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| Author: | Frostkrieg [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | I'm new, this is probably a newbie question |
I met a great looking girl last friday night and chopped it up with her. She gave me her email adress when we parted ways. I'm unfamiliar with the whole email address situation. I want to email her now and my question is 1) do I ask her out in the email (2) ask for her number and ask then call her and ask her out (3) or just say hello in the first email, ask for her number when she replies, then call her and ask her out. Your thoughts. |
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| Author: | Ohboyotellama [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 12:34 am ] |
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1) don't ask her out. 2) yet again don't ask her out. 3) I hope you didn't ask her out. Ok classic problem here email pickups are harder because they are more impersonal DO not ASK HER OUT. And I say this because I am assuming that by ask her out you mean ask her on a date. If she is attractive at all such as HB8+ then it will put her in a position of power if she feels like you really want her INSTEAD in your first email to her should look SOMETHING along these lines Hey (girls name here) This friday night myself and about 10 of my friends (<----DHV) are heading out to the club/bar/poolhall/movie/(ANYWHERE) and seeing as how you are infatuated with me (<---- C&F) I thought you could tag along too or meet us up there but I am giving you a fair warning you have to keep your hands to yourself (<---C&F/Neg) because you will have loads of competition for my attention so dress to impress and I will see you there. SOMETHING like that is the way I could go with it someone else give me some feedback on this? |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 1:12 am ] |
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Hopefully in your initial meeting with her, you gave her something to remember you by. Not a physical object, but something during the convo that planted you into her mind. If so, bring THAT up in the email. That way, she'll open it, read it, a smile will cross her face, and she'll be looking forward to hitting "reply" to get to you ASAP. Once that's done, and she replies back, move for her number. As was said, do NOT ask her out over this initial email. Remind her that you are FUN. That you are someone she WANTS to be around and spend more time with. I wouldn't be talking about anything whatsoever to do with going anywhere in the first email other than what I've just stated. The point right now is to get her to fire an email back to you ASAP with her number in it. From there, you call her and move things forward. You can drop a mention in there about giving her a call, since you're too busy to be online all the time. |
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| Author: | Cool [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 2:29 am ] |
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lol i don't even need to say anything....do exactly what l.a tripp said ther and if u guys end up talking on msn DON'T neg too much because they just won't answer and its sometimes hard to see their reaction...try to stick to the phone and get her reallyy comfortable with you on the phone without getting into her friend mode...so tease her, stay unpredictable and get some story (DHV) routines goin |
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