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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sun Dec 15, 2013 4:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
5 Mistakes- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cFvrYaiGERM |
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| Author: | DdOS [ Sun Dec 15, 2013 7:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
In my opinion(and i believe most of the forum agrees with me) trying to get out of the friendzone once you are already in it is a massive waste of time, it is an up the hill battle, and the girl in 9/10 cases is not even that hot, you just make her seem like that to you. Anyway i do not think any PUA worth his salt is landing in the friendzone(i am not and i am just a little more than rAFC right now), and the for the ones who do there is only one cure, move on, once you are good enough to attract other women then if you want to return to that one girl and try to win her over you can, but paradoxically the best way to get out of the friendzone is if your "girl-friend" smells the scent of other woman on you. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sun Dec 15, 2013 11:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
I agree... it's easier to avoid the friend zone all together rather than struggling to get out. Getting out of the Friend Zone is possible but it's like losing by a touch down in the 4th quarter with 15 seconds on the clock on the 20 yard line. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 12:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
The thing with the friend zone is that being friends with a girl does not equal being in her friend zone. I do like how this dude doesn't preach the common community misconception that if you don't make a move asap, you're going to land in the friend zone. I have personal experience. My current girlfriend had been a friend of mine for over 2 years. I'd had another girlfriend, and then I'd been single for another 6 months before we got together. And really I did not change much on my attitude I was just more suggestive and allowed more sexuality to occur in our interactions. I wasn't even conciously aware of that until both of us were struggling with the thoughts of "Where the hell is this going? Clearly it's becoming more than friendship" And I only didn't make a move for a while because I needed to set my priorities. I needed to decide whether it was worth it to risk this great friendship for something more, and in the end I just had enough of it, took control, invited her over for her birthday, and kissed her. I absolutely agree with the five mistakes that this guy is talking about. And I also have to agree that to escape the real friend-zone, it is just a lot of struggle, and usually just a waste of time, because chances are, there are just better women out there and to get them it's just a lot less time and energy investment. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Wed Dec 18, 2013 4:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
^ Well Said! |
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| Author: | 7000 [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 2:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
Pretty much agree with everything already said here. I would just add that often NOT trying to get out of the friend zone and just forgetting about the girl in that way will get you out of the friend zone more successfully than actively trying to get out. If you're trying to get out of the friend zone with a particular girl, you're basically putting her on a pedastal anyway - she's worth more of your time than any other girl. So even if you tighten up your game and whatever else to try and "trick" your way out of the friendzone, you're still basically obsessed with this girl. If you genuinely actually forget about the girl and stop trying to get into her pants, you'll probably end up with other girls, spending less time with the friend zone girl. She ends up realising that you're no longer "in love" with her, and that you're now hard for her to get - she gets more interested, out of the friend zone. But it has to be a genuine case of really not caring about trying to get out of the friend zone anymore, and just moving on. If you do that, then either way you're going to be happy. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 3:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: 5 Mistakes That Will Land You In The Friend Zone |
YUP! ^ |
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