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Author:  cunning_stunt [ Thu Jan 19, 2017 12:40 am ]
Post subject:  jealousy
Historically I've been ok about some things that other guys would have problems with and I've had problems with situations that some guys are ok with..

when it comes to a either a girl you are starting to see or a girlfriend, when is it ok to show a girl you're unhappy with something (jealousy at heat) and when to hide it?

I can imagine some guys saying 'be cool and never be jealous' but I would imagine its better to show 'dis-satisfaction' with a girl who mis-behaves than saying nothing at all..
Author:  DJ_Z [ Thu Jan 19, 2017 12:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Jealousy is ugly, no ifs ands or buts.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jan 19, 2017 8:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
More often than not when a guy accuses the girl of bad behavior, it's actually normal behavior that happens to have triggered some insecure nerve.

Jealousy is never valid.
Author:  Luzy Style [ Fri Jan 20, 2017 4:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
I dont know if that satisfyes my desire to know the answer to the question. Ive felt what i could have sworn was rock solid jelousy. The best explanation for it ive heard of is that it happens becuse you count someone elses blessing more then yours. I started to focus differently and it did do some helping. What if your love shows someone attention the wrong way. Flirting with a sexual undertone right in front of ya. Is that a blessing for me, or even for our commitment? Weather its becuse you are afraid of losing her or not, isnt that pretty valid jeousy? What else would you call it?
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Jan 20, 2017 4:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
You'd have to be more specific and give examples. For e.g. You could be talking about being "jealous" that your gf is sleeping over at her exs place. That's more boundaries. Or you could be talking about you're "jealous" your gf talks more to her friend than you. That's more insecurities
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat Jan 21, 2017 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Misbehaving is one thing..


But exactly are you getting jealous about? Her misbehaving? Give examples..
Author:  cunning_stunt [ Tue Jan 24, 2017 1:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
well let's say your girlfriend is texting a lot with a guy from work. This hasn't happened to me, but let's work on the basis it has.
It went from nothing, but they are texting quite a lot and she isn't keen on letting you see the messages.

Are you saying that to act on this and take issue would just be 'acting jealous' or is this a valid reason to turn round to her and make a point that you think it's inappropriate etc..
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Jan 24, 2017 11:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Yes, it would just be acting jealous.
Author:  cunning_stunt [ Tue Jan 24, 2017 1:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
ok, let me take this one step further...

You then hear she slept overnight at this guy's place as the office went out late and she couldn't get home.
Is that an issue?

This has not happened to me before but the point I am trying to make in short, is 'where' do you draw the line at what is acceptable and not acceptable and how do you approach it?
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Jan 24, 2017 2:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Jealousy is never the right way to go. If she cheats, break up. The jealousy just gives her an emotional out to blame you for whatever may or may not happen. Oh, and get some strange ass.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Jan 24, 2017 2:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Quote:
ok, let me take this one step further...

You then hear she slept overnight at this guy's place as the office went out late and she couldn't get home.
Is that an issue?

This has not happened to me before but the point I am trying to make in short, is 'where' do you draw the line at what is acceptable and not acceptable and how do you approach it?
Why are all of your questions non examples from your life? Why don't you talk about your life instead of hypothetical shit that will probably never happen.
Author:  cunning_stunt [ Wed Jan 25, 2017 12:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Well Eddie, I probably did have a couple Jealousy situations stemming back of the years, but I can't remember the situations that well, however it seems you are also missing the point.
It's not about my situation now, i'm asking in general where you would draw the line with a girl/how to handle it so I know for future relationships if and when the situation occurs.

Your question about 'why I am talking about hypothetical shit' is about as helpful as saying 'why wear a seatbelt in a car' or 'why have a fire extinguisher in the building'. If you don't understand the metaphor, then ask one of the other guys here.
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Jan 25, 2017 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
OP, for the 2 examples, my point of view is if you dont trust someone dont be with them.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Wed Jan 25, 2017 3:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Quote:
Well Eddie, I probably did have a couple Jealousy situations stemming back of the years, but I can't remember the situations that well, however it seems you are also missing the point.
It's not about my situation now, i'm asking in general where you would draw the line with a girl/how to handle it so I know for future relationships if and when the situation occurs.

Your question about 'why I am talking about hypothetical shit' is about as helpful as saying 'why wear a seatbelt in a car' or 'why have a fire extinguisher in the building'. If you don't understand the metaphor, then ask one of the other guys here.
Your metaphor is not good. You have a seat belt because it is statistically shown to help you survive an accident. You are asking about jealousy, which is virtually the opposite of such a fail safe.
Author:  Luzy Style [ Thu Feb 23, 2017 8:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: jealousy
Sounds like a valid point Mr dj man
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