Hobbit, if you're naturally more laid back when interacting, then why don't you just be laid back, but at a slightly higher energy level when conversing? It's obvious that it would be easier and more natural to do this. Whenever you force yourself to act in manner which isn't the "norm" for you, it will seem fake or contrived. And based on your statement:
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I have had to force myself to be more aggressive. My natural game consists being really laid back, and if the girl doesn't make the effort to get me, then I'll just go to the next one who will. As I start forcing myself to put more effort in, I find myself wondering how often do the rest of yall keep in touch with girls.
women will pick up on this (your act of not being yourself, unless you're a very good actor). As far as keeping in touch with women, I tell them up front that I am very busy and have a lot of things going on, and I might not see them or call very regularly, but they may feel free to call me. That way, they do the chasing, and have to vie for my interest. As a general rule, I don't call any more than every other week,(if that) and it gives them a chance to miss you(absence makes the heart grow fonder). When I do see them, I always try to have something fun to do and I engage them in good conversations (Anything from riding my motorcycle to going to the park to shopping for new boots[for me]) during the activity.Hope this helps,man
