2. Then we have people who don't appreciate their lives at all. And I think that's most of us. Isn't it great not having to worry about where our next meal comes from ? Do you think people in this position even think much of sex ? How does fresh air on this Labor Day in USA [50 percent of our web traffic!] sound ? Probably going to a barbecue later, you jackass.

Many guys with girl problems on here talk a lot. On the other hand, a few talk very little. Hence, they get advice to talk like adults. Unfortunately, when the talkative ones see those threads, they begin to think that the same advice applies to them.

Girls LOVE to talk. Once they feel comfortable in your presence and trust you enough, they'll go on and on. Our job as seducers is to ESCALATE while girls are talking; not compete with them as to who talks best. On the other hand, when girls are still not comfortable talking a lot, our job is to make them feel comfortable enough so they can talk a lot.

Yes. I am disagreeing on the major premise of this thread and not so much on the standard fluff.

I really like the way you put that man, made it sound very simple

You're right. It's not simple as it seems. When a hot woman talks, we instinctively listen with puppy eyes. Moreover, some influential messiahs of seduction here (I'm 100% pretty sure that around 3 of those nagging man bitches are keyboard jockeys) preach that we should listen when a woman talks.

It takes quite a measure of practice and repetitive actions to condition your body to focus on ESCALATION instead of listening when a woman gets the urge to talk non-stop. You eye fuck her. You hold her hands. You massage her shoulder. You blow warm breaths in her ear lobe. You rub your leg against her leg. You rub your elbow on her breast. You rub your hands at her belly just above her pussy area and so on. And most importantly, you shut up.

If approach anxiety is difficult to bust for many of the newbies here, I think busting escalation anxiety is even more difficult. Pebbles/Dragula pointed this out. Since I have minimal approach anxiety, it really improved my game a lot when I have busted my escalation anxiety.

It's a good pattern. When a woman begins to talk incessantly, ESCALATE hard core. Don't be an idiot and show her that you're a better (verbal) communicator than she is.

It's mainly the nonverbals that make us masculine bros. It's the nonverbals.

I believe an improvement in how we communicate with women is important. Many of you are muddy in the head and need to consider pre-meditation for improving your interactions. It's the easiest way, you get faster on your feet, for even a noob.

In the hypothetical scenario of dealing with a big yapper, that's probably the time to demonstrate good listening skills, which includes an important physical component of good eye contact and other escalations of the sort. I'm sorry to break it to you guys, but being above average looking isn't enough to cut it. Don't fight the idea that women are attracted to men that like them and there is no way you are pulling if you aren't putting a little wit and time into your thoughts and actions. This conclusion comes from my anecdotal experiences and education in Psychology.

Retarded post of the year.

You don't try to push a 100k car on a guy who tells you he just got fired.

This is better than "Sarging in the Banks" [don't make me pull out that thread for our readers at home].

Sure. Go ahead. This side comment of yours is off topic though and unrelated to the original thread. The major premise of your thread is oral communication and I laid out points that drowning out a woman with talk when she's in the mood for talking or NOT taking any action to touch the woman while she's talking is counter productive.

Likewise, let the thinking readers think why several thousand physical banks and automated teller machines still exist to this day all over the world.

Follow the forum rules, do your job as moderator, stop getting personal, and focus on the merits and demerits of the topic. If a topic is all about the pros and no discussion of the cons at all, then this thread does not belong in the Lounge. Theories get challenged all the time. What makes you think that your theory post in the PUA Lounge does not deserve a challenge from anyone and a proper defense from your end?

So you just want us all to stroke your ego and not say that this idea or premise is just plain counter-productive to pick up.