Hi guys i need your help. 8 monthes ago while i was working i met i girl, we spent all the day together for 5 days,she invited me to have lounch breaks, we talked and we knew each other. I'm sure she was attracted by me, she tried to find a physical contact and she wanted to stay always with me....everything was going well till her ex boyfriends came up.....At the end of the job, after a couple of days i texted her and i invited her for a date but she rejected me saying she was still thinking her ex boyfriend and she wanted to understand what she really wanted....after that day i never got in touch with her. Now Here's the point; it's been 8 monthes and i texted one month ago and after talking this and that i asked her to come to visit me at a new club where i work but she didn't even read my message. I know that sounds crazy but i really think she's the girl i need and i need your help, i'm totally confused, i don't understand...what am i supposed to do? Should i give up? What would you do if you were me? I don't really know what else i can do if there's something i can....You have to considering that she's not back with the her ex boyfriend and she's not seeing someone i'm sure about that. I even know her collegue but don't know if she can help me in this situation and if i can involve her in all this cause i don't think this would be a great idea and i don't know if i can trust her...
I really like this girl and i can't give up at least till i won't face the thruth... i just want a date with her and then i don't care about the rest. Please help me!

Tough spot to be in and I have helped answer this question time and time again.
What reasons specifically did she say about her ex? I know you mentioned she is not over her ex but what about her ex is she not getting over? If you swipe her off her feet I can tell you one thing, she sure is hell won't care about her ex lol. DM me and let's get through this together buddy.