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Author:  A Good Person [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 5:36 am ]
Post subject:  Changing the Game
If a girl has a big ego then she wants the best but she is also afraid of being unwanted. Being the prize and being hard to get will attract them. However, these women don't really care about you . Its all about their ego. Ego is something that is important for building confidence, but Ego is not something you want to start a life and relationship with someone for. You guys will basically be playing power play and withholding emotion games. You can't love someone like that.

Being the prize and being hard to get are not the most realistic goals for some guys. Every guy is not ready to be the alpha male. Every guy is not going to be a standout. A lot of guys just will like women too much to be hard to get. You can't try to be some cold blooded asshole when you're the direct opposite emotionally. That's unrealistic. Mind you , you don't want to be easy so you must have some restraint. Lastly, you just will not be able live with some people without compromising. Yes, I said compromise.

There are other ways to attract women besides her ego. There other ways to get a woman to chose you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bnDrQlcJqo0

#1 Make a connection. You this by relaxing the women and asking the woman about how she feels about things. Events from her past, events during her day, dreams for the future. You don't know someone if you don't know how they feel. Knowing how someone feels forges an intimate bond. Chances are she interacts with people everyday that know nothing about how she feels. So by asking her how she feels you can get closer to her than people see has scene everyday of her life. Note: Its not about you. Its not a big deal to tell her how you feel about stuff. Remain mysterious and let her project her fantasies on you.

#2 Common Interest- if yall both like video games then play video games. If yall both like movies then watch movies. If yall both likefootball then watch football. You just want to try to find something to bring you guys together.

#3 Building her confidence- Look for things that hurt her. Look for things she's afraid of then encourage her. Try to make her feel good about these things. This is priceless.

4) Father Figure- most people won't admit this, but out of habit and values people are looking someone that will treat them silimilarly to their opposite sex parent. They are used to being treated a certain by their parents so they want someone else to do it to. This is especially true with people that are spoiled. They look for someone all their lives that will provide for them like their parents did. Also, a lot of times people think of their parents as the perfect woman or man simply because they love them so much. Try being her Papi.

5.) Love- be pleasant to her. Joy let your presence be a breath of fresh air. She might be having a rough day, but you always without fail make her happy. You are her sunshine.

6.) Fun-One thing that women man not forgive is boredom. going on adventures, taking risks, travelling, action. Everyone wants some excitement in their life.

7.) Be Rare- Do things no one else does. talk about things and tell her things no one else does. A lot times girls get compliment on nothing but their beauty. Tell her she’s smart. Tell her she’s responsible. Tell her she’s strong. Tell her she’s caring.

8.) Style & Attraction
Author:  hugge [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 12:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
I'm sorry if I can't quote you correctly, but this site doesn't seem to work properly in Chrome. :P

You wrote:

"Every guy is not ready to be the alpha male. Every guy is not going to be a standout. A lot of guys just will like women too much to be hard to get. You can't try to be some cold blooded asshole when you're the direct opposite emotionally. That's unrealistic."

And my spontaneous reaction to that is: Assholes and alpha males are two very different things. Don't confuse them for each other. An alpha male can be a very warm and loving person.

It is probably not possible for most guys to live up to ALL traits of an alpha male, but everybody can live up to SOME of them. At least, everyone can do something about his needyness. It is good to have a desire for women, because women like it, they like the attention and the ego boost it gives them. What they DON'T like is if you act upon your desires as if there is no tomorrow (like a desperate person).

Show your intentions and your desires, but be patient, hold back your horses, and see how incredibly strong that combination is, how it turns her on. By having the mentality that you will get what you want sooner or later, so you don't have to ruch it, you will get tremendously better results.
Author:  A Good Person [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
No an asshole and alpha male aren't the same. I'm just saying some guys aren't prepared to be dominant and restrained around women...Assholes are hard to get. Being a asshole or alpha male are all about being the prize.

A lot of what attracts women to men that do pick up is Pride. Wanting the prize is all about pride. And pride is not a good reason to start a relationship.

I wrote this to say there are other ways to attract women besides being the prize.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 3:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Keep the forum spamming going! excellent job, keep throwing crap to the wall to see what sticks... Instead of posting you should be learning, seriously.
Author:  A Good Person [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 4:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Quote:
Keep the forum spamming going! excellent job, keep throwing crap to the wall to see what sticks... Instead of posting you should be learning, seriously.
Whats wrong with you man? Seriously... I do not agree with the way you do things. Accept that. Respect that. If you want authority say something convincing.

I hear things like I "need to be taught," "you don't know anything," "uneducated," and "I should be learning." but understand this...you don't change your mind because someone ridicules you. That's weak minded.I'm not breaking any rules. Everything I say is true. Deal with it. Stop being butthurt
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 5:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Quote:
Keep the forum spamming going! excellent job, keep throwing crap to the wall to see what sticks... Instead of posting you should be learning, seriously.
LMAO
Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 6:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
I'm not well versed in the pu shenanigans, but I've got to say that all your points above excluding no. 7 **edit** and 8 ** are things that would put you directly in the friend zone unless its with a girl you have already banged...and then its just going to cause her to fall in love.

OP, Seriously....I bet you live in the friend zone....at best you might play tonsil hockey every once in a while.

I've been smashing sluts for over a decade and it all boils down to being able to separate flirty from dtf and forcing a scenario where the sexual act can take place. All this building comfort nonsense is for the birds.
Author:  A Good Person [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 7:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
A lot of guys are afraid of the friend zone. I've been friend zoned once and that was for talking about myself too much. Usually guys end up in the friend zone for talking about themselves to much an turning the woman off or too many physical compliments. A woman will keep you around just for attention and to stroke her ego.

Girls put you in the friend zone because they don't really like you. It's just a bullshit excuse to avoid saying I don't want you. If a girl truly is your friend and enjoys your company and she doesnt just talk to you for attention she's going to think about dating you.
Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 8:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Girls don't put me in the friend zone, I put them in the friend zone.

I hope you have fun chasing girls like a lonely pudgy 7th grader. While you try and smooth your way to their hearts the rest of us will plow through their pussies and go on about our day while you get to be the best friend and listen to them complain about their friends and tough days at work.
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 8:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Quote:
Girls don't put me in the friend zone, I put them in the friend zone.

I hope you have fun chasing girls like a lonely pudgy 7th grader. While you try and smooth your way to their hearts the rest of us will plow through their pussies and go on about our day while you get to be the best friend and listen to them complain about their friends and tough days at work.
LOL - Damn! Well said!

If you're alpha you have those characteristics and it's good as long as you know when to use each(yes everything is situational).

If you're not and you're not confident all you did is describe "BFFs" of girls lol. You're just her girlfriend dude.

Dream just give up, You don't know what the fuck you're talking about we all know it, why do you keep trying?

Friend zone isn't bad as long as you choose to friend zone. If you get friend zoned it's simply because you are an undesirable potential mate (this is common sense).

What's funny as a big part of my particular game is building comfort but I'm super sexual too (not to mention confident), there is no loss of the fact that I am potential sexual mate.

(Nice mention of your ego and how conceded also arrogant you admitted you were to a woman, talking about yourself, super ego! Works perfectly after you just lectured everyone on the ego.)

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
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Author:  skills360 [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 9:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Quote:
Quote:
Keep the forum spamming going! excellent job, keep throwing crap to the wall to see what sticks... Instead of posting you should be learning, seriously.
Whats wrong with you man? Seriously... I do not agree with the way you do things. Accept that. Respect that. If you want authority say something convincing.

I hear things like I "need to be taught," "you don't know anything," "uneducated," and "I should be learning." but understand this...you don't change your mind because someone ridicules you. That's weak minded.I'm not breaking any rules. Everything I say is true. Deal with it. Stop being butthurt

I am gonna say something convincing:

1.- you are spamming the forum(yes you are not breaking the rules)

2.- I am not butthurt but is annoying, all your post with weak info. that is general cookie cutter advise.

3.- the worst part is that you believe, you are actually helping anybody or anybody cares.

4.- you are recycling all bs advise that is outdated and does not work.

5.- you need to be learning instead of posting bad/weak/incorrect/silly advise.

About being a dick/asshole, Respect this and that, put women in their place, make women fall in love, shit test, ego... And all of your other none sense.


1 post i can take, 2 an itch i can take, 3 now is getting annoying, 5 posts and one new everyday hemorrhoids with diarrhea.


So now your main question is why don't ignore and move on? Good question, we are trying(or at least i am) to bring this shit hole to a resemblance of a bit of decency, were people can come and get some value instead of crap.
Author:  GamesSN [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
I just stop reading these threads. The dude is almost always wrong and shares his opinion without any credit to himself, just goes on of biblical proportions about how he thinks everyone should be and how they need to be and makes a big deal out of it. Either he's right about the most basic of shit or it's some convoluted crap. Infact all he does is posts threads and replies to his own threads, doesn't even interact with the community at all.
Author:  A Good Person [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
Quote:
Quote:
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Keep the forum spamming going! excellent job, keep throwing crap to the wall to see what sticks... Instead of posting you should be learning, seriously.
Whats wrong with you man? Seriously... I do not agree with the way you do things. Accept that. Respect that. If you want authority say something convincing.

I hear things like I "need to be taught," "you don't know anything," "uneducated," and "I should be learning." but understand this...you don't change your mind because someone ridicules you. That's weak minded.I'm not breaking any rules. Everything I say is true. Deal with it. Stop being butthurt

I am gonna say something convincing:

1.- you are spamming the forum(yes you are not breaking the rules)

2.- I am not butthurt but is annoying, all your post with weak info. that is general cookie cutter advise.

3.- the worst part is that you believe, you are actually helping anybody or anybody cares.

4.- you are recycling all bs advise that is outdated and does not work.

5.- you need to be learning instead of posting bad/weak/incorrect/silly advise.

About being a dick/asshole, Respect this and that, put women in their place, make women fall in love, shit test, ego... And all of your other none sense.


1 post i can take, 2 an itch i can take, 3 now is getting annoying, 5 posts and one new everyday hemorrhoids with diarrhea.


So now your main question is why don't ignore and move on? Good question, we are trying(or at least i am) to bring this shit hole to a resemblance of a bit of decency, were people can come and get some value instead of crap.
If I am wrong then disprove me. Ridicule isn't an argument.
Author:  Zirk13 [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Changing the Game
this sounds like its gonna become a paramount thing
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