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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jun 26, 2013 5:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Stop Creeping Girls Out |
Something interesting I saw today that gave me spark for something I wanted to share with you guys... I follow Real Social Dynamics (RSD) Inner Circle- Chicago, which is a meet up group for Pick-Up Artists in Chicago, on Facebook. Now, here's what I saw, a guy posted on the wall of the page a picture of a notice that he was banned from the premises of a mall for harassing girls walking by. Jealous security guard? Maybe. But here's my point... The guy had girls complain about him asking whether or not she masturbates. That being said, he creeped her out. Here's the truth gent's, girls aren't actually rejecting you or what you say... You are rejecting them by creeping them the fuck out. Want to know what's attractive to women? A guy that doesn't make them feel like they are about to be abducted by an alien or some shit. A normal guy to be around who's just a cool guy. This is why it's important to practice good interactions everywhere you go... Not just to go out 2 nights a week and the rest of the week you are some silent, creepy weirdo. The more interactions you have with people, the better you get interacting with people. The more interactions you have with women, the better you get interacting with women. Reference experiences. This is why this is called a "numbers game" with pick-up. Not meant to throw a bucket of shit at the wall and hope something eventually sticks and you get laid... But to throw a bucket of shit at the wall, figure out what works, fix your game for next time. Learn to start paying attention to patterns and you will get surprisingly good... This is how you pull the women you really want the most. Your own personal 9's and 10's. You adjust yourself to be more attractive to the type of women you want. Most guys who get involved in pick-up are analytical thinkers... Use your brains fellas. This is why it is important to not only learn to escalate, but learn how to calibrate. I've said before and I'll say it again, this is a read and re-act sport. Every action creates a re-action and every re-action causes another reaction. If a girls re-action causes her emotions go from positive to negative, you did something wrong. It is now your responsibility to switch her state of mind back to a positive one or leave because you are causing her to feel negative feelings and she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Make sense now? How do you do this? Again, by actually doing it. By getting the fuck out of your house and going places. Even if its just to a Starbucks to sit on your laptop for a bit instead of doing it in your living room... just get out and have some type of interactions with people EVERY DAY... and really pay attention to the actions of people and reactions when you interact with them. And ontop of that... you'll have some cool, interesting shit to talk about too just by getting the fuck out of your house and doing interesting things or talking to interesting people. Here's the kicker, you've got to pay attention to your own actions and reactions too. Remember, emotions are contagious. When you have a dominant frame over someone, they are going to jump into whatever frame you take on and follow your emotions. You now have this person on your "roller coaster." Whatever you feel, they will feel. If you feel nervous or you react nervously, she is going to follow suite. If you feel good, they will feel good to. So when you get blown out of a set, realize that something was off with yourself to cause the set to go negative. You did something to destroy the chemistry of the interaction. You acted negatively or reacted negatively to something in the situation that caused her to feel negative and you did not switch her state of mind back to a positive one. You creeped her out. Work on maintaining a positive state of mind, sending off positive emotions and you will be able to get VERY good with women. |
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