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| Author: | Testicles [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Problems with physical escalation? |
Hey. As I'm working my game everyday, I noticed that I'm not so great at physically escalating. It's simply not my thing. A bit of context here: My mindset and frame are both strong, I know how to talk, I know how to give hints (though I'm more on the "whatever" side more often than not), and I'm finally beginning to actually notice interest hints given to me. Slowly but surely. To sum things up, I talk game. And it's mainly because I just want to have a bit of fun and that's it. As I've stated in my other posts, the interest for most women is not there for me. But I enjoy having fun as much as the next guy. In the future, when some chick will eventually catch my eye, I want to be prepared. In conclusion, there are three questions I need answers for: 1. Is it possible to game a chick without sexual escalation, as in, only "verbal game"? 2. How can I improve in this aspect? How can I learn how, when and if I should escalate or kino? 3. Best and most effective examples are most appreciated. That's it. Thanks for hearing me out. |
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| Author: | Testicles [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 9:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Problems with physical escalation? |
No one? |
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| Author: | PUA Reality [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 9:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Problems with physical escalation? |
Your problem is that you have escalation anxiety, just like AA its something you will probably always have just force yourself to do it. If its something that you have had problems with while already into adulthood, it is probably something that causes anxiety and needs a lot of mental "push" in order to do. Just keep trying to force yourself to do something. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Problems with physical escalation? |
Baby steps, start small, maybe a hand shake, then a handshake with kiss on the side of the cheek, then after as you talking the shoulder... Take maybe a salsa class where there is tons of contact... Read warped mindless esp model or escalation... Some people like Vin Dicarlo escalation ladder... Take action... Stop saying you suck at escalating, we all sucked at one point of another... |
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