PUA Forum :: How do you handle someone picking up your chick.

If your girl let's a guy pick her up or attempt to.. Shake the guys hand and dump her. If she's letting someone hit on her when she is with you, she is fucking someone else when you're not there.

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If your girl let's a guy pick her up or attempt to.. Shake the guys hand and dump her. If she's letting someone hit on her when she is with you, she is fucking someone else when you're not there.

I saw a documentary on a 80 year old playboy who basically said this same thing. "If a guy has the skills to game my girl and take her from me then I will shake his hand and congratulate him" or something to that effect.

option 2 is the right one, unless the guys CLEARLY knows that is your gf or with you, if he is obvious she is with you, = disrespect, so a verbal warning while keeping your cool. If he cont. then call the bouncers or kick his ass..

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if he doesn't know she is with me, what is the best way to demonstrate that to him ?

Here's the classic boyfriend destroyer, just ask him where his girlfriend is.

If he says he doesn't have one then he looks like a loser in front of your girl.

If he says he has one but she couldn't come out tonight, then you wink and say 'of course buddy' and laugh in his direction.

Other than that just do what chicks usually do with their friends when they cockblock:

- hey that is our song and drag her to the dance floor

- tell her you have to show her this cool thing you saw( move to other area in venue)

- don't laugh at guys jokes or material(let the awkwardness of silence blow him out)

- (this is sneaky but funny as hell) tell some ugly drunk chick that your new 'friend' wants to buy her drinks and finds her cute

Have fun with it man, don't let these gamers bum you out - you know they suffer from AA, right?

Use that to your advantage.

Author:	lowriderzzz [ Wed Jul 30, 2014 10:07 pm ]
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Or more better said someone trying to pick up your chick. OK I know this is not actually a pick up question and its more relationship related but let me see what you think. How do you handle some idiot that know the girl is not single but still try to run game on her? Option 1 - kick his ass - but this shows vulnerability and weakness. Option 2 - don't pay attention - this shows lack of interest in the girl (not good either) What is some mature way to handle this.

Author:	snapshot99 [ Wed Jul 30, 2014 10:23 pm ]
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Here's the classic boyfriend destroyer, just ask him where his girlfriend is. If he says he doesn't have one then he looks like a loser in front of your girl. If he says he has one but she couldn't come out tonight, then you wink and say 'of course buddy' and laugh in his direction. Other than that just do what chicks usually do with their friends when they cockblock: - hey that is our song and drag her to the dance floor - tell her you have to show her this cool thing you saw( move to other area in venue) - don't laugh at guys jokes or material(let the awkwardness of silence blow him out) - (this is sneaky but funny as hell) tell some ugly drunk chick that your new 'friend' wants to buy her drinks and finds her cute Have fun with it man, don't let these gamers bum you out - you know they suffer from AA, right? Use that to your advantage.

Author:	lowriderzzz [ Wed Jul 30, 2014 10:54 pm ]
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Nice ideas and if all that doesn't work out, it still remains the option to kick some butt.

Author:	DJ_Z [ Thu Jul 31, 2014 1:31 am ]
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Don't fight unless he's propositioning your girlfriend, touching her without her permission, or threatening either of you. It's absolutely pointless. If a girl wants you to fight just because a guy hit on her, it screams "drama" and you should ditch that girl immediately. Just ignore him. Tell your girl you two should go somewhere else (to the bar, outside to smoke, whatever), and walk away.

Author:	neo87 [ Thu Jul 31, 2014 3:10 am ]
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Don't fight some dude over him hitting on your girl. It's the most pusy whipped thing you can do. If your girl let's a guy pick her up or attempt to.. Shake the guys hand and dump her. If she's letting someone hit on her when she is with you, she is fucking someone else when you're not there.

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Author:	oceanx [ Thu Jul 31, 2014 4:55 am ]
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Quote: If your girl let's a guy pick her up or attempt to.. Shake the guys hand and dump her. If she's letting someone hit on her when she is with you, she is fucking someone else when you're not there. I saw a documentary on a 80 year old playboy who basically said this same thing. "If a guy has the skills to game my girl and take her from me then I will shake his hand and congratulate him" or something to that effect.

Author:	lowriderzzz [ Thu Jul 31, 2014 4:28 pm ]
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Actually this is just a hypothetical scenario. It never happened to me. And I wanted to check the overall attitude. Thanks for responses.

Author:	Xoved [ Thu Jul 31, 2014 6:01 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: If your girl let's a guy pick her up or attempt to.. Shake the guys hand and dump her. If she's letting someone hit on her when she is with you, she is fucking someone else when you're not there. I saw a documentary on a 80 year old playboy who basically said this same thing. "If a guy has the skills to game my girl and take her from me then I will shake his hand and congratulate him" or something to that effect. This sounds epic, I never really tried it before. Hopefully will do, if I ever get in a relationship and break up because of that reason of course haha. I usually see guys hitting on my girls as weak bastards, but this might be because I have a lot of public relations, a lot of friends and I'm always out with the "highest value" people. In other words, if I'm dating a girl, she'd look cheap going behind my back and talking to boring guys. Just keep your lifestyle in order. I'm serious about this. The more attractive your lifestyle, the more women are attracted to you. PS: Don't fool yourself by choosing a lifestyle you can't commit to, because it'll end up in a bad way. Make sure you love what you're doing so people love you for it.

Author:	Gradi0 [ Sat Aug 02, 2014 12:33 am ]
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It's awesome to know that other people find her hot. What's the big deal? He might try and buy her drinks, that'll save money. Really, if he could steal my girl right in front of me, she's no good for me anyway.

Author:	skills360 [ Sat Aug 02, 2014 9:17 pm ]
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option 2 is the right one, unless the guys CLEARLY knows that is your gf or with you, if he is obvious she is with you, = disrespect, so a verbal warning while keeping your cool. If he cont. then call the bouncers or kick his ass..

Author:	EademMutataResurgo [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 1:02 am ]
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Girl code the girl (roll eyes up) and label him as creepy. Such a bastard of a label to shake lol, everything he does is then viewed through that frame. A funny one if at a bar is to just introduce the cockblock to a random stranger and walk off with the girl

Author:	TheNaturalPlayboy [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 2:22 pm ]
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Move away from the guy, Take your chick some place or far from that idiot. It would be really helpful if your girl showed him some IOD (indicator if disinterest).

Author:	lowriderzzz [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 8:10 pm ]
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Quote: option 2 is the right one, unless the guys CLEARLY knows that is your gf or with you, if he is obvious she is with you, = disrespect, so a verbal warning while keeping your cool. If he cont. then call the bouncers or kick his ass.. if he doesn't know she is with me, what is the best way to demonstrate that to him ?

Author:	skills360 [ Mon Aug 04, 2014 12:55 am ]
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Quote: Quote: option 2 is the right one, unless the guys CLEARLY knows that is your gf or with you, if he is obvious she is with you, = disrespect, so a verbal warning while keeping your cool. If he cont. then call the bouncers or kick his ass.. if he doesn't know she is with me, what is the best way to demonstrate that to him ? you do not have to, secure masculine men do not worry about that, they are outcome independent, is up to the girl to stop the dude, and not up to you which is very attractive to women a guy that is not possessive or jealous, it is a display of coolness and control. again as long as is not obvious you are together option 2 is the answer.

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Author:	ElijahGuru [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 1:55 am ]
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Quote: Here's the classic boyfriend destroyer, just ask him where his girlfriend is. If he says he doesn't have one then he looks like a loser in front of your girl. If he says he has one but she couldn't come out tonight, then you wink and say 'of course buddy' and laugh in his direction. Other than that just do what chicks usually do with their friends when they cockblock: - hey that is our song and drag her to the dance floor - tell her you have to show her this cool thing you saw( move to other area in venue) - don't laugh at guys jokes or material(let the awkwardness of silence blow him out) - (this is sneaky but funny as hell) tell some ugly drunk chick that your new 'friend' wants to buy her drinks and finds her cute Have fun with it man, don't let these gamers bum you out - you know they suffer from AA, right? Use that to your advantage. Perfect!