That laziness you talk about seems to be somewhat age related, isn't it? I used to be like that myself. Today, at the age of 35, I'm living my dream with my beautiful girlfriend (funny enough I met her only 3 months after breaking up with my ex, when I got into pickup). I have (almost) everything I want in life, and can consider myself quite successful. This leads me to my question... How common do you think it is that people at my age or older are still sitting on their asses playing games complaining about their lives? I actually know some people who fit that description.

Alright, this is a pretty simple idea that alot of younger guys out there especially fail to realize...

Time is money. Time is pussy. Time is EVERYTHING.

As I get older, I realize that time flies by quicker and quicker. Hours turn into days. Days turn into weeks. Weeks turn into months. Months turn into years... You get the idea. You don't get that time back. Ever.

Ok, so here's my point to this post... every second of your day should have some type of purpose to get you to the next "level" of where you want to be in life.

If you want to be filthy rich, realize you're probably NOT going to win the lottery. You've gotta get out there and make it happen to get that money.

If you want tons of women, you can't expect them to just fall into your lap. (figuratively speaking) You've gotta get out there and make it happen to get some pussy.

The amount of time that guys these days waste of their life playing Grand Theft Auto 5 or doing other useless bullshit to keep them entertained is absolutely RIDICULOUS. I'm almost 26 years old and I look back at some of the people I went to highschool with and see them as some of the LAZIEST PIECES OF SHIT out there. I see this all over the place. Then they bitch, piss and moan about how bad their life sucks, how they can't get laid, they're broke, they still live with their parents, whatever the bitching may be about... They aren't doing ANYTHING to fix it. It's just video game after video game with a bit of porn in between to aid them in shooting their sorrows into a rag.

Here's what I'm saying guys... stop bitching and start doing something. I'll give you an example...

You spend 4 hours a day playing GTA 5... complain that you never get laid. Hmmm...

Here's an grand idea, instead of wasting your life away on the couch. Go out and talk to some girls for those 4 hours. Work on getting some ass.

OR

You spend 4 hours a day playing GTA 5... complain that you're broke and still live at home...

GET OUT OF YOUR PARENTS HOUSE AND START MAKING SOME MONEY. DO SOMETHING!

All I'm saying is this generation of laziness and bitchiness has REALLY got to stop.

Quit dreaming. Start living.

I agree 100% with you, I personaly think that the hardest part is to BEGIN.
This is a huge obstacle that we all have to overcome the obstacle but the question is HOW?

Do you got any tips?

As I said in the post above... It's a habit man. It's a complete lifestyle change.

You've really just gotta start doing SOMETHING. To change a habit, you have to destroy the old habit and create a new one. The best advice I can give you is start taking action in life. Stop thinking so much about what you "want to do" and actually just do it. An object in motion tends to stay in motion... Once you start taking action, you don't stop.

I'll give you an analogy.... It's like someone who wants to start working out... The first month or so might be difficult. But after you get into the swing of things and create a habit of going to the gym X amount of days during the week, it becomes a thing that you just do naturally. It's second nature. You just do it instead of thinking about it.

People can do whatever they want. I enjoy many things in life. I like cooking, playing video games, studying language, drinking whiskey, gambling, playing with animals, fishing, having sex, sleeping, napping, and driving in my car towards no particular location.

You are correct in that people should focus towards their goals rather than just talk about their goals. However, this "lighting a fire" under people is just aggressive and annoying. You would probably succeed in motivating others more by inspiring them than mocking them. Everybody wants a hand-out is the insulting way to put it. Basic economics dictates that people look to achieve their goals for the lowest cost. Everything has a cost, and people who value more than one thing choose where to spend their time based on the costs. You can't have everything you want, the moment you choose A, you give up B.

I can't figure you out. You don't offer enough substantial advice in a reasonable manner to appear to want to help people. You don't brag enough to suggest you are here to stroke your own ego. My only guess is you are here to yell at people without technically raising your voice.

You're looking for a handout, too. You talk as if you have already earned everyone's respect. Everybody wants handouts for everything, I guess, including respect. However, respect is earned by showing it to others. Maybe this entire forum needs a serious kick in the ass, because there's too much chest-thumping thinly veiled by claims of being "alpha" that prevents people from showing each other the level of respect needed to work together for collective improvement.

People can do whatever they want. I enjoy many things in life. I like cooking, playing video games, studying language, drinking whiskey, gambling, playing with animals, fishing, having sex, sleeping, napping, and driving in my car towards no particular location.

You are correct in that people should focus towards their goals rather than just talk about their goals. However, this "lighting a fire" under people is just aggressive and annoying. You would probably succeed in motivating others more by inspiring them than mocking them. Everybody wants a hand-out is the insulting way to put it. Basic economics dictates that people look to achieve their goals for the lowest cost. Everything has a cost, and people who value more than one thing choose where to spend their time based on the costs. You can't have everything you want, the moment you choose A, you give up B.

I can't figure you out. You don't offer enough substantial advice in a reasonable manner to appear to want to help people. You don't brag enough to suggest you are here to stroke your own ego. My only guess is you are here to yell at people without technically raising your voice.

You're looking for a handout, too. You talk as if you have already earned everyone's respect. Everybody wants handouts for everything, I guess, including respect. However, respect is earned by showing it to others. Maybe this entire forum needs a serious kick in the ass, because there's too much chest-thumping thinly veiled by claims of being "alpha" that prevents people from showing each other the level of respect needed to work together for collective improvement.