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Author:  BBusiness [ Sat Sep 20, 2014 4:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous abortion
Had sex with my fwb for the first time without a condom and she freaked out afterwards (had sex about 5 times before w/condom over last couple weeks). Says I broke her trust and cried. She had an emotionally painful abortion with a previous bf so she is very sensitive to this kind of stuff. It was a stupid mistake on my part as I got caught up in the moment. She wanted to be alone so I said I'm sorry and left.

No idea how to proceed...I like the girl and want to keep this thing going...thoughts/advice?
Author:  JackZero [ Sat Sep 20, 2014 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
You should have used the condom, but you shouldn't have apologized for it. You should have told her next time you'll make sure you have condoms and just leave it at that.

What you could try is going to the store...pick up some condoms and give her one to put in her purse and tell her keep it just in case you don't have any. The point is that you are telling her that you guys are going to continue to have sex without discussing it. Before she can protest change the subject.
Author:  BBusiness [ Sun Sep 21, 2014 1:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
We had condoms next to us though, I just didn't put one on.
Author:  JackZero [ Sun Sep 21, 2014 1:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
Oh yeah, she should hate you.
Author:  BBusiness [ Sun Sep 21, 2014 2:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
Thanks JackZero - any thoughts on how to turn it around? I got caught up in the moment, feel like an idiot.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Sep 23, 2014 3:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
She couldn't tell you weren't using one?

That's fucking weird, dude.

Sure she didn't get just as 'caught up' as you did?

You obviously should have used one, I'm just saying I've never had a girl not be able to tell when I'm not wearing one.
Author:  Jetz [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
Go pickup the morning after pill and make sure she takes it.

If she hits you up again go with it, if not replace her. Just don't let her get knocked up.
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
Quote:
Had sex with my fwb for the first time without a condom and she freaked out afterwards (had sex about 5 times before w/condom over last couple weeks). Says I broke her trust and cried. She had an emotionally painful abortion with a previous bf so she is very sensitive to this kind of stuff. It was a stupid mistake on my part as I got caught up in the moment. She wanted to be alone so I said I'm sorry and left.

No idea how to proceed...I like the girl and want to keep this thing going...thoughts/advice?
A couple things

(1) You just did it without saying anything?
(2) She couldn't tell you didn't have a condom on?
Author:  Stenic1 [ Wed Oct 01, 2014 12:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Had sex with fwb without condom, she has previous aborti
Dont take her shit. these things happen ive got caught in the moment plenty of times.

She evidently could feel the difference and didnt stop you to put one on so its on her aswell.

Dont beat yourself up jst get back out there and find other chicks ! Everyones giving you a hard time which i disagree with.
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