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| Author: | Zelda [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 6:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Can someone please tell me why I feel like this... |
My girlfriend of one year, who is at university along with me, has got a musical show coming up, she loves to sing, and she obviously wants me to go and see her... but the problem is, I really don't want to! All her friends are going, some of these friends are people I know and are also friends with, and I'm just sick of hearing about it. She absolutely LOVES impressing people, she is popular but that is because she is so unnecessarily nice to everyone. She's great when it's just us two but I don't like what she's like with her friends. I think deep down that might be the reason I don't want to go. I don't want to be sitting there as just another person she's invited, since she's invited loads of people to see her. It's like I feel that I am in the same category as her friends by going. Maybe if I was the only person who she knew who was going, I'd be happy... but doesn't that just make me a control freak who can't accept that she is loved by other people? Or is it simply because I believe she is slightly fake around other people that I don't want to be apart of that? OR Is it a value thing? Where her value is so high that I can't accept it? Am I being a big baby about this? I just find it weird that I feel so strongly about not wanting to go, and can't really explain why I feel like this? What should I do? Go and accept it, or make a reason why I won't be able to go? I know this might sound stupid to some, but I am honestly very curious as to why I feel like this! I guess this is more about MY issues than issues with her, but thought I'd try my luck anyways and see what advice I receive. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 8:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can someone please tell me why I feel like this... |
Post this in the Relationships forum bro. |
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| Author: | User13247 [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 10:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can someone please tell me why I feel like this... |
Quote: I guess this is more about MY issues than issues with her, but thought I'd try my luck anyways and see what advice I receive.
I don't think you necessarily have an issue, I think you just don't like her friends that much. You may not want to go for your own amusement, but supporting your girlfriend in this manner should be reason enough. If you are unwilling to make that sacrifice, then don't, but do ask yourself if you are really with the right person if that's the case (and prepare for a shit storm from the girlfriend). She's going to have friends and interact with them the way she does, that's not going to change simply because you don't like it.
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