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Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Have any of you ever used your pickup skills help someone

in your personal life like your friend –male or female– or used it to get back at someone who did you wrong (in this context, I don't mean a girl but another dude a.k.a. AMOG and not the good kind).

Say you have a girl who is your friend and you are tired of seeing her get hurt by some other dude. Do you go out of your way to take him down using your pickup skills?

Author:  Testicles [ Sat Mar 23, 2013 8:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Have any of you ever used your pickup skills help someon

I protect my group.

Author:  SilverTonguedFox [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 3:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Have any of you ever used your pickup skills help someon

Anyone in the past who used to tool my beta-self, I now make the extra effort to dominate and out-gun. It's at the point now where I am almost itching for them to try something.

Have tried using my experiences and skills to help my AFC beta friends, to help cut their learning curve and provide the push I wish someone had done with me (done myself). Some take it as gospel, others are too proud of being terrible with women and stubborn to admit of course.

-SilverTonguedFox

Author:  IttyBitty [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 3:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Have any of you ever used your pickup skills help someon

Yes. Take him down. If she get's sad because they break up, take her out, use her as a pivot. When using her, try to find sets with "the guy friend around" so she has a man to distract her while you're busy. Just don't treat her like a third wheel, that shit sucks :(

Author:  SE23 [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 10:16 pm ]
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Anyone in the past who used to tool my beta-self, I now make the extra effort to dominate and out-gun. It's at the point now where I am almost itching for them to try something.

Have tried using my experiences and skills to help my AFC beta friends, to help cut their learning curve and provide the push I wish someone had done with me (done myself). Some take it as gospel, others are too proud of being terrible with women and stubborn to admit of course.

-SilverTonguedFox
Hey mate, can you give some examples of when you have done this, Cheers

Author:  SilverTonguedFox [ Mon Mar 25, 2013 1:55 pm ]
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Hey mate, can you give some examples of when you have done this, Cheers
No dramas, i'll give examples of both.

Back in the day (years before PU), guys I knew used to tool me and make remarks all the time, because I was too weak to properly respond, was overly reactive, and was a soft target. Years later after high-school they ran into my PUA/alpha version and I made sure they knew I was now powerful, not to be crossed, and to be respected.

Old Asshole: (First meeting): "How is it? Are you still a pussy around girls?"

Myself: "Haha i'll give you girls to ask? Besides, this coming from the guy who hasn't hooked up in two years?" (Increased social circle/contacts gave me that juicy nugget). He wasn't keen to try much after that.

If past assholes try any old tricks, I make sure I passively hound/slightly bully them for the night's remainder, being dominant, owning the set, and isolating them out. I'm not one to AMOG until I see reason, but I do tend to hold slight grudges, just returning the favour.

I've tried with my AFC bros out in helping them cut the learning curve I took, such as telling one bro that he has to woo a girl at a nightspot (he expects because he knows her, and he walks the same way home, he will get lucky). It's a hug at the door every time. I tell him a tree doesn't grow in 20 minutes, that he has to escalate, he can't switch on immediately and start feeling her up at her front-porch.

I push them all the time to make approaches and break new ground. Also work on giving them pointers on how to better handle themselves as men (most phase-shift when speaking to women and go into interview mode), to not be overly smiley, be firm and be a leader, always make the decisions etc. Even small pointers on never talking about girl's other boy-interests (fast track to friendzoning). That men do not spill their feelings and heart to escalate with a gal (I was guilty of this, friendzoned), they escalate steadily, physically, and keep things physical. That they can keep a love interest hot without ever admitting infatuation.

-SilverTonguedFox

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