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Author:  Mister_GQ [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 8:55 am ]
Post subject:  she called me "doll"
so im texting this girl that i met 3days ago and found out she works at hooters after i #closed. anyways i texted her this after she told me she was working "haha, ill come visit u sometime, have fun" she replies 30mins ago i guess she just got off or something but it was "ok. you too. have a good one doll"

wtf? how should i interperet this?
im thinking that doll is very soon to be calling me that. i can tell u how the interaction from when i met her went, and it still confuses me.

heres the sarge story:

so im drinking at my friends dorm because its his bday, we didnt get shitty FYI just happy, anyways we walk to the bus stop and he calls these girls they come out and go out with is, there is one thats really really hot, so i try a simple hey whats up where u from demographics opener on her friend and then orient my self towards her and she doesn't reply so im like w/e fuck her (neg). i negged by not prodding her for a response, and then we get to the club and i didn't ask her to dance until after she saw me with at least 4 other girls. so i go for the dance and she gladly accepts. i made sure to pull her towards me and it was good from there, that was the intro to her. so then we have the real party on Saturday she gets there and is immediately talking to me and kino out the ass for a girl i didn't put much time into. so i wasn't trying to hook up because i had to make sure things didn't get out of hand, but she did ask me to show her where things were so i flirted and said yea its over there and then i rocked to show i was leaving, and shes like come with me. that was showing her to the keg, and then she asks for the bathroom, and i showed her that, was walking away and she was like you cant desert me here! so im like ur a big girl but ill keep u company. she didnt end up going because line was super long. so i showed that i wasnt commited to her again and went and opened another set to return to her later, but cops came so i # close sent a text which leads to my question.

(read the top first for those of you thinking that ur not gonna read because its too long the last paragraph is just background info)

thanks for the replies guys
Author:  Student X [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 9:19 am ]
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It's one of those things girls do, she likes to think she is gaming you,
when girls do this some guys get polite on them to perhaps in their AFC mind restore tensional balance (subconscious AFC programming), oscillating tension levels at your control are an integral and required tool for seduction.

One small example from me is, a friend who lives next to a pub, the barmaids in there are on him so bad, it beggars belief, but i can see he feels weird because they neg him way way too much (he isn't a pua).

So, i think the solution is, be Alpha, not Omega. Your doing very well, don't let this concern you too much, and good luck taking it where you want it.

Student X...
Author:  AK47 [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 1:46 pm ]
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could just b what she calls people, dont overanalyze such a tiny thing
Author:  Mister_GQ [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 7:37 pm ]
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ok, well what im gonna do is text her in a flirty way and judge her response, im not gonna call her cute becuase she doesnt deserve a compliment yet but ill be like "hey you! whats up"
Author:  Chino Kapone [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 8:09 pm ]
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I always like to throw in a chica, girlie, sport, dood. "Whats up sport?" could be a nice comeback to doll.
Author:  Mister_GQ [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 8:37 pm ]
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I always like to throw in a chica, girlie, sport, dood. "Whats up sport?" could be a nice comeback to doll.
haha i like that, ill look into little words like these, got any more?
Author:  Rye Lee [ Mon Feb 04, 2008 9:22 pm ]
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Cause she works at Hooters, she's probably just used to calling guys that all the time. So it's probably nothing, but the other possibility is that you haven't broken her out of her hired gun persona enough and she's using it as a shield.
Author:  Mister_GQ [ Tue Feb 05, 2008 12:47 am ]
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Cause she works at Hooters, she's probably just used to calling guys that all the time. So it's probably nothing, but the other possibility is that you haven't broken her out of her hired gun persona enough and she's using it as a shield.
i didnt meet her as a hired gun, i met her as a girl that i was clubbing with, but could she still have that persona even though i met her out of that context?
Author:  Ka [ Tue Feb 05, 2008 12:57 am ]
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Cause she works at Hooters, she's probably just used to calling guys that all the time. So it's probably nothing, but the other possibility is that you haven't broken her out of her hired gun persona enough and she's using it as a shield.
i didnt meet her as a hired gun, i met her as a girl that i was clubbing with, but could she still have that persona even though i met her out of that context?
Of course.

Secondly, its always a good idea to rush to a pet name. It has soo many powerful uses. You can use it to neg, to kinda compliment, to create banter, to get complaince, to show alpha traits, display disintrest, or create rapport.

There are some i stay away from, and others i really like. You can use them racially, situationally, or genrally.

I prefer Chica for latino girls (it means little girl), ill use Sniffles for a girl whos sick (or sniffles alot), Stretch (for short girls :P), Raven (if a girl has black hair), etc.

The best is if you go with the pet name, then later use a different name like thier real name...and they get disapointed or mention that you didnt use thier pet name. Then you can use the pet name as a reward when they comply or give you an IOI or do something you like.

I try to give a chick a pet name at least within the first few mins of meeting them. Ocasionally ill switch it up on them.

Im a big fan of pet names, but only giving them not receiving them...hope this helps.
Author:  Rye Lee [ Tue Feb 05, 2008 7:41 am ]
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Cause she works at Hooters, she's probably just used to calling guys that all the time. So it's probably nothing, but the other possibility is that you haven't broken her out of her hired gun persona enough and she's using it as a shield.
i didnt meet her as a hired gun, i met her as a girl that i was clubbing with, but could she still have that persona even though i met her out of that context?
Course she can, she spends more time at work than anywhere else and so it becomes a large part of her personality and an easy shield to use until she feels comfortable with a guy because it keeps them at a distance emotionally. I'd probably bust on her by saying something like, "Isn't that what you call customers at work?" That way she knows you know her game and she will try to defend herself, which makes her drop her shield.
Author:  Mister_GQ [ Tue Feb 05, 2008 7:53 pm ]
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true true, well what i did was call her sport, and then made a weird smiley, she didnt laugh so i busted on her by saying geez your a tough crowd! and she was like haha yada yada and then i got her to be jealous that got to go to the gym while she did bio homework. i think im doing good, any pointers to take down a hired gun in the future?
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