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| Author: | Kino Suave [ Tue May 14, 2013 1:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Look guys, if you are doing the right thing and challenging social norms you are going to get called out on occasion. How you handle it can make all the difference in going home with her or going home alone. Let’s look at an insult for what it really is. It’s an attempted value exchange. Somebody, is in effect attempting to lower your value while raising theirs. There are three possible outcomes. 1. Your value gets lowered. 2. Your value remains unchanged. 3. Your value increases. That’s right your value can increase when an insult is directed at you. The grenade attached to the HB8 you want to score disses on your purple shirt. You can A. lower you value buy acknowledging her comment therefore giving it life. Grenade: “That’s an awfully purple shirt for a guy don’t you think? It kinda reminds me of Barney.” PUA: “Well, I was told I look good in purple. HB8 Don’t you like my purple shirt” The problem is now you are chasing the frame validating the power of her comment over you. This is a major, dlv. You can try B. Ignore the comment and keep your value relatively the same. Grenade: “That’s an awfully purple shirt for a guy don’t you think? It kinda reminds me of Barney.” PUA: Ignore, pause…“Hey HB8, have you ever been to Maloney brew pub, downtown? ” This is better than option A because you aren’t feeding the beast so to speak. She threw the insult out there and you are effectively starving it to death. The frame hasn’t changed so your value remains stagnate. This isn’t necessarily bad, but you sir are a PUA, you can can do better. You can try C. You can pwn that chick and look like a freaking boss alpha. Grenade: “That’s an awfully purple shirt for a guy don’t you think? It kinda reminds me of Barney.” PUA: Hell, yeah. You just made my night. I wanted a shirt that showed my love for Barney and this was the biggest purple-est shirt I could find. My big bird yellow shirt with authentic real big bird feathers is sexy too, (playfully eyeing HB8) but tonight I wanted the world to know..(singing in a playfully sexy R&B style directly at HB8)I love you and you love me, we’re a happy family, with a great big hug and a kiss from me to you (end in a full on prince/ ginuwine/jodeci action now). Examaple 2: Grenade, you are dressed pretty well, are you gay? PUA: I'm not gay...I super gay. I'm so gay I can't even see straight. My ringtone is it's raining men and I love all the twilight movies, I'm team Jacob. So miss I'm not gay..(gay lisp) I'm thuper gay. If you take it to the ridiculous and make it a bigger better joke than they did, your value increases in the exchange and theirs lowers. Not only were you not affected...because you have big alpha balls you were merely amused at the attempt from such a petty little creature. Try it, you’ll thank me for it. It works everytime. Take it, ramp it up, and make it your own and crush them. Shout out to Fastidious for the inspiration to post this technique. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Tue May 14, 2013 3:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Wow... just... wow. Where do I even begin? First... how many fucking times did you type out value? LOL... to many. Wanna know the best way to handle an insult? Wait... Wait for it.... Hold.... HOLD........ Ignore it. Seriously. You don't have to get all nerdy with the "value" shit, just ignore it. The responses you say are the "best" are actually just really, really try hard. You are out having a good time talking to a cute girl, her having a good time with you, when her fat friend throws an insult at you... just kinda give her a "really? how lame" look and go back to having a good time with the cutie. Anymore than that is just silly, giving her to much attention, and try hard. And if you want to get nerdy, by exerting the least effort and showing you dont give a fuck, your value sky rockets. But hey, the whole community concept of "value" is retarded so lets not get nerdy. |
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| Author: | zmbcm1 [ Tue May 14, 2013 4:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
OP's option Cs are all screaming "TRYING WAY TOOO FUCKING HARDDDD" through 5 megaphones in all directions. Honestly, those are probably the worst suggestions of them all. It shows the HB that you're trying WAY TOO DAMN HARD to try to be that jolly funny awesome alpha guy. It won't work. Really dude? grab everyone and start singing the barney theme song? Are you trying to creep everyone out? Ignoring is the best option, unless you are really witty and can snap back a quick cocky funny response. Or sometimes you can just be a jackass. Don't underestimate the power of a well placed, properly executed "cool story babe/bro". |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Tue May 14, 2013 4:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
@Op You're over thinking it bro. |
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| Author: | Kino Suave [ Tue May 14, 2013 4:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Hey guys, I appreciate the feedback. I suppose we have a bit of a difference of opinion here based on styles. I consistently seduce women in 30 to 60 minutes without showing direct interest. after reviewing the links to the blog and links below i would be foolish to discredit you. That being said, I'm the "Gentleman Chauvinist" Kino Suave and my blogs and articles have been read over 90,000 times. My seduction style, book, video series, and blog articles are highly sought after for one reason, they work. This technique has been utilized very successfully by men all over the world. It works and it works well. it may not be your cup of tea, I.e. cocky funny for me, but it works without question. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Tue May 14, 2013 5:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Quote: Hey guys, I appreciate the feedback. I suppose we have a bit of a difference of opinion here based on styles. I consistently seduce women in 30 to 60 minutes without showing direct interest. after reviewing the links to the blog and links below i would be foolish to discredit you. That being said, I'm the "Gentleman Chauvinist" Kino Suave and my blogs and articles have been read over 90,000 times. My seduction style, book, video series, and blog articles are highly sought after for one reason, they work. This technique has been utilized very successfully by men all over the world. It works and it works well. it may not be your cup of tea, I.e. cocky funny for me, but it works without question.
Just stop. Its beyond obvious that you are full of shit. Stop trying to get validation from a bunch of guys on the net and go live life.
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| Author: | Kino Suave [ Tue May 14, 2013 5:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
yep, I'm trying to get a life on the internet. I see you are way to busy to hit that Google button. if you don't agree with my techniques fine. the fact remains, they work. guys that could benefit from them might read your comment and think you know something. or they could Google the title and get actual real world commentary from guys all over the world that have tried them. don't take my word for it. |
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| Author: | FlexBrah [ Tue May 14, 2013 5:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Bro you made a ridiculous thread then claim to seduce women in 30-60 min. Lol |
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| Author: | Kino Suave [ Tue May 14, 2013 5:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
You guys are funny. hit Google,. don't even bother to read my 48 articles that I will repeat have been read 90,000 times. ignore that all together. don't even read my fr or watch the scrap videos on YouTube. read the companion reports, or read the commentary of those using my technique. laugh all you want, then Google kino's sexual expectation, kino's 30 girls project 1 of 30, kino's speed sexual attraction verbal, if she doesn't want to get naked with you in 30 to 60 minutes then you are probably doing it wrong. |
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| Author: | zmbcm1 [ Tue May 14, 2013 7:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Quote: You guys are funny. hit Google,. don't even bother to read my 48 articles that I will repeat have been read 90,000 times. ignore that all together. don't even read my fr or watch the scrap videos on YouTube. read the companion reports, or read the commentary of those using my technique.
I don't care if you're the heir to the British throne, if you are getting a girl naked in 30-60 minutes she is either: a. hired or b. intoxicated beyond the point of being able to give legal consent.laugh all you want, then Google kino's sexual expectation, kino's 30 girls project 1 of 30, kino's speed sexual attraction verbal, if she doesn't want to get naked with you in 30 to 60 minutes then you are probably doing it wrong. The suggestions you wrote for handling the nade are awful. A WoW cave dwelling chump that has never seen a party might believe it, but I don't. I mean they're completely absurd. Furthermore, anyone who claims to have a surefire method "down" is usually full of it. I remember when I was dumb enough to think the Apocalypse Opener would work. I literally tried it like 30 times in random bars. Before you tell me I'm a creepy looking socially maladjusted chump, I've dated very decent looking girls beyond just your day 2s, and in to serious relationships. I was using AOs on completely mediocre bar girls, leagues below the girls I dated. They all shot it down. Every. single. one. Mind you I got them talking and nobody slapped me, but it was a disaster. That's when I swore off these idiotic fads and now I game naturally. No offense, but I don't think anyone with any level of experience will believe you for a minute. |
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| Author: | Kino Suave [ Tue May 14, 2013 1:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
You guys are awesome. I'm no longer going to attempt to get you too review the fr of anybody that has seen me in action. I will say this though, if she doesn't WANT to sleep with you in 30 to 60 minutes. if she isn't hotter for you than a fat man in July, then you aren't doing it right. eff number closes and d2's your seduction should be about complete at that point. all she needs is a location. the next thing I post here will be infield recordings, because you guys can't even wrap your minds around the concepts. |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Tue May 14, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
You can post infield recordings now in fact. I'm quite interested. Genuinely, not being sarcastic here. |
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| Author: | zmbcm1 [ Tue May 14, 2013 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Quote: You guys are awesome. I'm no longer going to attempt to get you too review the fr of anybody that has seen me in action. I will say this though, if she doesn't WANT to sleep with you in 30 to 60 minutes. if she isn't hotter for you than a fat man in July, then you aren't doing it right. eff number closes and d2's your seduction should be about complete at that point. all she needs is a location.
Nobody here WANTS you to be wrong, dude. Why would we WANT it to be impossible to sleep with a girl 30 minutes after meeting her? What you're doing is the equivalent of a guy coming to a flight enthusiast forum and claiming you can fly by flapping your arms. A bit less extreme, but you get the idea. the next thing I post here will be infield recordings, because you guys can't even wrap your minds around the concepts. I'm a gym/weight lifting junkie for 7 years counting, and every time I see a "GAIN 700% MORE MUSCLE MASS" ad I don't even bother proving why its BS anymore. Before, I'd actually run a full background check on the company, product, chemical, and scour pubmed for fulltext controlled studies, pore over the data and funding sources, conflicts of interests, systematic error, etc etc etc. Every single time, every supplement proved to be snake oil. I don't even bother anymore, because what's the point? Every single claim before has been wrong, and my time isn't worth the miniscule chance that some supplement comes out and actually makes you a tad big stronger. The problem with PU claims, is that there is no pubmed database for controlled PUA studies, just some field reports from non-randomized, non-pre selected guys with preconceived notions and biases. Therefore, you can't blame us for being just a tad bit skeptical of your claim. By all means post whatever you think helps make your case, but don't be offended if we are skeptical. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Tue May 14, 2013 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
I'm actually not against his claim of laying women in 30 - 60 minutes. Doing so only requires you to have a great eye at selecting horny women, and solid escalation skills. Also helps if its towards the end of the night and she has had a few to drink. My issue is that hes teaching stuff thats over the top stupid. I find it hard to believe that someone who teaches stuff this stupid has ever pulled a woman from a club, let alone pulled many of them in 30 - 60 minutes. Ive been in the community for over 6 years and I've become very good at spotting a KJ. Just saying. |
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| Author: | zmbcm1 [ Tue May 14, 2013 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Kino's How to Handle an Insult |
Quote: I'm actually not against his claim of laying women in 30 - 60 minutes. Doing so only requires you to have a great eye at selecting horny women, and solid escalation skills. Also helps if its towards the end of the night and she has had a few to drink.
Note, I was careful to make the distinction of "sober". I believe that you can get a drunk girl in bed in an hour. But I don't sleep with drunk girls. I don't need any statutory rape lawsuits in my closet.
My issue is that hes teaching stuff thats over the top stupid. I find it hard to believe that someone who teaches stuff this stupid has ever pulled a woman from a club, let alone pulled many of them in 30 - 60 minutes. Ive been in the community for over 6 years and I've become very good at spotting a KJ. Just saying. |
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