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| Author: | RockstarPUA [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 11:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | The Power of The In-Joke |
This is something that I came up with very organically and spur of the moment, and found out that it worked nicely. I ended up f-closing a work colleague with this, and have been using similar in-jokes with others to some success (sexting etc. I know sexting is a bit moot but it means i know i could fuck them if i wanted). So this is something that will perhaps work best if your gaming a girl on the long-term (such as a co-worker, acquaintance, friend of a friend, etc - someone you see on a regular basis). And when I say long-term this is relative, I found it worked best spread across only a 2 or 3 days. Now, the "in-joke" or "private-joke" is valuable to the pua because it is something that only exists between you and the girl. When you and the girl are laughing about it, and other people around don't really get it, it forms a connection between you. It's YOUR thing. And also before I start, this wont be for everyone, many of you out there may say its too long winded etc... but really this is for guys who maybe don't have the confidence to work too fast or too direct, because it is very low-risk. It's just something I did and found worked. I'm going to give you an example based on what I did. You don't have to do exactly this but the principals are important. So, there was this girl at work (HB8 maybe) who I kinda knew to chat with, would flirt with a bit but nothing more. What happened was, for something reason I said something in a funny accent (it was like a redneck/hillbilly accent) and she laughed and said i was really good at it. So for the rest of the day every now and then I'd do it and she'd laugh. What's important though is I escalated it. I think I said to her something like 'your hair's real perdy!'. And after that I started just saying those crap, cheesy pickup lines, but in the accent and it was funny. What I found was, I could say anything if I said it in that way. By the next day I actually said 'I want to fuck you'. I could say that because I had plausible deniability that it was a joke because of the accent. Here though, although it's under the guise of the joke, I was still saying these things to her - she was hearing the words "i want to fuck you" coming out of my mouth. and this would get a real reaction (subconsciously or not). So then I could gauge her attraction towards me. She would laugh, and say similar things back to me. Then after that I found it easier to transition from the joke into a more serious way of talking - i discovered i could say similar things without the accent, and we ended up after about 3 days meeting at her place on our day off. So the principals are - Create a running joke that only you and her can enjoy - Escalate it as soon as you can into a more flirtation and sexual context - Gauge her attraction by her reaction to the escalation - If you know you have attraction you can continue your regular f-close game from there. I've only done this in a work environment, so I'm not sure how it would translate to night-game for example. Though I do think it would. For example after opening, you could start a private joke with the girl, and can then roll off, come back in 20 minutes and reopen with the joke, and so forth and escalate it each time. I would love to read your thoughts on this. |
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