on her. And I've had opportunities, like in the car she asked me to kiss her, so i kissed her on the cheek as if I didn't see her as more then a friend and walked out! simply because i feel it would be really messed up otherwise. But If something just happened in the moment, would that be wrong?

Any thoughts and suggestions?

Thanks
Dude i saw your fox!!! she’s damn stunning!!! dunno what to tell you bro, you could try to push it as far as you possibly can until she caves in, but that would be against your religion.

Man if we all sleep around with women then being married will have no meaning. Think about that, think about a dude who just got married and his girlfriend cheats, that’s messed up. What meaning does that vow hold?

Then again if she’s had no formal Christian wedding under god by a priest does her marriage really count??

lol now you got me thinking about it too!

don't do it, plenty of fish out there! there may be legal ramifications if you end up messing with the marriage, stay away.
Author:  Second Chance [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:20 am ]
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Then again if she’s had no formal Christian wedding under god by a priest does her marriage really count??
Of course the wedding still counts! A lot of people who get married aren't religious, a wedding is no longer a religious ceremony, it is a legal one.
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:57 am ]
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Then again if she’s had no formal Christian wedding under god by a priest does her marriage really count??
Of course the wedding still counts! A lot of people who get married aren't religious, a wedding is no longer a religious ceremony, it is a legal one.
I don' know where you live, but as far as I know in the US marriage is not a legal ceremony. It is a business contact that has attach meaning and emotion as well as status. Nothing more nothing less.
Author:  saqchek [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 9:56 pm ]
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If you don't fuck her, somebody else is going to. You are going to wind up in the LJBF zone if you keep this up, and then you'll notice other guys getting to tap that.

God doesn't care because he doesn't exist. What does exist is reality.
Author:  Second Chance [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 10:33 pm ]
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I don' know where you live, but as far as I know in the US marriage is not a legal ceremony. It is a business contact that has attach meaning and emotion as well as status. Nothing more nothing less.
I don't know where you live, but in most parts of the world a business contract is considered to be a legally binding document.
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Jun 04, 2008 11:43 pm ]
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I don' know where you live, but as far as I know in the US marriage is not a legal ceremony. It is a business contact that has attach meaning and emotion as well as status. Nothing more nothing less.
I don't know where you live, but in most parts of the world a business contract is considered to be a legally binding document.
Which is what marriage certificate is for the most part. As you agree to be with the person you married right? And if the other person does not hold up their end of the contract and/or wants out of the contract there is divorce which is also a legal matter.
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