PUA Forum :: When she's interested and you're not

I get a lot of attention from girls who I have no interest in dating. This is the normal pattern for me -- I'm perfectly polite to them and they proceed to

1) Take this as a sign of interest and begin to flirt, possibly progressing into shit test.
2) Pick up on some hint that I'm not interested and decide that the appropriate response for them is to give me a hard time in retaliation / out of injured pride, or just progress to shit test out of interest.

Either way I get into a shit test or outright harassment dynamic often, or it ends up being the kind of situation where the girl on the playground who hits the boy she likes because she doesn't know what else to do. I get this at work all the time. The girls are attractive and desirable by many standards, but I'm not interested because they are too young, or too dumb, or simply because I don't think it's a good career move. I've got 3 naive little princesses who have gone through this de-evolution from crush to rivalry because I don't know how to handle my non-interest in them properly.

So in addition to learning shit tests, which are an occasional sticking point for me, I want to know: What 's the correct angle for tests and jests from females you aren't even interested in. It applies to the field, but is especially useful for girls you have to interact with daily. How do you deal with the kinds of behaviors girls go through when their interest isn't reciprocated? These chicks need a system.

Author:	sergeantpepper [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 6:47 am ]
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I get a lot of attention from girls who I have no interest in dating. This is the normal pattern for me -- I'm perfectly polite to them and they proceed to 1) Take this as a sign of interest and begin to flirt, possibly progressing into shit test. 2) Pick up on some hint that I'm not interested and decide that the appropriate response for them is to give me a hard time in retaliation / out of injured pride, or just progress to shit test out of interest. Either way I get into a shit test or outright harassment dynamic often, or it ends up being the kind of situation where the girl on the playground who hits the boy she likes because she doesn't know what else to do. I get this at work all the time. The girls are attractive and desirable by many standards, but I'm not interested because they are too young, or too dumb, or simply because I don't think it's a good career move. I've got 3 naive little princesses who have gone through this de-evolution from crush to rivalry because I don't know how to handle my non-interest in them properly. So in addition to learning shit tests, which are an occasional sticking point for me, I want to know: What 's the correct angle for tests and jests from females you aren't even interested in. It applies to the field, but is especially useful for girls you have to interact with daily. How do you deal with the kinds of behaviors girls go through when their interest isn't reciprocated? These chicks need a system.

Author:	Testicles [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 7:57 pm ]
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I usually practice on the girls and women I'm not interested in. Which, for the most part, represent 95% of all women in the world. Practice. Simple as that. You can say whatever runs through your mind that would otherwise appear offensive or whatnot(even though that's what you should do normally), you can do whatever you want (except rape - if she's really not into it). Use them as wodden targets for the real, fleshy ones. Even if you're not in the mood, go for it. It helps. I do it all the time.

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 1:27 am ]
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You have to use your leadership here. They will basically claw for your approval. Let them know that what they are doing at the workplace is disruptive and that you expect them to act professionally if not with each other at least around you. And you can also let them know that you are not looking for a relationship or to date at your work. If all else fails, just say you have a girlfriend...but use the gf as a last resort. Always be a gentleman, even if she gives you a hard time. They cannot really hate you if you have laid out the rules as I have said. Mr. A

Author:	skills360 [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 3:59 pm ]
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Quote: I get a lot of attention from girls who I have no interest in dating. This is the normal pattern for me -- I'm perfectly polite to them and they proceed to 1) Take this as a sign of interest and begin to flirt, possibly progressing into shit test. 2) Pick up on some hint that I'm not interested and decide that the appropriate response for them is to give me a hard time in retaliation / out of injured pride, or just progress to shit test out of interest. Either way I get into a shit test or outright harassment dynamic often, or it ends up being the kind of situation where the girl on the playground who hits the boy she likes because she doesn't know what else to do. I get this at work all the time. The girls are attractive and desirable by many standards, but I'm not interested because they are too young, or too dumb, or simply because I don't think it's a good career move. I've got 3 naive little princesses who have gone through this de-evolution from crush to rivalry because I don't know how to handle my non-interest in them properly. So in addition to learning shit tests, which are an occasional sticking point for me, I want to know: What 's the correct angle for tests and jests from females you aren't even interested in. It applies to the field, but is especially useful for girls you have to interact with daily. How do you deal with the kinds of behaviors girls go through when their interest isn't reciprocated? These chicks need a system. Dude you don't have to date them, you can fuck them. Now if they are clingers, you have to be a bit firm with them, ignore the shit test or just say ok... period, shit test overrated.

Author:	Pedobear 2013 [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 8:16 pm ]
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If what they're doing is affecting your happiness at the workplace or your ability to do your job, report them to your employer. They have a duty of care towards you.

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Author:	FlexBrah [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 12:07 am ]
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You could always fail shit tests intentionally if you want them to bug off lol. Or you can just tell them how you feel and avoid all the confusion.

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