That, my friends, is a paradox that has riddled the pick-up community for centuries. . .

If she is under the impression that y'all were "meant to be together", and she slept with you for a reason other than just sex(you know. . .a relationship?), then how does a PUA leave her in a better state of mind?

Physically, she is satisfied. But emotionally, she is unsatisfied. Here is where the Paradox comes into play. . .

The way i looked at and accepted it is that she learns a lesson from being played. The only way to learn that lesson is the hard way and everyone is jaded somewhere along the line as cynacle as that sounds. It kinda slimy but thats the only way someone knows how to avoid a shitty relationship. No wonder there are so many women with intamacy and trust issues. Another way i can see it is that she should at least be happy that she ever met you.

The way i looked at and accepted it is that she learns a lesson from being played. The only way to learn that lesson is the hard way and everyone is jaded somewhere along the line as cynacle as that sounds. It kinda slimy but thats the only way someone knows how to avoid a shitty relationship. No wonder there are so many women with intamacy and trust issues. Another way i can see it is that she should at least be happy that she ever met you.

So have we established that the only way of ensuring you don't end up doing any damage is to make your intentions clear to the target (at the risk of losing her)?

So have we established that the only way of ensuring you don't end up doing any damage is to make your intentions clear to the target (at the risk of losing her)?

There you go. Is that so hard?

Nope, it is a bummer though. If only there was some kind of remedy you could apply afterwards... That would be quite the discovery.

She learns a lesson from being played when she's picked up by you. I see. So, in other words, you're one of those guys that give the rest of us a bad name. How sad.

Why do you need two ways of looking at it? Just in case one rationalization fails to do the trick? This is one of the most fucked up things I've read in awhile. Why do women need any help being jaded?

Whoa man wtf. You severely misinterpereted what i said. I said "played" not "picked up". I am refering to the scenario that you are ultimately using her for sex. I am not a player and am not considered one by anyone to the best of my knowlege. I just know that i dated some heartbreakers in my day and thru all the pain it am glad i met her cuz i taght me some life lessons. These things are an important part of handling future relationships.
You too have took what i wrote out of context. Why would they need help? They wouldnt cuz like i said its a part of life for most people. youre just straight attacking me asshole. Get on with with that shit and go self improve.