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| Author: | mixar [ Mon Sep 23, 2013 8:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | when is it bad for game to become your personality? |
An interesting question came up today. Background. I was at a mates house on Sat night and I met a couple that were my mates wife's co-workers. I used the classic opener how do you know each other, spent most of the time trying to talk to the guy, but his girl was very loud and was a big part of the conversation thru the evening. Today my mate calls and says the guy knows a little bit about game and has accused me of gaming his girl. So I'm recounting the evening and yes I can say that I used quite a few techniques and conversation routines mixed with general chit chat. This has prompted me to question whether I have become a pua robot or whether this guys just a little insecure seeing his girl flirt with me?? At no point during the night did I have any intention of trying to hookup with this girl. I can honestly say that I see myself at the beginning of a long journey in this lifestyle and do consciously practice my conversation skills anywhere anytime. What I am very clear on is my purpose during any interaction. That is it will be to number close or just meet people without attempting to pick up a girl. Has anyone here been busted using game and if so how did you handle this situation? I don't expect to see these guys anytime soon, so I'm really only looking for feedback on other people's experience on this issue. Cheers Mixar |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Mon Sep 23, 2013 10:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it bad for game to become your personality? |
I've done it before without realizing. I didn't mean much of it but it was my friend's gf.... they break up shortly after. 1-2 years later I have a birthday celebration and it was open for anybody to come to the bar.. so she shows up (I didn't think much of it) So we're at the bar... 2 shots later I'm a lot more drunk then i should be and after the bar closes she drives me home and im fucking her.... wtf? Did I get raped? I don't know.... but my friend was still pissed even though it was his Ex and apparently my friend had a suspicion for a while but I never had intentions on banging her... yet she had something else in mind......... |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Sep 23, 2013 11:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it bad for game to become your personality? |
Stop using routines bro.... |
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| Author: | hugge [ Fri Sep 27, 2013 1:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: when is it bad for game to become your personality? |
The goal with game should be to become a natural. Only use routines (if ever) when neither her or you have anythin else to add to the conversation, to avoid an awkward silence. But don't call it a routine anymore, just a story or a topic of conversation that you can use in such situations. In some cases, if the girl is stubborn about not contributing to the conversation, or if she is socially incompetent (many are), I would move on to someone else. In that case it is better to leave her, than to try another "routine". I my opinion, the girl should contribute and try to seduce you too - you are not supposed to do the entire job yourself. Girls who don't are either not interested, socially incompetent and/or have bad game themselves. |
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