PUA Forum :: "I'm busy," "I have a boyfriend"

Some girls do have boyfriends btw. You guys know that is a thing, right?

Yeah often a girl will say that just to test you or because they're afraid to look so slutty...often it's a case of she's already interested in you and her emotions are taking over...best thing is to ignore it completely, don't even acknowledge it and keep up the kino etc. If she's telling the truth you'll find out non verbally anyway.

Have fun

Or, she has a boyfriend. I don't understand the whole bf-destroyer logic etc. there are a million women out there, so even if there is only a 25% chance that she actually has a boyfriend that she won't cheat on, that is still 25% chance you are wasting your time. Seems like a pointless waste, most of the time.

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it is confusing but whats the point in letting a HB10 have a shit night with her boyfriend when she could have an awesome night with you

A girl tells you she has a boyfriend Because she doesn't want to decide whether she wants you.

Because if she wants you she will leave her boyfriend.

Fighting a battle? Whose fighting a battle? You're the prize. You're not talking like the prize. Talk like the prize.

Author:	A Good Person [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:42 am ]
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People make excuses because they don't want to deal with something. Sometimes that's just a decision that you are uncertain about so you come up with reasons to put it off. I pulled this girl a while back, a true HB10. Got her digits then she gave me the I have a boyfriend line. I then asked her "If you didn't have a boyfriend would you want to hangout?" She said "yes." Two weeks later she texted me saying "No more bf" and then we had sex. Sometimes when girls say they are busy or that they have a boyfriend its not that they don't like you its that they don't want to make a decision. So if you ask them if they didn't have this excuse would you still be down to kick it, thats forces them to make a choice. It forces them to make up their mind. Then once they make a commitment people rarely like to change their mind. So they act in accordance with it.

Author:	Skylar B [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 12:35 pm ]
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i always taught the "bf line" was a shit test or a chance to DHV ??

Author:	TheFury [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 12:45 pm ]
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Some girls do have boyfriends btw. You guys know that is a thing, right?

Author:	Dilla [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:40 pm ]
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Yeah often a girl will say that just to test you or because they're afraid to look so slutty...often it's a case of she's already interested in you and her emotions are taking over...best thing is to ignore it completely, don't even acknowledge it and keep up the kino etc. If she's telling the truth you'll find out non verbally anyway. Have fun

Author:	TheFury [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:56 pm ]
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Or, she has a boyfriend. I don't understand the whole bf-destroyer logic etc. there are a million women out there, so even if there is only a 25% chance that she actually has a boyfriend that she won't cheat on, that is still 25% chance you are wasting your time. Seems like a pointless waste, most of the time.

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Author:	Skylar B [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:02 pm ]
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Quote: Some girls do have boyfriends btw. You guys know that is a thing, right? yeah,i know that but there is a thing called lying to get away from somebody dude Quote: Yeah often a girl will say that just to test you or because they're afraid to look so slutty...often it's a case of she's already interested in you and her emotions are taking over...best thing is to ignore it completely, don't even acknowledge it and keep up the kino etc. If she's telling the truth you'll find out non verbally anyway. Have fun this is a better answer thank you dilla

Author:	Skylar B [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 2:05 pm ]
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Quote: Or, she has a boyfriend. I don't understand the whole bf-destroyer logic etc. there are a million women out there, so even if there is only a 25% chance that she actually has a boyfriend that she won't cheat on, that is still 25% chance you are wasting your time. Seems like a pointless waste, most of the time. it is confusing but whats the point in letting a HB10 have a shit night with her boyfriend when she could have an awesome night with you

Author:	TheFury [ Wed Aug 28, 2013 3:32 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Or, she has a boyfriend. I don't understand the whole bf-destroyer logic etc. there are a million women out there, so even if there is only a 25% chance that she actually has a boyfriend that she won't cheat on, that is still 25% chance you are wasting your time. Seems like a pointless waste, most of the time. it is confusing but whats the point in letting a HB10 have a shit night with her boyfriend when she could have an awesome night with you Rather go for an HB10 who doesn't have a boyfriend and have a higher chance to get her. Not saying there is anything wrong with going after a girl w/a bf or that many times a girl says she has a bf she doesn't, but I'd rather the odds be in my favor off the bat vs stacked against me at T+0.

Author:	AFCToTheMax [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 3:24 pm ]
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When a girl says that she has a boyfriend she: - has a boyfriend - not interested in you and want you to disappear asap - likes you but tests you The last one is very rare. I think it's mostly the second one so it's pointless to try further.

Author:	A Good Person [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 4:10 pm ]
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A girl tells you she has a boyfriend Because she doesn't want to decide whether she wants you.

Author:	TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 4:20 pm ]
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Quote: A girl tells you she has a boyfriend Because she doesn't want to decide whether she wants you. OR, she has a boyfriend and is not interested in cheating on him. Why is this so hard for guys to comprehend?

Author:	A Good Person [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 4:43 pm ]
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Because if she wants you she will leave her boyfriend.

Author:	TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 4:45 pm ]
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Quote: Because if she wants you she will leave her boyfriend. Maybe but much lower probability than a single girl. Why fight an uphill battle from the very beginning? Seems like a stupid strategy in general.

Author:	A Good Person [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 5:24 pm ]
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Fighting a battle? Whose fighting a battle? You're the prize. You're not talking like the prize. Talk like the prize.

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Author:	TheFury [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 5:26 pm ]
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Quote: Fighting a battle? Whose fighting a battle? You're the prize. You're not talking like the prize. Talk like the prize. this isn't a tony robbins class. Girl with boyfriend = harder to seduce than girl without boyfriend. Common sense.