Quote: completely get that people want to know as much as they can before they go out and I was the same way but it’s a trap. I fell in to it myself and its ridicules how easy it is to fall in too. Allot of the guys on here will get so stuck trying to get all the knowledge that they never bother going out cos they are too busy looking for a new method. They have to realize that this works in baby steps. Your never gona learn everything all at once. you learn a little bit, apply it and see if it works for you. Once you have applied it you are far more likely to remember it in future. All these guys who wana know exactly what too say and do all the way up to the lay, and it doesn’t work like that. There is no real specific track you can follow there’s just a rough idea of how to go about it. Instead of treating it like a one way track they need to start treating it like a fluid which can go multiple ways.
It’s so frustrating to see this. And I get what you mean when you say they don’t really hear it. I didn’t open my eyes to my keyboard jockeying ways until one of the instructors on another forum I was on completely flamed me to the ground. It was a smack in the face but it made me realize that I seriously need to get out more. I ended up thanking him for it cos it was the wake up call I needed. That’s why I'm taking this rather harsh approach to all these stupid questions. I wana smack people in the face and make them WAKE THE FUCK UP!
If people wana learn from others then set up MEETS. Seriously guys this forum needs a lot more of them. People need to meet up and sarge together. Learn from one another. Point out mistakes. Having a wing is one of the best things in the world for dealing with AA cos even if a girl shoots you down in to a burning wreck your wing can pick you up and help you look at it from a rational point of view.
I'm a different case to that. I learned as much as i can learn, than i said, alright thats enough information for me, i made sure i understand it by applying it on the forum, asking questions. Than I went out a few times in the city by myself (day time)! At first i was terrified, and didn't approach, second time i wasn't really scared to go up to girls, so than the third time more i went close to them and up to them and around them the more confident i got with myself. So than one day i just opened, and since than ive sarged day time no real problem. My duty is to do a perfect day sarge and know how to open in any situation and do night time too.
its different for everyone. I do give you credit with what you said, and i believe that wings really DO help, but wings can also be a total disaster! i think you should game by yourself before you get a pair of wings that can be very broken! Or if you want a wing to throw you out there to give you a nice ass kicking, that defiantly helps alot too. Find a good wing yeh? and your set! we are all here to learn, no one here is really that good in the forum, sure we have Monkey and all those guys who seem to know their shit! but generally most of us are still learning. I think what scares people is in their mind they don't exactly know what they should do or where they should be heading at in a conversation. To anyone reading, you always head for your intent, which is to get the girl. I think the whole SOI thing is stupid, I've always known my intent, and so has she! But what seems stupid to me, to some other dude who is different, who all girls immediately make a friendship bond with, he has to do the SOI. I think the whole SOI principle should be tought better. You use a SOI when you feel like shes trying to put you in friend zone. Thats it. But the point of this is that everyone is different, what works for me dosn't work for you as well, and vice versa. I know your trying to do the best for everyone and give them a nice kick out there, but some people here need to organize problems with themselves first, wether it is physiological or physical or whatever before they enter the field. NLP helps for this, i think not enough people are giving this credit, and its such a shame knowing guys that are like " yeh im confident " and they come with a energy level of 2/10, and they crash... NLP guys, its important.
Just some thoughts
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