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Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
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Author:  Magdiel [ Fri Dec 02, 2016 8:06 am ]
Post subject:  Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
I met this girl a couple weeks ago she asked around who i was contacted me and been in contact with me ever since. she would constantly message me even after i would just leave her on seen. At the time i was really interested in this one girl so i didnt really pay attention to her. I told her about the girl and she was like so? is she your girlfriend did not care at all. Well the girl i was interested in i am no longer interested in. I gotta admit i did like the attention the girl would give me even though i would rarely reply. She showed she was really trying to get to know me. The thing is knowing where she comes from and who she hangs around with I know shes a bad girl. She use to party alot. but she has a kid. although she still parties she doesnt do it to often anymore. barely goes out because of her son. Shes told me she has changed since she had her son that she use to think she was the queen of the world but became more humbled after having him. I really like the attention this girl gives me it makes it seem like she really cares. So im thinking about giving her a chance. What do you guys think?

extra- Ive only been around her 2x once at a bbq where she saw me and asked who i was. and another at a party a couple guys tried hitting on her but she would curve them for me. Some guy came up and asked her for her fb and she told him no infront of me and then told me im not going to give it to him because i think thats disrespectful towards you. Shell tell me if people i know try to hit on her. like i dont know shes a bad girl Im a good guy trying to finish school good job. Should i give her a chance my friends keep telling me im stupid for curving her but i just dont know
Author:  Magdiel [ Fri Dec 02, 2016 3:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
Because who doesnt like goodmorning messages messages to radomnly check up on you what do you mean why?
Author:  HERC [ Fri Dec 02, 2016 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
hey brother

Not sure where you are at in your life but some things to be aware of:

1. She has a kid
2. She likely has an ex or a "baby-daddy" that is in her life

I don't know how old she is or where she is at in her life.

What are you looking for? Are you in "relationship mode?" Where are you in your life? If you do decide to date her exclusively (is this what you want, btw?) there is a lot that you will be faced with and will have to eventually handle and be involved with. Are you willing to engage in that sort of commitment?

Ask yourself those questions, and go from there - no one should dictate to you what you should or shouldn't do, except you.

- HERC
Author:  DJ_Z [ Fri Dec 02, 2016 3:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
Sounds crazy. Crazy is bad. Don't go for a bad option.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Wed Dec 07, 2016 10:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
I don't like being checked up on...I'm a grown ass man
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Dec 07, 2016 2:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
Set up Netflix and chill after 9pm at her place. Bring liquor.
Do everything in your power not to meet the boy.
Do not buy her ANYTHING.
Do not stay the night, unless drinking. Then leave before sunrise.
Keep communication to a minimum.
Do not go out on 'dates'.
Do not meet any of her people.
If she gets clingy ghost her ass that day.
File restraining order.
Author:  Hubcap [ Sun Dec 18, 2016 5:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
Being that you know she has issues, but you can't get her out of your head, you either are really interested in her for some particular reason or you just don't have any other options. (Trust me, I have been there. Chatted with this one girl for a month because I didn't have anything else going on and I knew it, just enjoyed the attention.) If you want to find out more about her, feel free to chat, but I wouldn't put a lot of investment in the relationship or get attached to her because she is likely to flake at any time. Also, do not get involved in the kid's life until you are sure the relationship is going somewhere, never fair to the kid to make them like you if you aren't planning on sticking around.
Also, the checking up may be nice at first, but will the clinginess become a problem later on?
Author:  R.C [ Wed Dec 21, 2016 8:10 am ]
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Quote:
Because who doesnt like goodmorning messages messages to radomnly check up on you what do you mean why?
Anyone who's not starving for attention?

Don't do it OP.
Author:  oceanx [ Wed Dec 21, 2016 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
I think you are not presently meeting an abundance of women. If you were you may not be interested in this damaged goods girl.

Go with your gut. Hopefully your gut is coming from a place of abundance and plenty!
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Dec 27, 2016 10:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
#1 Girl is not LTR material. If you're thinking about wifing her up - don't.
#2 If you like her, why not just do it? She gives you crap, ignore or drop her.

I'm not seeing all the hand wringing. I've dated women with kids. My longest term GF(over 4 years now), has a kid. I'd never marry her. But she's a great a girl overall. We are not however, exclusive.
Author:  jesterofmalice [ Wed Dec 28, 2016 12:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I date this bad girl with a kid?
Doesn't sound ideal, but I know how you feel.

There's a girl with 2 kids who is trying to get with me currently.

She's like the only girl in my 30 years of life who actually thinks i'm hot, lol.

I got with her back when I was a young guy and now she's messaging me all the time all these years and later since her and her husband recently broke up.

But it's just tempting since I've gotten zero results from approaching girls for the last 6 months and so having her message me and want me to go to her house and stuff is tempting since there's obviously no other girls on the scene.
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