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| Author: | Raiden2k2 [ Wed Oct 30, 2013 5:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | I Get Laid, But I Can't Get Relationships |
Right now, I'm with 3 women who want to just be fuck buddies. the sex is good. I was dating them. Two of them said, "I don't think I can make you as happy as you make me feel, and that makes me feel guilty." Two women told me that and have kept sleeping with me. The other one just said she wasn't up for a relationship at the time, she thought she was, but she thought sex was good with me. My ex, when she breaks up with whoever she's dating comes back to hook up with me and make her feel special. My other ex calls me for the occasional booty call whenever her boyfriend either can't get it up (he had cancer and has performance issues) or when he pisses her off. Sex, I seem to be very good at, relationships... not so much Any suggestions? |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Wed Oct 30, 2013 9:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I Get Laid, But I Can't Get Relationships |
Why would you want a relationship when you're getting laid whenever you can by different girls? If you insist, try to go on dates, not just fuck-buddy sessions. Take the girl to several places on the same night, meet up with her more than twice a week and show her you're a man in bed. That's all I guess, but if I was in your place, I'd just game more girls and keep those 3. |
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| Author: | Wall1e [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I Get Laid, But I Can't Get Relationships |
Quote: Why would you want a relationship when you're getting laid whenever you can by different girls?
Because occasional, emotionless sex can be boring after a while. If you insist, try to go on dates, not just fuck-buddy sessions. Take the girl to several places on the same night, meet up with her more than twice a week and show her you're a man in bed. That's all I guess, but if I was in your place, I'd just game more girls and keep those 3. Raiden2k2, I think that the problem that you can't have relationships is because you haven't build that emotional connection with the girls yet. But you're having sex before going into relationships, which is a good thing. As skills360 always says (and I can back this up from my own experience), have sex first and you can always work your way back into a relationship. I got my last relationship when I found out both me and her shared our vulnerable secrets to each other. By being truely open about yourself, sharing your strengths and also weaknesses, you can build that connection. It's a very strong feeling if you have that towards a girl. A word of caution! Don't go into a relationship when you don't you the girl good ENOUGH yet. If you find out later on that she doesnt suit you, then it's a no go. Wallie |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 9:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I Get Laid, But I Can't Get Relationships |
Quote: Right now, I'm with 3 women who want to just be fuck buddies. the sex is good. I was dating them. Two of them said, "I don't think I can make you as happy as you make me feel, and that makes me feel guilty." Two women told me that and have kept sleeping with me. The other one just said she wasn't up for a relationship at the time, she thought she was, but she thought sex was good with me. My ex, when she breaks up with whoever she's dating comes back to hook up with me and make her feel special. My other ex calls me for the occasional booty call whenever her boyfriend either can't get it up (he had cancer and has performance issues) or when he pisses her off. Sex, I seem to be very good at, relationships... not so much
Any suggestions? If you keep sleeping with them for about 3-5 times they will start getting attach, unless you are needy and you are too invested in a way that you are pushing for a relationship, this is big one that fucks everything up. Another big one which happens to a lot of players is that they come across too much of a player so the girl may be scared of getting hurt, or they do not see a future with you(your lifestyle is fucked you can get around that by projecting drive and ambition) The ex may have moved on, and using you as a rebound to lessen the pain, or for a safe way to get her sexual needs met in between guys. If i have to take a bet, will be that probably you are giving needy vibes or a combination of all of the above: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNovswAlmio |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 2:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I Get Laid, But I Can't Get Relationships |
Are you the one bringing up the relationship topic? |
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