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| Author: | cunning_stunt [ Wed Feb 19, 2014 12:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The boundaries for getting an emotional response. |
I am not really sure how far this is meant to be taken and how you guys would do this.. But for example, we are told/know that moving a girl emotionally and getting an emotional response increases attraction. How far can this be taken and in what capacity? On Saturday I saw a girl who has flaked on me a lot in recent times. Given her too much opportunity to do it. She told me that I looked 'well'. I told her she had a funny face or something. She got very funny with me and it felt so awkward. Kind of laughed her back into a normal state, but its hard to tell whether what I did increased attraction or not or whether it was the right type of thing. Also, even if a girl who wasn't interested in me -she would get pissed off with a comment like this.. so how can I tell if it increased attraction.? im very confused.. Here is a silly/ extreme example but stay with me on this.. if a girl thought she was about to be forced to have sex with you/be raped and she is frightened - then does this increase attraction?.. I have no intention of ever doing this but I am trying to understand what sort of an emotional response is ok and what isn't.. |
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| Author: | JPAC1123 [ Thu Feb 20, 2014 12:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The boundaries for getting an emotional response. |
Basically, you want to go for the POSITIVE emotions: excited, inspired, deeply moved, etc. Look dude, I feel like girls are simpler than we think. If you scare a girl, she won't get attracted, she'll get scared. Same thing if you creep a girl out. Now, they say that girls can show attraction to a person that adbucted them, for example. Because they feel like you've been through so much together, and it was an emotional rollercoaster, adrenaline pumping, blah blah blahh. But I'm pretty sure it wasn't the initial fear or the creep factor that sparked the attraction. It was the rest of the excitement being on the run or some shit, hearing about a kidnapper's life story during the whole thing. I mean, a kidnapper's got a more interesting life than what you'd hear on a boring dinner date, won't you agree? Bottom line, go for excited, surprised, inspired, deeply moved, and emotions like that over boredom, fear, & creeped out. |
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| Author: | osyn [ Thu Feb 20, 2014 5:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The boundaries for getting an emotional response. |
I used to be attracted to one guy who emotionally manipulated me by using fear, and then by digging into my securities. It worked very well, until one day, he went too far. And now, I am not even remotely into him anymore. When she starts blowing up your phone, and when she starts crying, you're probably going too far for most girls. |
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| Author: | hugge [ Thu Feb 20, 2014 8:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The boundaries for getting an emotional response. |
You can scare a girl if you immediately makes sure she realizes she is safe, and if you do it in a fun way. By doing so you will raise her pulse (which is more or less consciously associated with arousal). That will make her bond to you stronger. I once heard of a study where guys exchanged phone numbers with girls (probably after chatting for a while), where one group were in a safe place and the other on a bridge over a canyon or something (not as safe). The girls on the bridge tended to respond more positively when the guy called them a few days later, and the conclusion was just that - if the heart rate is high you will connect stronger to each other. |
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