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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 3:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Needing guidance on how to be Alpha |
I find myself doing such beta make things, I haven't become full Alpha yet. Maybe it cause I feel I'm an Alpha with woman but not in my personal life. Here's some things I noticed I do, tell me if their bad: * I overly explain myself and my personality. E.g. "I'm so and so kind of person" * I sometimes let her lead and give me directions and take control (even while being intimate). * I open up to easy. E.g. I told her how my dad was never there for me and I had to teach myself how to be a man. Or that no one showed me Love but yet there's so much love in me to give. * I give long explanations * I use Pre-selection too much. **IMPORTANT** What happens is: I bring up other girls and they end up bring up other guys and it puts them in this mood of wanting that other guy. What would I do here? * I make myself to available or needy * I don't speak to her in a Alpha way, I pause a lot, thinking what to say. * I give her the power in the relationship by saying I like her -- first. ** Important** I don't understand the basically rules of being alpha so in general conversation on what to say and how to handle things -- to demonstrate that I'm Alpha or attract her I fail. That's all I could come up with. Please help me be one more alpha like some if you guys are. I so badly want what you guys have. |
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| Author: | Natty [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 3:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Needing guidance on how to be Alpha |
You won't be a badass to girls if you aren't a badass to yourself and your friends. Less is more. Quit talking so much because it is obviously putting you in the friend zone. Just ask simple questions and let them open up to you. Then smash. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Tue Oct 01, 2013 5:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Needing guidance on how to be Alpha |
This doesn't belong in the lounge please read the forum rules. This belongs in general questions. Thank you. Peace and Love, Vic |
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