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Author:  madeirense [ Thu May 29, 2014 11:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
Well, this is an hb8 i met on a plane where she came with her aunt with me being very funny and her haunt helping the "party".. In the end, she gave me her number, case close that moment.


After two days , I sent a message and we exchanged a few messages . I used the " normal" game by exchanging messages , but always felt a mixture of coolness and interest in her answers .
However I suggested we go to the cafe , she agreed but the conversation was around... Meanwhile,two days later she invited me to go to the cafe .
I accepted and went to the coffee, which she took a friend but ran very normal , even winning the " approval " of the friend she had taken ..

After coffe(breakfest), an hour later she sent a message :
her: " Did you like the snack ? :P "
I : " Yeah .. The croissant and orange juice was a delight ;) ahah ! "
her: "kiss : P "
I : " hm .. a snack and you think you've won the right to send kisses .. Sorry, but the minimum is 3 : PP "
she : " loooool , maybe : P "
i : " At least you're not as verbally aggressive ( private joke) ... : D : D "
she : " ahahhaha "

Now I doubt if I did well not responding this last message and should I wait a day or two to send sms?
Also should invite her to go to the cafe again ( went yesterday ) these days (2 or 3 after last one) ?
I can not have a minimally interesting conversation by sms that can demonstrate value and usually i make mistakes with this kind of girls , because i dont know how to text her lol..

Any tips it would be great people, take care and i hope to see your opinion about this ;)
Author:  TheGameSays [ Thu May 29, 2014 11:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
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Well, this is an hb8 i met on a plane where she came with her aunt with me being very funny and her haunt helping the "party".. In the end, she gave me her number, case close that moment.


After two days , I sent a message and we exchanged a few messages . I used the " normal" game by exchanging messages , but always felt a mixture of coolness and interest in her answers .
However I suggested we go to the cafe , she agreed but the conversation was around... Meanwhile,two days later she invited me to go to the cafe .
I accepted and went to the coffee, which she took a friend but ran very normal , even winning the " approval " of the friend she had taken ..

After coffe(breakfest), an hour later she sent a message :
her: " Did you like the snack ? :P "
I : " Yeah .. The croissant and orange juice was a delight ;) ahah ! "
her: "kiss : P "
I : " hm .. a snack and you think you've won the right to send kisses .. Sorry, but the minimum is 3 : PP "
she : " loooool , maybe : P "
i : " At least you're not as verbally aggressive ( private joke) ... : D : D "
she : " ahahhaha "

Now I doubt if I did well not responding this last message and should I wait a day or two to send sms?
Also should invite her to go to the cafe again ( went yesterday ) these days (2 or 3 after last one) ?
I can not have a minimally interesting conversation by sms that can demonstrate value and usually i make mistakes with this kind of girls , because i dont know how to text her lol..

Any tips it would be great people, take care and i hope to see your opinion about this ;)
This is what I see wrong here: :D :) :P :) :D :P :D LOL ;)

Smileys can be playful but can also be the bane of the entire pick up. Just as if you are assertive in person, you can do the same via text. Eventually this will ruin you. Even if she is into the smileys; most other girls (of age) won't be. I've sought out the advice of women themselves for my game in general, especially my phone game. The biggest mistake I've always made with women my age; was sending a bunch of lol's and smileys, like I'm a giddy girl myself.

Another piece of advice I was given is to keep your replies closer to the length of her replies to you. If she sends 3-6 word messages; you shouldn't send a novel. I'm working my way out of this whether it's on facebook, texting, or anything they can read and let me tell you, it's a bit of a chore. Simply because I'm so accustom to doing it that it became natural for me.

Give this a try. Looking forward to seeing how it does for you.
Author:  Royalty [ Fri May 30, 2014 8:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
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Another piece of advice I was given is to keep your replies closer to the length of her replies to you. If she sends 3-6 word messages; you shouldn't send a novel. I'm working my way out of this whether it's on facebook, texting, or anything they can read and let me tell you, it's a bit of a chore. Simply because I'm so accustom to doing it that it became natural for me.
This is terrible advice. Text her whenever the fuck you want to text her, just DON'T text when you're feeling like you need her to respond or need to feel validated by getting a text back. There's something so immature about someone who clearly waits the same amount of time between the last text message until they text you back again. Adults are busy, and sometimes we can't check/respond to a text right away; other adults know this and will either a) call or b) be patient and not worry about it.

From the initial post, it looks like you're fine and have a great rapport with her plus approval of her friend. Set up another meeting.
Author:  TheGameSays [ Sat May 31, 2014 12:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
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Another piece of advice I was given is to keep your replies closer to the length of her replies to you. If she sends 3-6 word messages; you shouldn't send a novel. I'm working my way out of this whether it's on facebook, texting, or anything they can read and let me tell you, it's a bit of a chore. Simply because I'm so accustom to doing it that it became natural for me.
This is terrible advice. Text her whenever the fuck you want to text her, just DON'T text when you're feeling like you need her to respond or need to feel validated by getting a text back. There's something so immature about someone who clearly waits the same amount of time between the last text message until they text you back again. Adults are busy, and sometimes we can't check/respond to a text right away; other adults know this and will either a) call or b) be patient and not worry about it.

From the initial post, it looks like you're fine and have a great rapport with her plus approval of her friend. Set up another meeting.
You misinterpreted that. I said keep it closer to the length of her replies. Meaning if she's sending a few words at a time - don't rewrite a novel. She's either A: busy or B: Not interested in what you ARE sending and you should dim it down for a bit. Let her make conversation longer while not giving up completely because of her dull replies.
Author:  Royalty [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 6:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
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Another piece of advice I was given is to keep your replies closer to the length of her replies to you. If she sends 3-6 word messages; you shouldn't send a novel. I'm working my way out of this whether it's on facebook, texting, or anything they can read and let me tell you, it's a bit of a chore. Simply because I'm so accustom to doing it that it became natural for me.
This is terrible advice. Text her whenever the fuck you want to text her, just DON'T text when you're feeling like you need her to respond or need to feel validated by getting a text back. There's something so immature about someone who clearly waits the same amount of time between the last text message until they text you back again. Adults are busy, and sometimes we can't check/respond to a text right away; other adults know this and will either a) call or b) be patient and not worry about it.

From the initial post, it looks like you're fine and have a great rapport with her plus approval of her friend. Set up another meeting.
You misinterpreted that. I said keep it closer to the length of her replies. Meaning if she's sending a few words at a time - don't rewrite a novel. She's either A: busy or B: Not interested in what you ARE sending and you should dim it down for a bit. Let her make conversation longer while not giving up completely because of her dull replies.

My bad, I see where you were going with that now. Agreed on that point.
Author:  RunTheNumbers [ Tue Jun 03, 2014 3:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
Maybe ask her to get drinks at this point. It doesn't seem like either of you have much to say to each other, so you might as well get a little boost from alcohol. Plus, if you're someplace loud there's less pressure to talk constantly. And you can ease into something like "hey lets go someplace quieter" once inhibitions are low.
Author:  madeirense [ Wed Jun 04, 2014 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
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Another piece of advice I was given is to keep your replies closer to the length of her replies to you. If she sends 3-6 word messages; you shouldn't send a novel. I'm working my way out of this whether it's on facebook, texting, or anything they can read and let me tell you, it's a bit of a chore. Simply because I'm so accustom to doing it that it became natural for me.
This is terrible advice. Text her whenever the fuck you want to text her, just DON'T text when you're feeling like you need her to respond or need to feel validated by getting a text back. There's something so immature about someone who clearly waits the same amount of time between the last text message until they text you back again. Adults are busy, and sometimes we can't check/respond to a text right away; other adults know this and will either a) call or b) be patient and not worry about it.

From the initial post, it looks like you're fine and have a great rapport with her plus approval of her friend. Set up another meeting.
You misinterpreted that. I said keep it closer to the length of her replies. Meaning if she's sending a few words at a time - don't rewrite a novel. She's either A: busy or B: Not interested in what you ARE sending and you should dim it down for a bit. Let her make conversation longer while not giving up completely because of her dull replies.
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Another piece of advice I was given is to keep your replies closer to the length of her replies to you. If she sends 3-6 word messages; you shouldn't send a novel. I'm working my way out of this whether it's on facebook, texting, or anything they can read and let me tell you, it's a bit of a chore. Simply because I'm so accustom to doing it that it became natural for me.
Thanks to all replies, helped a lot.
That question about smiles thats 100% correct, i could
This is terrible advice. Text her whenever the fuck you want to text her, just DON'T text when you're feeling like you need her to respond or need to feel validated by getting a text back. There's something so immature about someone who clearly waits the same amount of time between the last text message until they text you back again. Adults are busy, and sometimes we can't check/respond to a text right away; other adults know this and will either a) call or b) be patient and not worry about it.

From the initial post, it looks like you're fine and have a great rapport with her plus approval of her friend. Set up another meeting.
You misinterpreted that. I said keep it closer to the length of her replies. Meaning if she's sending a few words at a time - don't rewrite a novel. She's either A: busy or B: Not interested in what you ARE sending and you should dim it down for a bit. Let her make conversation longer while not giving up completely because of her dull replies.
About smiles, is correct and could possibly convey an improper posture which immediately fix!
The second question on the time to respond to a message also understand the viewpoint and agree again and I ended up asking her asseguir logo for coffee.
She said she could one day, but the day before was already calling to go to lunch, which ended up because I could not reject.
This leads me to another question, it passed a week without being with her, this may lead to a lack of interest is not careful to return to see us soon, or should I not worry about it too much?
Author:  Royalty [ Fri Jun 06, 2014 7:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
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This leads me to another question, it passed a week without being with her, this may lead to a lack of interest is not careful to return to see us soon, or should I not worry about it too much?
It depends on how strong your interaction has been. David D. has mentioned that attraction should ideally be like gravity, just constantly and automatically pulling two bodies toward each other. So if your attraction is that strong, it is more likely to last longer.

Realistically, I'd say try not to go longer than 10 days between dates - unless you're both really busy or one of you is out of town, etc. Also don't worry about it too much, especially if you're still getting signs of interest via phone/text/facebook/etc.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
Yeah... knock it off with the smileys.
Author:  MarkyMark? [ Thu Jun 12, 2014 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need opinions in this mid-game hb8
Completely agree with the smileys thoughts here.

However, I somewhat disagree with the "novels" vs the 3-6 word texts. IMO, women are going to give a short response unless telling a story or talking about something specific. For example, say you send a three sentence statement inviting her somewhere, she will usually respond with a short answer, and then I'll expand it from there.

Example:

Me: I'm going to X with some buddies at 9. We still talk about the last time we went because this happened. It's going to be amazing, there's X with Y and you'd have to be a Z to not have a great time!

Her: That sounds awesome! See you at 9!

Me: Perfect. Call me when you're there an I'll take come take care of you, and please don't wear the same outfit as me! I hate it when I have to bring a backup outfit.

I'm not going to claim to be some guru or anything of the sorts, but what I "do" seems to work well for me. I see it as a little bit of excitement (what's going to happen), comfort (I'll take care of you) and funny (outfit material).
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