In my humble opinion, a great blowjob feels better than mediocre sex. Plus you don’t have to do any work, so it’s a win-win.

How to get more blowjobs is the same thing as how to elicit any other kind of behavior: reward the behavior you want with pleasure, and ignore the behavior you don’t want. Ignoring works better than punishing in most cases, since the withdrawal of attention is, itself, a punishment.

So, you want to reward her giving you a blowjob. But you don’t just want to do something nice for her afterwards–which you definitely should do–but we can also use an NLP trick in order to anchor the sensation of pleasure to the action of her sucking your dick.

“Anchoring” is what Pavlov did with his dogs when got them to salivate upon hearing the sound of a bell; he did it by pairing the sound with the action of giving them food. This made the dogs come to expect food upon hearing the sound of a bell, because the two concepts became anchored in their minds.

Similarly, you can anchor the sensation of pleasure to the act of her sucking your dick, by giving her pleasure while she is doing so. How exactly that looks will depend on the particular girl–some may prefer to be fingered, while others may prefer you to just play with their clit, or put a finger in her ass, or tweak her nipples, or whatever else she likes most…do that while she is going down on you (especially when she first starts doing so).

Yes, it is a little more work than just laying there enjoying it, but it is the kind of labor which reaps great rewards down the road.

Cheers