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| Author: | Phoenixxx123 [ Sun Feb 23, 2014 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to react to a girl going all crazy? |
Had some trouble finding a suitable spot for this thread and figured it would go here. So, what do you guys in general do if you start up a conversation with a girl and they suddenly snap for whatever reason and you go into a loud argument? This hasn't happened to me in a while with any strangers, but a couple of days ago it happened with this one girl I know. She is a girl in my group of friends who I got to know when I was being exclusive with another girl so I haven't made any moves towards her as of now. She is pretty hot, but the personality is definitely a fiery one and she often snaps totally when she has had a little too much to drink. So what happened is that I was chatting with her in the bar and teasing her a bit and did a slight neg, nothing to get even mad about actually but she just snapped. She was loud in telling me how much my personality sucks in various ways and I felt like the whole club was watching, luckily not too many people in it. There was zero chance people didn't notice how mad she was. I tried to be very calm, and told her we can discuss this later when she is sober and actually hears me out, which ofc made her even more angry. I didn't back away and calmly asked her what it is she is actually accusing me of doing or being. I didn't get any reasonable responses and she clearly wasn't about to calm down so I kind of left if there and walked away. What should I have done in terms of this one particular girl and in terms of continuing the game after that in the same bar with other women? Impossible? Any experiences? |
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| Author: | Mr_International [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 1:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to react to a girl going all crazy? |
Giving you the benefit of the doubt and assuming you are doing everything right, I wouldn't argue. "Don't argue with fools because from a distance, people can't tell who is who." Even you attempting to calm her down could make you look foolish. I would say to keep your cool and laugh it off to make it look like she's crazy. As far as negs go, I might be wrong, but I see them more as ice-breakers for women who are probably used to getting compliments from random strangers. If you continuously do this to a girl, after you've already got her talking, you'll just wind up looking like a jerk. |
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| Author: | osyn [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 3:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to react to a girl going all crazy? |
I'd say it was a bad neg. See, negs really should be used rarely and done carefully. As far as she goes, you blew it and she doesn't sound stable if she is drinking that much and getting that mean. Stay away from that bar for a hot minute, ok? |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Mon Feb 24, 2014 5:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to react to a girl going all crazy? |
Quote: I tried to be very calm, and told her we can discuss this later when she is sober and actually hears me out, which ofc made her even more angry. I didn't back away and calmly asked her what it is she is actually accusing me of doing or being.
No need to explain, because you are not an AFC. You are a PUA, so you stay calm and walk away. Let her make a fool out of herself.As you mentioned, she is a fiery one. So it is NOT you, it is her. Don't let this small thing impact your game 
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| Author: | Phoenixxx123 [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to react to a girl going all crazy? |
Quote: I'd say it was a bad neg. See, negs really should be used rarely and done carefully. As far as she goes, you blew it and she doesn't sound stable if she is drinking that much and getting that mean. Stay away from that bar for a hot minute, ok?
Yeah well I wasn't actually saying anything about her and it wasn't a neg exactly but thought it was pretty similar to that. More like not being afraid of disagreeing with a hot girl and not taking back your words and backing down instantly if they disagree. But been keeping distance with this one, starts to really seem to be mentally unstable
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