Ok soo im a sophmore in college and in my history class its really boring and the first day i fell asleep. i woke up and looked at this girl sitting a few seats over that was looking at me and we both smiled. My friend works in the cafeteria and i guess she saw me talking to him and (like a elementary crush) asked about me. so i knew she was interested. I didnt talk to her til this morning (like 2 weeks into school). She came into the library and i was craming for chemisty, talked, joked. she told me that she that her friend in the class and her went to lunch after that first day of class and talked about how cute i was. (hellz ya). i said "why didnt you invite me too?" jokingly cuz we've never talked. then we agreed to go today...i got her number.... found out some stuff about her...shes a victorias secret model, i joked about how she prolly eats tapeworms and pukes after meals to keep her weight down haha....as soon as i left the library i got a text from her saying "your so hot and sexy, i want you to be mine." i said "cool, lets talk at lunch." then i got a series of texts that where really forward and psycoish. started with "i miss you already" "i really like you" ...didnt respond.....then i got a "i think im falling in love with you" text. i said "dont say that, you dont even know me" she said "i know i was joking" (doubtful). then i met her and a good friend after class and introduced her as my future girlfriend haha she liked. then she texted me (cuz my friend was still standin there) "why future gf? why not now?" didnt answer just smiled at her then we talked for 10 min and i had to go to next classs. she asked again during that class so i agreed and said somethin like "i guess thats more suitable" so finally the class that i have with her came up and she sat next me (i slept again cuz it was odviously working, and i was tired).
we went to lunch and i made sure she didnt have a kid, she had a picture with one on her myspace with her, she said it was her x-fiance's kid. (would have ended everything right then if she said ya)
and it went well...she was all over me, i was really funny and since the L word was in one of texts i said a really AFC thing "what are your expectations of this relationship" she shruged it off said like "not sure" something like that and i wanted to maked it clear so said... "well we are in college so i dont want anything too serious, just someone to hang out an have fun with." ...we left, i opened my car door for her (i dont have power locks) then she stood blocking me like she wanted a hug so i hugged her, looked her in the eye and said "do i get a kiss?" and yah i made out with her for a lil bit. after i dropped her off at school 330ish til about 9 ish, i got about 10 texts saying i miss you blah blah blah
before my night class i went to the cafetira (where previously mentioned friend was working) and i told him she was my gf now and he said "doesnt she have a kid?" i said she told me no but bleh bleh myspace.....bleh bleh
and during my math night class i got a "so what do you like about me besides looks" and i told her id call her 830 ish.
I told a guy that im sorta friends in my math class and he said "omg does she look like.....blah blah" yah same person . and he said she asked if he had a girlfriend the prior semester (and he did) so that was the end of that.
....whatever that means.... so i thought about it all and determined she is a psyco and right after class i was gunna break up... during that call....
i called my friend in tucson first to make sure i was doin the right thing and he said "wait til i get there (phoenix) friday and lemme meet her, then we can decide, if nothing else just hit it and quit it"
so i called her and just talked answering her ? then threw in there "it usually takes me about 10 dates before i figure out if i really like someone.."
so thats where i stand....
i got a couple more "good night sweetie" and "i wish i lived closer to you so i could see you more" texts
didnt reply.
soooooooo my question is... am i doing the right thing? i think im set up pretty well and it will be a easy lay and/or breakup. the only thing im worried about is her getting like a psycotic emotional attachment to me if we have sex. but i am a virgin @ 18 years old so it might not be a bad idea to just lose it already... the only difficult thing will be actually paying attention in class after breakup, but im already sleeping and thinking bout all this soo it shouldnt be too bad....
ODVIOUSLY im going to use a brand new thick cheap condum
soooo tell me what you think
i dont think this is just a pre valentines day rush or whateva
i say hit it n quit it just to pop my cherry with a hb8 then suffer the consiquences...
and i swear on my life weather i have sex with her or not.... 2 week maximum on the relationship.....
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Plus you have lasted this long not breaking your virginity, and if this girl thought you were as hott as she said, there has to be a less crazy girl even hotter somewhere out there for you to game and actually sleep with. Being a virgin shows you got will-power that is a great trait. This bitch probably knew you were a virgin, and told some girls she would be the one to break yours. You do have this in the bag, she's a bonafide hoe. Make your decision wisely, if you fuck this girl simply because you think its time to start fucking, go ahead and do it. But don't quit, start gaming all the other females you haven't had a taste of you. 
good luck