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Author:  Skylar B [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 5:18 pm ]
Post subject:  she is looking,what do i do?

(this may seem unorthodox,asking 2 questions in the one day,but a question that seems to come and go in my head and yet i have no answer to it.)

Every now and then,i usually spot a girl looking at me 2-3 times.I am completely clueless on what to do?
it may seem like a newbie question but i havent found an answer to it yet.One time abroad,i spotted a girl looking at me and i didnt know what to do,she was with friends and she was smiling and looking at me,i also guessed she spoke spanish.

anyways, do i approach, do i wink or do i.....what?

Author:  UmpteenDee [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 7:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she is looking,what do i do?

There is something we call the 3 second rule. If you are in game mode (which you should always, always be in) you have 3 seconds after making eye contact with the girl and noticing her looking at you, to approach her.

You basically shut off any type of logical thinking and act before you can talk yourself out of it, it's best to have an opener you can pull out to use when you first start doing this. As you get better though, you won't feel as panicky as you approach and you can start a conversation based on anything.

Carlos Xuma once said, there is no girl that is opposed to waking up in the morning and going out not wanting to meet her prince charming that day, rather, they almost all wish it. You have nothing to lose, but lots to gain by approaching.

Author:  Skylar B [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 12:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: she is looking,what do i do?

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There is something we call the 3 second rule. If you are in game mode (which you should always, always be in) you have 3 seconds after making eye contact with the girl and noticing her looking at you, to approach her.

You basically shut off any type of logical thinking and act before you can talk yourself out of it, it's best to have an opener you can pull out to use when you first start doing this. As you get better though, you won't feel as panicky as you approach and you can start a conversation based on anything.

Carlos Xuma once said, there is no girl that is opposed to waking up in the morning and going out not wanting to meet her prince charming that day, rather, they almost all wish it. You have nothing to lose, but lots to gain by approaching.
wow!! :D that was really interesting and helpful info bro,thank you so much :D,i always thought the 3 second rule was applied to if you seen a hot girl,to approach under three seconds but it can be applied to this situation too :) thanks man once again :D

Author:  UmpteenDee [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 1:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: she is looking,what do i do?

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wow!! :D that was really interesting and helpful info bro,thank you so much :D,i always thought the 3 second rule was applied to if you seen a hot girl,to approach under three seconds but it can be applied to this situation too :) thanks man once again :D

No problem bro. Yeah the 3 second rule can be applied to any woman. It's more of a counter against approach anxiety than anything. It forces you to take action before your brain has time to talk itself out of something. Kind of like diving off of a tall cliff into a lake, the faster you do it the better, the more you sit there and look down at the water, the higher the chances of anxiety building and you backing out of doing it will be.

Author:  Skylar B [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 3:20 pm ]
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wow!! :D that was really interesting and helpful info bro,thank you so much :D,i always thought the 3 second rule was applied to if you seen a hot girl,to approach under three seconds but it can be applied to this situation too :) thanks man once again :D

No problem bro. Yeah the 3 second rule can be applied to any woman. It's more of a counter against approach anxiety than anything. It forces you to take action before your brain has time to talk itself out of something. Kind of like diving off of a tall cliff into a lake, the faster you do it the better, the more you sit there and look down at the water, the higher the chances of anxiety building and you backing out of doing it will be.
i will definitely remember that when im out next,it seems to be better explained now than when i read about it in the game.thanks man,you just solved a big problem in my life thats been riddling my social life. :D

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