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it does not seem like you have given her any reason to be attracted or even want to talk with you
now why would you say that to anyone? are you trying to lower my self esteem or something?....jeez 
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| Author: | T8SIG92 [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 5:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Flirting or tip digger? |
We all know that it can be hard to tell if a woman who works for tips is flirting with you or just looking for tip money. I can usually see right through their strategies. This one chick is confusing me though. HB 7.8, asian (not my type, but i could try it), 21 or 22; she is my barber. Ok the first time i went in there she was doing the typical subtle flirting for tip money. I didnt think anything of it. She did ask me where i go out, who i go out with, seemed to take an intrest in me (saying she likes to play pool, as if to get me to ask her to play with me some time). Since asian women arent really my type, i just ignored it and thought she was the typical "hired gun" (so to speak). She gave me her business card with her name and cell written on it. Im pretty sure she writes her name in on every card, but the cell #? Anyway, i go back about a month or so later (because she did a good job) and this visit really makes me wonder. She asks (not in any particular order), my age (she responds excited when she finds out im close to her age), who i go out with, if i have a girlfriend & why not, and again mentions how she likes to play pool. she also gets excited when i tell her pool is free on wednesday nights (like she wants me to invite her). she gives me her business card when i told her i lost it (neg attempt) with her name and cell on it. most of that stuff is pretty typical, but the fact that she asked if i had a girlfriend really startled me. is she IOI-ing me or does she just want bigger tips? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 5:12 am ] |
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asking if you have a gf doesn't seem like a biggie to me, but the fact that she got excited over the pool thing might be an open door. As GW would say, "You never no fo sho bro til you make the ho say no." |
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| Author: | The SAINT [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 7:40 am ] |
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Hey, How we all doing? Normally in an interaction where there is attraction both ways the effort is mutual and equal. In your case though it does not seem like you have given her any reason to be attracted or even want to talk with you and that leads me to believe that this is small talk to keep you enjoying your haircut. Seriously if you look at it she is doing the same thing with every other client asking questions and breaking off on tangents to remove tension as most people cannot handle dead air. To find out for sure the next time you go put some effort in and then you can judge from her actions but as for now she is just working. ChowforNow, the--------------------------------------->Saint TheSaint@charismaconcept.com Jd-alexei-17@hotmail.com 'Whether or not you agree with his harsh, straight to the point mentality, truth be told, he’s the most active/ dedicated / motivating member on this board. He’s routinely getting newbies and current members out sarging, pushing them into sets, given them suggestions and advice, replying to posts more often then anyone else. (Come out Wednesdays and you’ll see what I mean). Also, I have not once heard him making excuses about not going out and pussying out. If anyone else can show me this, I will automatically promote you to any status that you want on this board. (including admin). Now .. I (and others) .. have tried a more sugar coated / feel good approach to getting guys to come out. Truth be told, it hasn’t worked anywhere close as well. I'm disappointed that with all the free resources, and the cool guys that we have offering free advice, so few people actually make use of it, go out consistently, and get better with women, instead of dabbling and keyboard jockeying.' 'How did it start?Well, I don't know.I just feel the craving.I see the flesh and it smells fresh.And it's just there for the taking.' 'Looking at my own reflection When suddenly it changes Violently it changes Oh no there is no turning back now You've woken up the demon in me' 'Only see, somehow it always seems that I'm learnin' or something I can never be It dosen't matter to me, 'cause I will always be that pimp I see in all my fantasies I don't know your fucking name.So what? Let's.fuck' 'Scrutinize every word, memorize every line I spit it once, refuel, re energize, and rewind I give sight to the blind, mind sight through the mind |
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| Author: | Jewel$ [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 8:37 am ] |
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u know to be honest she prob just want a tip and is keeping u interested while having ur hair cut this is wat the ioi's are but if u wanted to u could probably change things around quite easily but like u said asians arent really ur thing so it a question of wheather it would be worth ur time |
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| Author: | T8SIG92 [ Tue Apr 15, 2008 9:50 pm ] |
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Quote: it does not seem like you have given her any reason to be attracted or even want to talk with you
now why would you say that to anyone? are you trying to lower my self esteem or something?....jeez
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| Author: | tret [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 12:18 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: it does not seem like you have given her any reason to be attracted or even want to talk with you
now why would you say that to anyone? are you trying to lower my self esteem or something?....jeez He means because you have not "gamed" her you have made no reason to attract her. most people who are much more experienced then me said that she is probably just making small talk and tip begging, and perhaps because i go to black barber shops with a bunch of men i may not know exactly how female barbers act, but if she gave you her cell and keeps gets excited whenever any sort of date like SPAM possibly arrises (pool) i think if you wanted to you could easily pursue this. And she gave you her numb again, so.. whatevr. I meen man, it is what you make of it, if you wanted it you could get it but that is the way most things are. |
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| Author: | T8SIG92 [ Wed Apr 16, 2008 2:05 am ] |
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next time i get a hair cut i will throw the idea of playing pool some time out there. If she talks about how good she is, i could say "ha, well maybe we should play some time, i will totally beat you" that way im not really asking her out |
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