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Author:  lowriderzzz [ Wed Nov 26, 2014 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Best things to do or say after a sex night?

I was thinking what is the best to say, text or do after you had sex with a girl you like and respect in a way.

What I did was cook a breakfast.

What about to call her or text something the day after. Like: "It was great last night" or so... I know women like to be kept in touch after sex, so it doesn't looks like a random one time bang.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:33 am ]
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Bad move dude.

If you want to keep a woman, always let the girl cook you breakfast after sex. Condition girls' minds that they are rewarding you for great sex; not the other way around.

You're the prize. Women want to chase and keep the prize.

Author:  neo87 [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:37 am ]
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Bad move dude.

If you want to keep a woman, always let the girl cook you breakfast after sex. Condition girls' minds that they are rewarding you for great sex; not the other way around.

You're the prize. Women want to chase and keep the prize.
This.

Author:  lowriderzzz [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 9:44 am ]
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Bad move dude.

If you want to keep a woman, always let the girl cook you breakfast after sex. Condition girls' minds that they are rewarding you for great sex; not the other way around.

You're the prize. Women want to chase and keep the prize.
Isn't it making her cook for you too caveman style. I think women like a guy who can cook. Kind of a modern gentle men.

I don't come from a point that I was begging for sex and she... finally gave it to me. It was mutual. I wanted it she wanted it.

It was just a natural feeling and I come from a point of generosity. The other way if you don't do anything you come across as a selfish prick.

But anyway I agree with your point that women want to chase and not to condition them that they are the prize.

Author:  Stenic1 [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:01 am ]
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Bad move dude.

If you want to keep a woman, always let the girl cook you breakfast after sex. Condition girls' minds that they are rewarding you for great sex; not the other way around.

You're the prize. Women want to chase and keep the prize.
Isn't it making her cook for you too caveman style. I think women like a guy who can cook. Kind of a modern gentle men.

I don't come from a point that I was begging for sex and she... finally gave it to me. It was mutual. I wanted it she wanted it.

It was just a natural feeling and I come from a point of generosity. The other way if you don't do anything you come across as a selfish prick.

But anyway I agree with your point that women want to chase and not to condition them that they are the prize.
I condition woman that ill cook they clean/iron my shit :) ! i hate cleaning and ironing !!!! So i disagree with this make them cook bla bla. times have changed lads compromise plus i enjoy cooking !

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:07 am ]
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Isn't it making her cook for you too caveman style. I think women like a guy who can cook. Kind of a modern gentle men.

I don't come from a point that I was begging for sex and she... finally gave it to me. It was mutual. I wanted it she wanted it.

It was just a natural feeling and I come from a point of generosity. The other way if you don't do anything you come across as a selfish prick.

But anyway I agree with your point that women want to chase and not to condition them that they are the prize.
If you want to prevent problems later on in a relationship, you should let the girl pamper you instead. The more invested she is in you, the happier and more satisfied she will be. She will fear losing you because of her massive emotional investment.

My problem before was that I can cook. Yup. I cook better than some of the girls I used to bang. It's a massive DHV but it also prevented girls (those that who knew I can cook well) from doing nice things for me (like cooking) because they feared that they were not good enough.

I changed my strategy now especially when girls were qualifying themselves to me that they are a good cook. I don't compete with women nowadays when they're proud of their kitchen skills. I also keep my place dirty so when girls drop by my place, I know they're horny when they start cleaning the whole place up. Works wonders dude.

Author:  lowriderzzz [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:42 am ]
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If you want to prevent problems later on in a relationship, you should let the girl pamper you instead.
OK but, what is that you give in the relationship ?

And how more specifically you make girls qualify you.

Author:  lowriderzzz [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:46 am ]
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I condition woman that ill cook they clean/iron my shit :) ! i hate cleaning and ironing !!!! So i disagree with this make them cook bla bla. times have changed lads compromise plus i enjoy cooking !
Agree with that. This looks like a balanced equal (fair) deal/relationship dynamics.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:54 am ]
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OK but, what is that you give in the relationship ?
1. I give great sex; better than the average dude. 75% to 80% of men can't give their women just ONE vaginal orgasm. That's great value; better than cooking meals for a woman.

2. I make women feel feminine. A woman needs to feel that she is a woman around a man.

3. I encourage women to be proud of their nurturing skills like cooking, caring for you when you're sick, doing your laundry, cleaning house and so on.

4. I let women contribute value in the relationship; not just their pussy.
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And how more specifically you make girls qualify you.
Most of the time, they just qualify themselves to me. You need to be sharp though to detect when a woman is qualifying herself to you. They can be very subtle.

However, I found this to be very effective. It goes something like this:

Me: "Carmina is not just one hell of a sexy woman; she's a great cook too!"

Girl: "I'm a great cook."

Me: "Well, let's sample your best recipe tonight at my place."

Women are very competitive. I think that's the reason why this one works well a lot for me.

Author:  lowriderzzz [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 11:58 am ]
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OK but, what is that you give in the relationship ?
1. I give great sex; better than the average dude. 75% to 80% of men can't give their women just ONE vaginal orgasm. That's great value; better than cooking meals for a woman.

2. I make women feel feminine. A woman needs to feel that she is a woman around a man.

3. I encourage women to be proud of their nurturing skills like cooking, caring for you when you're sick, doing your laundry, cleaning house and so on.

4. I let women contribute value in the relationship; not just their pussy.
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And how more specifically you make girls qualify you.
Most of the time, they just qualify themselves to me. You need to be sharp though to detect when a woman is qualifying herself to you. They can be very subtle.

However, I found this to be very effective. It goes something like this:

Me: "Carmina is not just one hell of a sexy woman; she's a great cook too!"

Girl: "I'm a great cook."

Me: "Well, let's sample your best recipe tonight at my place."

Women are very competitive. I think that's the reason why this one works well a lot for me.
Got it.

Can you just share some more info on that: "2. I make women feel feminine. A woman needs to feel that she is a woman around a man." How in more detail.

BTW how about if the girl doesn't like to cook ? Or how about if cooking together.( think thats best)

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:03 pm ]
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BTW how about if the girl doesn't want to cook ?
Simple. You didn't fuck her well. That's the most objective feedback that you can get from a woman when it comes to your bedroom skills. Most women will say their men are great in bed even when they're not so they won't hurt their men's feelings.

There's a science to this... Women who are horny for you will do nice things for you. More so, when they are sexually satisfied with you.

Author:  lowriderzzz [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:04 pm ]
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BTW how about if the girl doesn't want to cook ?
Simple. You didn't fuck her well. That's the most objective feedback that you can get from a woman when it comes to your bedroom skills. Most women will say their men are great in bed even when they're not so they won't hurt their men's feelings.

There's a science to this... Women who are horny for you will do nice things for you. More so, when they are sexually satisfied with you.
I mistyped wrong, I meant "doesn't LIKE" not "doesn't want". If she doesn't enjoys cooking.

And how about cooking together? Actually thats what we did.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:06 pm ]
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Even when a woman doesn't know how to cook, she will cook breakfast for you after a good banging.

Author:  lowriderzzz [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:09 pm ]
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Even when a woman doesn't know how to cook, she will cook breakfast for you after a good banging.
And what if we cook together. I like cooking too... sometimes.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 12:25 pm ]
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And what if we cook together.
Theoretically, that looks good. In reality, it usually leads to relationship conflict. There's this age old wisdom...

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You can go against it or you can work your girlfriend's feminine instincts to BOTH of your advantage.

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