Previously, a problem I was having was as follows: I would get a phone number and the girl would be interested and I would bullshit too much instead of asking her out, eventually resulting in her loosing interest. Since realizing where I was making girls lose interest, I became more direct. After securing numbers, I have been having some success getting getting the initial date recently.

However, I am now running into a different grey area. There are a small handful of girls that I am currently sexually interested in (possibly romantically but its too early too say, currently I can only say with certainty that there is sexual interest on my part). I have managed to get a first date with a couple of them (took one too starbucks etc.) but I am struggling how to make the transition into the bed. I don't know when I should be making the move to become more sexually indicating. This is an area I have not had excessive experience in. Just as I was previously causing girls to lose interest because i didnt ask them out, similarly i am beginning to wonder if now I have caused a couple of these girls to lose interest because since we have been hanging out I have not made a sexual move. For example, with one of these girls, she was very interested after the first date but lately seems to be losing interest, as I asked her to hangout this week and got no response. Or maybe it was for a different reason.

I currently am at a university but am just under the legal drinking age, so that unfortunately rules out that option. I could try inviting them to a party but I prefer to have one on one time with the girl

Well obviously it varies largely on the person and on circumstances, but as a general reference point when you are dating, how many dates does it take before you kiss her? have sex?