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We were on the first "date".
I suppose she's around 40, she didn’t wanna say and I wasn’t much interested in knowing.
She’s quite attractive and with a great body, that’s more important than age .
I'm not young but younger than her, and she said "you're a baby" when I said my year of birth, but she later forgot and I didn't repeat it.
WHAT HAPPENED
In a conversation she said “she’d wish for an engagement ring”. It was unrelated to me, but it got me worried a bit.
I brought her home and we made out on the bed without bra but in spite my persistence didn't want to take the pants off.
It was quite passionate though and we stayed there for quite some time, she was enjoying.
Both in conversation and in the bed before leaving she said “it takes time with me”.
GIVE ME YOUR OPINION
I’m worried about 2 things:
1. The “engagement ring” comment and the fact she says she’s very romantic worried me a bit about clingy behavior even though she doesn’t have any reason for thinking of me as a potential husband: I said I wanted to leave from here and the age difference seemed to matter to her;
2. She said that it will take time with her. As she was really “engaged” in the make out I thought that might not be the case, but.. Could it actually be?
I’m not that willing to spend too much time with her without nothing happening.
What do you think?
We were on the first "date".
I suppose she's around 40, she didn’t wanna say and I wasn’t much interested in knowing.
She’s quite attractive and with a great body, that’s more important than age .
I'm not young but younger than her, and she said "you're a baby" when I said my year of birth, but she later forgot and I didn't repeat it.
WHAT HAPPENED
In a conversation she said “she’d wish for an engagement ring”. It was unrelated to me, but it got me worried a bit.
I brought her home and we made out on the bed without bra but in spite my persistence didn't want to take the pants off.
It was quite passionate though and we stayed there for quite some time, she was enjoying.
Both in conversation and in the bed before leaving she said “it takes time with me”.
GIVE ME YOUR OPINION
I’m worried about 2 things:
1. The “engagement ring” comment and the fact she says she’s very romantic worried me a bit about clingy behavior even though she doesn’t have any reason for thinking of me as a potential husband: I said I wanted to leave from here and the age difference seemed to matter to her;
2. She said that it will take time with her. As she was really “engaged” in the make out I thought that might not be the case, but.. Could it actually be?
I’m not that willing to spend too much time with her without nothing happening.
What do you think?
I think all you want to do is get something for nothing out of her you selfish individual ie to get your end away and she knows it and she knows once you fuck her, you won't give a damn about her. That's why you are getting nowhere with her. Either you want to be a typical bloke, fuck her and then dump her or you want a relationship/more with her. Make up your stupid mind as she can see right through your immature crap.
A tiny bit judgmental of you
.And the one you describe is not typical bloke behaviour, that's an un-respectful, un-empathycal person (do any of these two adjective actually exist?
) whom, I believe, could hardly be successful in nurturing any kind of meaningful relationship.No, I don't want a long term relationship, but that doesn't mean I can't get worried about either investing too much without returns (second question) and/or getting people either hurt or in a not nice situation (first question).
last time was too dangerous for me