I've never bothered with the term "close", it makes no sense grammatically. You're not "closing" anything. It's a sales term which has been incorrectly attributed to pickup.

Counting closes is vanity. Opening and escalating is sanity.

Once you banged a certain amount of girls you stop counting and stop caring about notches in the belt.

These days i don't aim to get sex, i aim to get sex on tap. For me a "close" is when i can fuck her anytime i want. The older I get the less i care about one night stands, i just want on tap fuck buddies.

Im on board with this... The cost/benefit ratio of effort to pussy isnt really worth it for me in a ONS. I always preferred to keep a rotation of women at various places in the process. The true gems get a few permanent spots.


Also, Why did some of you vote that intercourse but not blow jobs count as a "close"? Sometimes I would much rather get a blow job than sleep with a girl. Its safer, less physical effort, she feels less slutty, doesnt cling as much and I still cum. Fuck even clean up is easier. Trust me, I love women. I love making a woman cum but with a complete stranger sometimes I will pass if I know the blow job is there. I dont know, maybe I just love blow jobs too much. Just curious?