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Author:  Versalis [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 3:07 am ]
Post subject:  When is a lay shamefully ugly?
Always kind of wondered about this. I tend to think a 4 is like... plain and has some flaw. IE, average but chubby, normal sized ok body, but homely face, etc.
A 3 is like a girl who has *some* attractive feature, like a pretty face but gross body. Maybe sort of cute face and huge tits, but weighs 170lbs.

But I kind of realized, there is actually a huge gap between what I think is a 3 and what is potentially possible.

I'd say a 3 is like this
ImageSort of pretty face, nice skin, well styled and put together, but massively too huge.
I've never banged a chick this fat, but probably wouldn't be ashamed of doing so.

Problem is, there is LONG way down from there.
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And worse
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and worse
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and worse
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I mean, how exactly is it even possible to rank this? Negative numbers? At what point would you think "God, I hope no one finds out about this"?
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When is a lay shamefully ugly?
The first girl would be a 7 if she lost 80 pounds.

Rating girls with numbers is a pretty pointless exercise. I understand why people do it; to give stories some kind of context but we should view "bangability" as a binary scale, it's either a Yes ['1'] or a No ['0']. The reason why i say this is firstly because you shouldn't be changing your personality or strategy based on the hotness of the girl. And secondly because the difference between a 7 and a 10 is negligible and actually mostly based on how well the girl dresses, how she carries herself and how good she is at applying makeup. I wear makeup myself sometimes, so I can always tell how much makeup a girl is wearing and what her skin would look like underneath it all. To quote David Blaine, "it's just an illusion".

In answer to your question, a lay is only shameful if she repulses you and therefore can't make your cock hard. Many of my horniest lays were actually what most guys would consider 7's, because I follow my own boner, not what society tells me to find the most attractive. And I'd always pick a 7 who is a freak in bed over a bitchy 10 who doesn't want to break a nail and believes she is 'too good' to give head. Of course, once in a while you date a unicorn of a woman who is a 10 and a freak in bed, but let's be honest, it doesn't happen as regularly as it should.

As I keep saying, trust your own boner and follow it.
Author:  Versalis [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 4:16 am ]
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The first girl would be a 7 if she lost 80 pounds.
Yep, I agree. I always wonder why girls who could look so much better, don't bother. The last two... they're going to look pretty bad, even if they were slim. But sometimes I see a girl who would be an absolute stunner if she was 100 pounds lighter.

I tend to think of it as a progressive scale. There are girls I will bang, but she's only so attractive to me. Then there are girls I think are increasingly more attractive. I will agree that it comes with diminishing return. But give me choice between this girl as a wildcat and this girl as a decent fuck, and I'll tell you I would rather have the prettier one as a FB, period. And this chick could just lay there like a dead fish, and I'd be happy for a while, lol.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 4:46 am ]
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The first girl would be a 7 if she lost 80 pounds.
Yep, I agree. I always wonder why girls who could look so much better, don't bother.
Some girls just love the Colonel's chicken that much. It really is that simple. However, a girl like that first girl won't be struggling for male attention, even at her size. I used to wing with a good-looking buff black dude, who actually preferred girls that size and even turned down thinner hotter women with smaller tits in favour of chasing fatties. The point is, that girl knows there will always be a decent looking guy who will take her home from the club any night of the week. She will only very rarely get negative feedback from men about her weight, so she thinks "if it ain't broke, why fix it?" She consistently gets laid, so that's why she doesn't bother to lose the weight. I'm sure if she couldn't get laid and guys were calling her 'fatty' and rejecting her all the time, she would probably drop to 110 pounds.
Author:  Rebooting [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 9:40 am ]
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Author:  breedlove465 [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 1:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When is a lay shamefully ugly?
That feels like a whole lot of effort just to put girls on a scale. And you're worrying about putting girls that you'd turn down a BJ from on a scale? Who cares? If I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole I could care less if she's a 1 or a 2.

Everyone's scale is different. Everyone has their little fetish. Asian girls are cute, but I've never seen one that is a 9 or 10 to me. I'm just not really attracted to them. I'd lay a cute girl that's a little over weight but has a great ass and tits over a very in shape cute asian girl, and some of my buddies would probably think I'm crazy, but it's just how it goes. Do you and quit worrying.
Author:  Versalis [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 1:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When is a lay shamefully ugly?
Lol
Well, if that chart is right, I have never banged anything below a 6, and mostly bang 8s, 9s and 10s.
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That feels like a whole lot of effort just to put girls on a scale.
It's fun!
Think of it like debating the most disappointing quarterback of all time.
Author:  fudge_88 [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 3:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When is a lay shamefully ugly?
AHHHH! My EYES!

I've been traumatized! I hope not to see those faces in my lucid dream tonight.

Honestly, I have been questioning myself. I've been getting into a Sherlock Holmes type of deal where I can't even tell if a woman is beautiful. People around me think she is, but she looks plain to me.

Man, I can certainly tell what ugly is. I was repulsed by some of those pictures. Repulsed the way I get repulsed by images of naked men that randomly pop up when I'm surfing the internet.

Anyway I couldn't look at those pictures for very long, but I would say a lay is shamefully ugly if you refuse to kiss the girl. This includes if you think the girl will give you herpes or you think she has sucked some guys dick recently. If you feel like the girl is nasty in general and you wouldn't dare touch her without a rubber, she is a shameful lay. Regardless of how good she looks.
Author:  meetjoeblack [ Mon Feb 09, 2015 10:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When is a lay shamefully ugly?
The topic does not interest me much so, I will make this short. Women by their very nature have opportunity since they have the pussy. A 3 to me is a woman who does not workout, work, take care of herself or happens to be the cum dumpster type. If she does not have the body of a 3 in her teens or 20s, the wall is around the corner.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 12:53 am ]
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A cute face for me is SO much more important than a body. I could bang a chick with a cute face but chubby body and cute attitude overall, but if a girl is plain ugly and has a good body, it is a lot less appealing.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 1:07 am ]
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A cute face for me is SO much more important than a body. I could bang a chick with a cute face but chubby body and cute attitude overall, but if a girl is plain ugly and has a good body, it is a lot less appealing.
Agreed. Face, tits and ass. In order of importance.
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 2:10 am ]
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Of course most chicks can look at least decent, if not pretty with the magic of makeup.
Not much can be done for a pot belly.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 2:18 am ]
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Not much can be done for a pot belly.
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Author:  fudge_88 [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 2:19 am ]
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How about if she wears a girdle?
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Feb 17, 2015 2:38 am ]
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