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| Author: | ozzypua [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 6:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | how to deal with compitition from ther guys |
im pretty popular im in HS I talk to girls who get hit on alot but i notice when some guy starts trying to take my set i kinda just chil back and watch , i woder what I should do I know I should regain control but what are some things I should do |
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| Author: | hugge [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 7:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with compitition from ther guys |
For shorter periods of time, you can just lean back and chill. But since seduction requires attention for a longer period of time, you need to regain the attention after a while. How? Most important is to keep cool at all times, never become desperate and needy. In the worst case scenario (if nothing else works), it is better to just leave (and maybe loose/sacrifice) the set and come back later if possible. What you should try to do is to listen to what your competitor has to say (and the topic of the conversation). Then, whatever he is talking about, try to relate to it and tell a story of your own, thus interrupting him and regaining the attention. Be social and welcoming and try to befriend him. When he has accepted you and you are "friends", depending on how easily he falls into a beta-role (and you take the alpha-role), you can either let him be part of your set, or try to get rid of him. You can either get rid of him by saying in a polite way "will you please excuse us, we would like to be alone", or go somewhere else (which can be recommended for other pickup-related reasons). Remember that when two alpha males meet (you and your competitor), there is a risk that the situation gets out of hand since both of you will struggle for the attention, and it can become quite silly. The girl may think you both are a pain in the ass and walk away. So it is better to keep calm and be quiet in some situations. |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 10:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with compitition from ther guys |
Just tell someone in the set that you didn't get introduced to this new guy and they will happily introduce you both. Leaning back and watching right when another person enters the set is weak in my opinion, you have to keep up with the conversation and take control of the situation around. One way to do this is to be more interesting and have a louder voice. If I was in your place, I'd take this as a good opportunity to widen my social circle and I'd be happy to be introduced to new people and making new friends. |
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| Author: | just-some-guy [ Sun Oct 06, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with compitition from ther guys |
unfortunately its not always as easy as disarming the competition through words, practically speaking in the real world say in a club it can be too loud to use words so actions are the only method. lets say you're dancing or chatting with a girl and some dude comes over and tries to muscle in, that to me is the most delicate and difficult situation as it is far too easy to either get cut off if you play nice or get into a physical confrontation if you dont let him have his way. one move i love but can only be used in a limited amount of situations is to engage her attention with something exciting while simultaneously step in between the girl and the douche, cutting him off. he'll either a) shuffle off, b) try to start a fight but that makes him the asshole who gets thrown out or c) he does the same thing and cuts you off, you've just been drawn into a tit-for-tat dick wagging contest, and alphas dont explicitly 'compete'. so you're in a catch 22 situation now. obviously it is best to avoid the situation by keeping aware of peripherals and breaking rapport/walk away if you see a douche honing in. then interact with some other girls in close proximity - if your original set is interested she'll pursue you and forget the douche chasing her. dont want to venture too far or she'll forget you. that way you dont lose face explicitly 'competing' and you have the upper hand with her chasing you. |
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| Author: | ozzypua [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 1:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: how to deal with compitition from ther guys |
nice answers ill keep em in mind |
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