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| Author: | Damien Cash [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 7:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Moving Past Phone Numbers |
I've seen a few questions revolving around the same issue, so I thought I'd answer it more generally. A lot of people I see are getting numbers, but then wondering why nothing else happens. They try and call or text to set up a date and are getting nothing. As gratifying as it feels to get a phone number, this isn't the end. If you're going out at night to pick up women, you have to start taking it a step further. Being able to get a girl's number is the first step. If you can do this with ease, move on to trying to kiss or fuck these girls. Or, just continue to have a good time and see where the evening takes you. I feel like a lot of guys are scared to take the next step; they get the number and eject. This shows that you are still afraid and want to eject before you get rejected. Face your fears head on and keep pushing forward. If you aren't actually in a rush, don't just grab the number and run. Instead, when you feel the urge to get her number, escalate. Touch her more, seduce her and eventually move in for the kiss. If she's receptive, keep up the seduction and bounce. "Hey, it's loud in here. You wanna get out of here so we can talk?" "Hey, you want to grab a six pack and head back to the house? We can watch a movie." "Hey, let's go home so you can brag to your friends tomorrow." Whatever. Just keep the ball rolling. Once again, if you're getting a bunch of numbers and it's going nowhere, it's time to up your game. Numbers are a useless series of digits, unless you already proved you are worth talking to. Go in for the kill, gents! |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Mon Mar 31, 2014 6:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Moving Past Phone Numbers |
I would like to add something to this: Get the phone number in the middle of the interaction, not the end. If she seems like a girl you'd like to see again, by all means get her number, but then continue talking/escalating. |
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| Author: | Sly-Mike [ Thu Apr 10, 2014 11:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Moving Past Phone Numbers |
Great post. You're absolutely right about this. I'm at the stage now where I rake in a ton of numbers but rarely get much further. Sometimes I do, but not that often. Getting numbers is now well within my comfort zone. Lately I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone and I'm going to continue to do so. I no longer think "I'm scared so I can't do it" and instead think "I'm scared so I have to do it". |
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