PUA Forum :: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make:

There are 2 schools of thoughts on compliments, the guys that teach and advocate, no to compliment women and the others that don't care. The camp of no complements have all type of explanations and statistics on why you should not compliment a woman (most of it mental masturbation). The main objection is "she already know she is cute and she hears it all the time". Well, I do not get tired of women complimenting my big dick, do you? or would you? no right. My point is we all crave validation, so I believe is a stupid ass logic. So skills what is your take on compliments? good question, my take on compliments is give them as long as it comes from the right place, in other words, if you are a cool, sexy, high value dude who is no needy and who does not put a woman on a pedestal is ok to give an HONEST COMPLIMENT. These are some of the authentic compliments that I frequently use, I even open with compliments:

1.- I think you are cute/attractive/adorable and I wanted to find out if your looks match your personality, my name is skills.

2.- I really love your smile, it seems like you are happy and cheerful i really appreciate that, it shows me you do not care about people think you are in the moment, are you always like this? if she say yes! I reward with a high five or awesome or you are keeper. (I usually say this when dancing with a happy girl).

3.- Are you Cuban? if the girl responds no, then where does the ass come from? if yes, i say i knew it! if the girl say why? cause of that ass ( I proceed to grab the ass). I use this one a lot with big booty girls, since I am an ass man.

4.- Those are some bad ass shoes.

5.- Any honest compliments about hair, outfit, nails.

But, what they all have in common is that they come from a place of authenticity, no looking for a reaction and no neediness/don't give a fuck. Compliments that are needy, weak and put the responsibility on the girl:

1.- pssss! pssss!

2.- hey mami!

3.- You are so sexy!

4.- damm!

5.- You are hot.

And the likes, with that being said, it does not matter, they could still work other than psss! psss!, as long as it comes from the right place, but they have way lower probability of success than the ones I already do. The good pick up teachers from the natural game/screening schools of thought like 60 yoc, good looking loser, Steve Jabba, me etc... Do not have problems using compliments on our seductions. Here is a video of Steve Jabba using compliments in one of his pick ups, his style is very similar to what I do when I am not doing dance floor game after the clubs are closed notice how he uses honest compliments, physicality and he has a sexual/i want to fuck you vibe:

Author:	acuriousman [ Sun Feb 15, 2015 5:41 pm ]
Post subject:	The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make:
When you start complimenting a girl's appearance (Saying she's beautiful, cute, has great legs, etc) and you haven't f-closed her yet, you're DIMINISHING your value. She hears those kinds of comments all the time, especially if she's a HB9 or HB10. These kinds of girls are tired of hearing how beautiful they are and they don't need to hear it from you. THEY ALREADY KNOW. These are the type of comments that make you seem like every other "Average Joe" that tries and fails to talk to her. They always open or give a compliment about her physical appearance within the first 10 minutes. You don't want to be bunched in with them, you want to stand out and let her see that you can appreciate her on MORE than just a physical level. That isn't to say don't compliment her, but ALWAYS keep it about things that aren't physical. Her sense of humor, style, and ability to make you laugh are great examples. TLDR: Never compliment a woman on her physical traits until you've already slept with her. It hurts you more than it helps. Keep compliments strictly about things they've accomplished (Their sense of style, humor, etc).

Author:	acuriousman [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 9:46 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make:
Also, I can't stress the importance of Kino in situations like this. Instead of lobbing some compliment at her that she's probably already heard, brush her hair or touch her shoulder. No matter what, physical touch will always rival a compliment when escalating. No need to resort to beta-AFC tactics.

Author:	JackZero [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 10:12 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make:
I sort of agree with what you are saying, but complimenting on physical appearance can be good if it's done at the correct moment. The correct moment is after you have built a foundation for the two of you to make a bond over that gives you a sense of sameness at an emotional level for her. Otherwise it's just a compliment from a guy that just wants to fuck her because she has nice legs. There is nothing emotional there for her. The reason a physical compliment is okay after sex is because sex is pretty much the ultimate bonding experience for a man and a woman.

Author:	skills360 [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 10:15 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: The Biggest Mistake Newbies Make:
here is post i made on the subject from my blog: Quote: There are 2 schools of thoughts on compliments, the guys that teach and advocate, no to compliment women and the others that don't care. The camp of no complements have all type of explanations and statistics on why you should not compliment a woman (most of it mental masturbation). The main objection is "she already know she is cute and she hears it all the time". Well, I do not get tired of women complimenting my big dick, do you? or would you? no right. My point is we all crave validation, so I believe is a stupid ass logic. So skills what is your take on compliments? good question, my take on compliments is give them as long as it comes from the right place, in other words, if you are a cool, sexy, high value dude who is no needy and who does not put a woman on a pedestal is ok to give an HONEST COMPLIMENT. These are some of the authentic compliments that I frequently use, I even open with compliments: 1.- I think you are cute/attractive/adorable and I wanted to find out if your looks match your personality, my name is skills. 2.- I really love your smile, it seems like you are happy and cheerful i really appreciate that, it shows me you do not care about people think you are in the moment, are you always like this? if she say yes! I reward with a high five or awesome or you are keeper. (I usually say this when dancing with a happy girl). 3.- Are you Cuban? if the girl responds no, then where does the ass come from? if yes, i say i knew it! if the girl say why? cause of that ass ( I proceed to grab the ass). I use this one a lot with big booty girls, since I am an ass man. 4.- Those are some bad ass shoes. 5.- Any honest compliments about hair, outfit, nails. But, what they all have in common is that they come from a place of authenticity, no looking for a reaction and no neediness/don't give a fuck. Compliments that are needy, weak and put the responsibility on the girl: 1.- pssss! pssss! 2.- hey mami! 3.- You are so sexy! 4.- damm! 5.- You are hot. And the likes, with that being said, it does not matter, they could still work other than psss! psss!, as long as it comes from the right place, but they have way lower probability of success than the ones I already do. The good pick up teachers from the natural game/screening schools of thought like 60 yoc, good looking loser, Steve Jabba, me etc... Do not have problems using compliments on our seductions. Here is a video of Steve Jabba using compliments in one of his pick ups, his style is very similar to what I do when I am not doing dance floor game after the clubs are closed notice how he uses honest compliments, physicality and he has a sexual/i want to fuck you vibe: http://youtu.be/nTomKxvEVz0

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