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| Author: | Azizi [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 5:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re-evaluating and Assessing yourself |
I've been browsing these forums forever and I can honestly say I know a lot of the tools of trade. I've read certain topics over and over again. That was long ago. This past year I was studying, so barely had time. I'm a creative and in my space of film, photography and design, I push the envelope or try to, I get heavily criticized for it, because they are rules, I have been heavily praised and criticized for it. So my marks do range from very high to very average. The whole point is that I sat there being criticised, for my work in one of my classes, which is the whole points of creatives getting critics. I sat being told what I done wrong. I was so hard headed thinking I know best, I'm usually very open to critics but in this case I was very closed off. Next assignment came along I took the critic and even against my own will kept it more simple, well, well I came up with a design not only innovated, but looked really cool. This story seems pointless yes, but what I realised recently was that most people aren't honest with themselves. I sat there after this year after taking a beating from the girl I liked, we were dating, but like I just took her shit. After we broke up, it took 2 weeks for me to realise I am much happier without her. She brought me down, she took advantage of my niceness and I wasn't nice cause I wanted pussy, cause I got plenty from her anyway,not that much but enough for me anyway, but I was nice cause I honestly wanted to help and I am nice. What I did was re-evaluate myself and realised PUA is more than lessons its a lifestyle and you have to be willing to throw away your stubborn ways,its hard. I sit here typing this realising I was too focused on the value of the women, and I mean honestly I sit realising I'm an awesome person a lot of people like me, cause I'm well I'm awesome, I have an awesome life, a good future, I'm ambitious, why do I need a woman in my life, she needs me. Then why am I the one going after these pretty girls, who have no future or no social life and they above me. That is the key here and the answer, I'm no Brad Pitt I will admit, I am fairly good looking, no I am good looking honestly, in my eyes and others. So why oh why am I bowing down to other women who like me, but choose other guys cause of my race and then get pregnant. What I realised after re-evaluating, people never appreciate themselves, and when your value is lower than the woman is where people lose it honestly, people need to get against their ways and change this mind state, I sit here after a year of searching and honestly I have come here, but its been a long time. Its an epiphany if you will. In some ways we are valuing women more cause we are on forum to learn more, about how to get them or whatever, but really where most of us go wrong is that as much as we believe that women make our lives better we make their lives better as well if not more so, so then why put up with it. We are awesome, well at least I know I am. I know its not an easy mind-set to reach, but I think its a mind-set that all PUA's should reach,if you don't believe you awesome I can guarantee you no one else thinks you are. I just wanted to give some insight on my journey, I hope it helps some as I believe we put way too little time appreciating ourselves, but we gladly others and that's why we get AFCs cause they always wonder what can I do for her, well it should be what can she do for me as well, and she should be glad she entering my life. Change this mentality that you not worth as much, I knew I was worth something, but now that I re-evaluate I'm worth a lot, I'm very social,funny,exciting to be around,like adventure, do extreme sports, very sporty, an amazing soccer and hockey player, very artistic and any girl would be lucky to be with me. This is how I see it and a lot of people should see themselves like this. You worth more than you believe. |
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