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Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 2:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationship
What's your thoughts on flirting while in a relationship? I think it's healthy for a man. I'm not saying it's cool to be unfaithful to your lady and sneak behind her back.... in fact I see no need for it if you have good game. I've just noticed since I've been in a relationship (for 3 yrs)I haven't socialized with women like I used to.

I went to my best friend son's 1st birthday party the other day and I saw this girl I used to flirt with all the time. I started off trying to make the conversation normal with her and then i was like "oh fuck this" and it ended up as a fun verbal spar. I can't manage to avoid having a stimulating convo... I absolutely hate small talk now and I didn't wanna come off as a boring loser.

It actually felt good to flirt with her. I have no intention on chasing her or leaving my girl cause I'm happy in my relationship. I just think it's fun to flirt with girls just for the thrill. What are your thoughts?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
Flirting is not only okay, it's healthy. It keeps you from becoming 100% dependent on your partner.

Just because you stop at BMW once in a while to check out the new models, doesn't mean your going to buy one.

And if you believe your partner does not flirt on occasion, your deluding yourself.
Author:  Wall1e [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 5:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
Quote:
What's your thoughts on flirting while in a relationship? I think it's healthy for a man. I'm not saying it's cool to be unfaithful to your lady and sneak behind her back.... in fact I see no need for it if you have good game. I've just noticed since I've been in a relationship (for 3 yrs)I haven't socialized with women like I used to.

I went to my best friend son's 1st birthday party the other day and I saw this girl I used to flirt with all the time. I started off trying to make the conversation normal with her and then i was like "oh fuck this" and it ended up as a fun verbal spar. I can't manage to avoid having a stimulating convo... I absolutely hate small talk now and I didn't wanna come off as a boring loser.

It actually felt good to flirt with her. I have no intention on chasing her or leaving my girl cause I'm happy in my relationship. I just think it's fun to flirt with girls just for the thrill. What are your thoughts?
Heywood's right. Once in a while flirting is OK. If the girl becomes attracted you just say: "Oh i'm sorry but I actually already have a GF, I just liked to talk to you".

In my experience I've been talking to many girls and sometimes I only heard 10 minutes into the conversation (when things got physical) that she said: "You're a really fun guy and so, but I'm actually already in a relationship". Girls do it with many guys, so did my ex-gf when we were in relationship. You shouldn't be feeling bad about it, and who knows, it might even spark the relationship a little bit ;).

Wallie
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
Makes sense! Thx I appreciate it.
Author:  Xoved [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 9:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
The main reason I lost the first girl I loved was because I told her she can't flirt around with other guys.

I say go for it, it won't hurt unless you're getting physical.
Author:  MrBreeze [ Thu Oct 10, 2013 3:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
Im a total flirt... I flirt when my girl isnt around... I flirt shes around... I flirt and find my GF so she can flirt too. Its only healthy!
Author:  ChitownMaverick [ Fri Oct 11, 2013 5:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
Do it.

Keep your blade sharp.

Do it in front of your girlfriend if you have the balls.

Seeing other girls flirting with you turns her on (though she probably won't admit it).
Author:  Pajo [ Fri Oct 11, 2013 12:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Flirting with other girls while in a serious relationshi
Quote:
What's your thoughts on flirting while in a relationship? I think it's healthy for a man. I'm not saying it's cool to be unfaithful to your lady and sneak behind her back.... in fact I see no need for it if you have good game. I've just noticed since I've been in a relationship (for 3 yrs)I haven't socialized with women like I used to.

I went to my best friend son's 1st birthday party the other day and I saw this girl I used to flirt with all the time. I started off trying to make the conversation normal with her and then i was like "oh fuck this" and it ended up as a fun verbal spar. I can't manage to avoid having a stimulating convo... I absolutely hate small talk now and I didn't wanna come off as a boring loser.

It actually felt good to flirt with her. I have no intention on chasing her or leaving my girl cause I'm happy in my relationship. I just think it's fun to flirt with girls just for the thrill. What are your thoughts?
You're a man, do the fuck whatever you want.

If you know how to keep your girl satisfied she won't flirt with other boys.
Atleast when she's not with you ;-)
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