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Author:  DJ_Secret [ Sat May 31, 2008 6:24 am ]
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This is a fun thread created for all you PUAs out there.
Feel free to share your stories and weird infos on the various one-itises you have had. We all know we were/are/have been there at some stage in our lives.Tell us how you were destroyed in "LOVE", how you coped with it and how your mindset has changed over the years. Those were just some of the guidelines , you can discuss anything you want...just let go/take out your frustration on that one girl , cry your heart out do anything you want.
P.S Humor oriented stories would be preferred. Thank You.
Author:  Hopeless Romantic [ Sat May 31, 2008 6:37 am ]
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Something I learned from my major one-itis (still stuck on her after 3 years...but alteast I can stand dating other people). Anyway, kino is soooo important. Me and said girl did absolutley nothing besides kiss. (This was way before I knew anything about pick-up). Though I wanted to touch her in otherways, I didn't for fear that I would stop feeling how I felt about her. In retrospect, I see by there being no kino that I made it so easy for her to see me as only a friend. And thus one of the reasons why she broke up with me.
Author:  Trevino [ Sat May 31, 2008 5:28 pm ]
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I am currently trying to get over a bad case of oneitis. This one is a bit tricky but I have done my best to fuck it up even more :twisted:

So, this girl has a bf that lives in another state. She and I are pretty much best friends and for the longest time I was in a relationship too. Well that changed not long ago and since then I have been chasing her a lot. We have hooked up a couple times but she always retreats back to her bf, even though they are constantly up and down on their emotional rollercoaster. I was trying to think of how to get over her so I hooked up with her best girlfriend. That kinda backfired bc now I think she is jealous. And on top of that, her best girlfriend is falling for me.

I really fucked myself on this. I know I should just move on completely but she is one of my best friends and I dont want to lose that. Any advice?
Author:  Lucius [ Sat May 31, 2008 8:46 pm ]
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I am currently trying to get over a bad case of oneitis. This one is a bit tricky but I have done my best to fuck it up even more :twisted:

So, this girl has a bf that lives in another state. She and I are pretty much best friends and for the longest time I was in a relationship too. Well that changed not long ago and since then I have been chasing her a lot. We have hooked up a couple times but she always retreats back to her bf, even though they are constantly up and down on their emotional rollercoaster. I was trying to think of how to get over her so I hooked up with her best girlfriend. That kinda backfired bc now I think she is jealous. And on top of that, her best girlfriend is falling for me.

I really fucked myself on this. I know I should just move on completely but she is one of my best friends and I dont want to lose that. Any advice?
1. "even though they are constantly up and down on their emotional roller coaster". You just answer your own question, this creates drama in her life and as we all know girls are addicted to drama. So now she cant leave her boyfriend alone, if he hits her from time to time he will never get rid of her lol.
2. her boyfriend is in different state so she cant have him everyday and girls want what they cant have, on the other hand she can/has you on daily basis.
3. You chase her around so obviously you are no challenge for her, she loses interest really fast in you because she knows she can have you, but since you are "nice" to her she wants to keep you as a friend.
4. Good that you hooked up with her girlfriend. Girls know they are attracted to you when they feel jealousy.

you gotta learn how to be an asshole sometimes but not too much, tease her etc. push/pull, freeze out etc. Never help her with her problems etc, tell her she should ask her friends/boyfriend for advice, this will give her a hint.

When she asks you to go out and hang out, tell her you are busy doing something else. (this makes her jealous thinking that you might be hanging out with other friends/girls, she doesnt know so she must keep on guessing, that means she must think of you, the more she thinks of you the more attracted she becomes.)

you are in LJBF zone, there was too much comfort created before attraction. You might never get out of that zone and if you try it too hard or too fast you might come off as creepy/weird, and not only she wont be your girlfriend but you might lose her as a friend.

There are some good boyfriend destroyer routines/lines in routines section of this site.
Author:  Trevino [ Sat May 31, 2008 9:41 pm ]
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I am currently trying to get over a bad case of oneitis. This one is a bit tricky but I have done my best to fuck it up even more :twisted:

So, this girl has a bf that lives in another state. She and I are pretty much best friends and for the longest time I was in a relationship too. Well that changed not long ago and since then I have been chasing her a lot. We have hooked up a couple times but she always retreats back to her bf, even though they are constantly up and down on their emotional rollercoaster. I was trying to think of how to get over her so I hooked up with her best girlfriend. That kinda backfired bc now I think she is jealous. And on top of that, her best girlfriend is falling for me.

I really fucked myself on this. I know I should just move on completely but she is one of my best friends and I dont want to lose that. Any advice?
1. "even though they are constantly up and down on their emotional roller coaster". You just answer your own question, this creates drama in her life and as we all know girls are addicted to drama. So now she cant leave her boyfriend alone, if he hits her from time to time he will never get rid of her lol.
2. her boyfriend is in different state so she cant have him everyday and girls want what they cant have, on the other hand she can/has you on daily basis.
3. You chase her around so obviously you are no challenge for her, she loses interest really fast in you because she knows she can have you, but since you are "nice" to her she wants to keep you as a friend.
4. Good that you hooked up with her girlfriend. Girls know they are attracted to you when they feel jealousy.

you gotta learn how to be an asshole sometimes but not too much, tease her etc. push/pull, freeze out etc. Never help her with her problems etc, tell her she should ask her friends/boyfriend for advice, this will give her a hint.

When she asks you to go out and hang out, tell her you are busy doing something else. (this makes her jealous thinking that you might be hanging out with other friends/girls, she doesnt know so she must keep on guessing, that means she must think of you, the more she thinks of you the more attracted she becomes.)

you are in LJBF zone, there was too much comfort created before attraction. You might never get out of that zone and if you try it too hard or too fast you might come off as creepy/weird, and not only she wont be your girlfriend but you might lose her as a friend.

There are some good boyfriend destroyer routines/lines in routines section of this site.
Thanks for the advice. I do find that when I pull back a bit, she will get in touch in the next couple of days. Usually after we talk a bit she will give me some type of shit test about why I havent called or anything. Whats a good response to this?
Author:  Roland [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 5:03 pm ]
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My share, though nothing humorous about it:

I went out with my gf for 2 years, then she had to go away for 4 months on an internship. I visited her there and we had a really great time, but when she got back she said she wasn't as much in love as she used to be. So she ended it. So I've been waiting 4 months to get dumped.
Author:  frekinrican [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 6:14 pm ]
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I had this gf i was dating for a couple months. She broke up because she felt no chemistry lol... it was really bad on my part. Suprise Suprise she texts me after 2 months of no contact. Samething happened AGAIN. I just deleted her number lol helps
Author:  Zdiddy [ Sun Jun 01, 2008 10:14 pm ]
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Good call!
Author:  Lucius [ Mon Jun 02, 2008 12:04 am ]
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Trevino I already gave you the answer:

"Been busy" its the best answer, she would probably responded the same way if u asked the same thing. and if she asks you "been busy doing what?" you respond with "handling my business, how come all of sudden you so interested in what Im doin? You missed me already?" with a little giggle/laugh on the end! ,or something like that, remember you are the prize not her.

Finish the convo with " you remind me of the girl I just met yesterday, and the reason for that is because she was...well i tell you later, i have to go now some1 is calling or w/e excause." (this will drive her crazy since she will now have to find out why, the suspense will be killing her, now she will be the one chasing you for the answer instead you trying to chase/meet/hang out with her.

I recommend Swinggcat -Real World Seduction. Im reading it right now really good book on how to make girl chase you.

Good luck
Author:  Invincible [ Thu Jun 05, 2008 1:10 am ]
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I like this convo. Is there any sort of game on ex GFs. I just hung out with my ex today after about 3 months and kino was amazing to very high degrees of escalation around dessert time with ass touching and arms around her neck. I went for it with the neck kisses and at the 3rd one she shrugged and said she couldn't and would get emotionally attached if we hooked up and wants to be single for a while.

Anyways I think the best plan of action with hanging out with exes NO matter HOW much u feel it is to stay hard to get and challenge do not break the kiss barrier u might have to do this for a few dates but tease them with kino and escalations and some sex related talk but don't go for it that will only validate her and let her know she has u.

AND if she calls u out on it in NO which way after get upset or show any signs of being upset or ask her do u have a boyfriend and all that other shit.

This is my opinion, but I would really like to know some strategies and if anyone did the above mentioned with ex-es and worked on getting them back to the bedroom.

Besdies for this most current ex. I have hooked up with every girl I have ever dated after our break-up. Some where like a year later but to this day everyone has been re-taken down. Would really like to hook up with this girl again. Hopefully i'm not ruining it to much. Gonna go with an extended freeze out and cancel one the next thing she invites me to and prob accept the 2nd.

Advice?
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